# Why hello everybody... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 27, 2009, 2:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418 "2009-01-27T14:27:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Nickham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Nickham](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nickham)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 2:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418/1 "2009-01-27T14:27:48Z")
My name is Graham Tuttle and I’m 18, living in the Carolinas. I’ve always been curious (and skeptical) about the use of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). But now after a nasty break-up, I want to get back together with my ex and thought that maybe pheromones could help out. She means a lot to me and I hope things can work out. But thanks for allowing me to take part in this forum and feel free to say hello and tell me about yourself too! Cheers, -Graham ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 2:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418/2 "2009-01-27T14:31:23Z")
Hi Graham, Welcome to the forum. It is normal to be sleptical I was very skeptical u til I use ut myself. I suggest IH, IFM. IH will make her close to you again., She will talk personal to you. IFM will make her intimate again. She will feel comnfortable and relax beside you. She will love to stay by your side. Good luck to you ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 2:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418/3 "2009-01-27T14:34:51Z")
Hi Graham firstly, pheros can’t perform miracles, you need to examine why the breakup happened and is that something you can change. even if you can, it’s likely to be a long hard process. we could really do with knowing more about you, read the gift certificate thread in the new users section, that shows you what we need to know so as to advise properly. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 2:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418/4 "2009-01-27T14:43:17Z")
Hello Graham and welcome to the forum. All of us were a little skeptical at first. But we are still here becuase the products work. I think Diamond and JB have given you some good feedback. The pheros give you and edge - nothing more. If you want to “win back the girl” then like Diamond said you really need to take a good look at the relationship and yourself. And as stated earlier we really need to know a little more about you and your personality in order to really make some good recommendations. Hope to hear back from you soon. ---
**Author:** ![Nickham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Nickham](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nickham)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 2:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418/5 "2009-01-27T14:48:08Z")
Thanks Jamesbonded and Diamond… And yes Diamond I completely understand that pheromones cannot perform miracles and that _I_ am the only one who can make that miracle happen as I am not some naive, uninspired 18 year old. I only intended to look into them as a minor supplement to my attempt to try to rekindle our relationship instead of relying on them as the only means. But thanks for your insight and I hope that this will all work out. Why exactly do I want to experiment with pheromones? Well, it’s mainly because of curiosity and skepticism. However, every little thing helps… How did I hear about pheromones? I am a part-time internet marketer and I have read about them while researching for products to promote. However, again I have always been skeptical of them and promoting them as I don’t want to promote “bogus” products. Other than that, I’m about to begin attending a university here in South Carolina and I enjoy playing all kinds of sports along with writing and playing music on the guitar. 😃 Thanks all, -Graham ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 2:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418/6 "2009-01-27T14:56:41Z")
Right, I’m not going to name names but, given your job, you will have seen plenty of scams out there, this ain’t one of them. Androtics has the highest ethics and best customer service I have seen, ever. Any business who can get a product out of the door, across the US and Atlantic and to my door in the back end of nowhere, England within 72 hours (every time) has got to be good. That’s why we stay with them, plus the products are awesome. As you’re 18, first piece of advice. Don’t get hung up on the sexual pheromones, ammo, Turn up the Heat etc, they have their place but you need to concentrate on the relationship (social) pheromones. For the same reason, I would suggest you look at Instant Gentleman rather than A314, you would find that one hard to carry off. You seem pretty confident however, Instant Shine never hurts and does exactly what you would think from looking at the name. Oh, and my favourite which is fabulous for relationship issues, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), that one, coupled with Instant Honesty, helped save my marriage ( and I don’t exaggerate, much 😉). There’s a link to bosshank’s married guys thread in my sig below, read it, it’s equally valid for relationship issues as it is for guys who have been married for 30 years plus. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2009, 1:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-hello-everybody/25418/7 "2009-01-28T13:22:56Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My name Is Tisha and I am the hostess and adviser here on PT. First no one thinks you a naive uninspired 18 year old. There are a lot of misconceptions out there about mones because of shady affiliate sites and dishonest mone dealers and normally with skeptical members we have to clear that up before they can take mones seriously and approach them with a open mind and understanding of what they do. You can suggest Androtics mones to friends and family be they do not offer a affiliate or marketing programs just so you know. We ask all the questions to get a better feel for what products will suit your needs and because there are requirements for your GC which are listed here… [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) Now You qualify for your GC but if you want the products that will closely aid you in getting to your objective I need a little more information about why you broke up. Nothing to personal just in general. Was there someone else, Did you grow apart, Did you have a fight, Was there a trust or respect issue. Just general stuff like that because different products here evoke different emotions and outcomes to those emotions. Mones are not simple like spraying on a any old mix and having them cover every emotion or problem. The just aid you in bringing feelings and emotions out in the open more so you can deal with them. Right now I would say AMMO for arousal and attraction. IH for connection and communication. Ishine for charisma charm and draw. They have small to go bottles so you can check things out before investing a lot. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Tisha