# Why Men Love Prostitutes **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [June 18, 2009, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990 "2009-06-18T23:58:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 10
**Author:** ![chads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@chads](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chads)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2009, 9:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/181 "2009-06-29T21:15:56Z")
How many alphas wouldn’t be caught dead using pheromones? How many alphas use them and don’t admit to their use in public because of perception? There are people who don’t do things because they see it as a sign of weakness, but that doesn’t mean it is a sign of weakness. I agree that pigeonholing people has limited value. ---
**Author:** ![chads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@chads](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chads)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2009, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/182 "2009-06-29T21:25:53Z")
> [@diane999](#): > > It isn’t about being seen by anyone or caring what others think that keeps an alpha away from prostitutes. It seems impossible for some of you to grasp that some men don’t even consider it, would never consider it, and have refused to go when buddies have suggested it. To some people (I’m referring to them as alphas, you can call them whatever you like) going to a prostitute is low behavior, behavior that is out of character for them. My husband falls into this category, as do most of the men I know. > > This is my last point and then I’ll leave this alone. If you feel the laws are unfair or don’t reflect what you want, do your best to change them. Children sit around and whine about what their parents did. Adults do something to bring about changes. > > If you are right that these laws are outdated and do not reflect today’s morals and ideology it should be relatively easy for you to get the old laws repealed and new ones instituted. > > Diane The place where you are losing me is when you say ALL alphas stay away from prostitutes. It isn’t impossible for me to grasp that SOME men or even MOST don’t consider it. It seems impossible for you to grasp that SOME alphas might consider it in some circumstances. The laws here in Canada are pretty good. The stance here is what consenting adults do behind closed doors is none of the government’s business. Street walkers and their johns are fair game for police. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2009, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/183 "2009-06-29T21:43:27Z")
> [@chads](#): > > The place where you are losing me is when you say ALL alphas stay away from prostitutes. It isn’t impossible for me to grasp that SOME men or even MOST don’t consider it. It seems impossible for you to grasp that SOME alphas might consider it in some circumstances. > > The laws here in Canada are pretty good. The stance here is what consenting adults do behind closed doors is none of the government’s business. Street walkers and their johns are fair game for police. yah…i got lost on that as well…i work with an all male workforce in a warehouse…all the guys that have visited prosittutes are alpha males…so the whole thing about alpha males not visiting prostitutes seemed like either they were putting on a show to keep up appearances, or they were so closed minded that they haven’t considered extreme circumstances like what if they got into a wreck and got hideously deformed? words like “never” and “always” and “all” scream out low levels of thought to me. ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2009, 6:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/184 "2009-06-30T18:22:22Z")
Having sex with a prostitute has a very LOW probablity of procreation. That’s why it’s a vice - the men are just fooling themselves. I tried it once and was rather disappointed. No interest in paying again - give me a woman who is driven by her own libido. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2009, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/185 "2009-07-01T00:53:10Z")
well i personally have never paid for sex, nor am i planing to anytime in the near future…but i do appreciate the fact that that option is there. it’s like an insurance policy you know? like i mentioned earlier…what if i have a stroke or something and even the least desirable women around consider themselves “out of my league” then i’m glad an alternative exists. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2009, 6:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/186 "2009-07-01T18:41:58Z")
> [@meow333x](#): > > what if i have a stroke… LOL, funny pun 😉 ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2009, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/187 "2009-07-01T21:04:53Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > LOL, funny pun 😉 hehe yup it slipped 😃 ---
**Author:** ![niccla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/2acd7d/32.png) [@niccla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/niccla)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2009, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/188 "2009-07-21T19:40:12Z")
I think it might have something to do with the fact that a guy can be himself with a prostitute. He isn’t worried about the impression he is making. He doesn’t have to ‘care’ about her feelings. There is no game being played, everything is out in the open, without gamble of rejection, set price, no illusion. The level of expectations are less, so he can feel like a king - regardless of outcome. ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 5:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/189 "2009-07-22T05:56:54Z")
[www.establishedmen.com/media](http://www.establishedmen.com/media) Basically a dating site for prostitutes and sugar daddies. ---
**Author:** ![sleekll](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sleekll/32/946_2.png) [@sleekll](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sleekll)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 7:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/190 "2009-07-22T07:02:01Z")
this thread is a sweeping generalization and pretty offensive. if you guys were trying to make controversy good job. ---
**Author:** ![marksuave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e19b73/32.png) [@marksuave](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marksuave)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/191 "2009-07-22T16:29:25Z")
Electra has it mostly right, but there is also the electrifying aspect of incredible creative heady sex, off the charts, which is hit or miss with a woman you meet at some venue . Therefore, a reasonable amount of safe sex with prostitutes that you have properly vetted is almost required for the 21st Century playboy . Plus, when you use the nomes properly in this context, and you already know when you meet the experienced lady that you are headed for one thing only, her sexual energy becomes mind-bendingly explosive . You think TUTH is powerful, you have no idea how incredible the effect is in this kind of circumstance . > [@ElectraComplex](#): > > I think combination of sexual technique,multiple partners oh and here’s my big vote less drama.(unless you get busted!!) > > Sometimes guys just want sex no strings attached,sometimes they just want to get off and masturbation frankly gets old after awhile. > > Girls well sometimes we get more invested emotionally than we should over sex. > > Just my opinion everyone is different and does things for different reasons. ---
**Author:** ![niccla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/2acd7d/32.png) [@niccla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/niccla)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 6:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/192 "2009-07-22T18:22:51Z")
I have no idea why that youtube link was posted… This thread wasn’t about ‘hooking’ up with a prostitue - it was about the reasons that men like to avail of their services.😕 ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 8:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/193 "2009-07-22T20:16:36Z")
> [@sleekll](#): > > this thread is a sweeping generalization and pretty offensive. if you guys were trying to make controversy good job. generalizations how? offensive to whom? ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 8:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/194 "2009-07-22T20:18:54Z")
> [@marksuave](#): > > Electra has it mostly right, but there is also the electrifying aspect of incredible creative heady sex, off the charts, which is hit or miss with a woman you meet at some venue . Therefore, a reasonable amount of safe sex with prostitutes that you have properly vetted is almost required for the 21st Century playboy . Plus, when you use the nomes properly in this context, and you already know when you meet the experienced lady that you are headed for one thing only, her sexual energy becomes mind-bendingly explosive . You think TUTH is powerful, you have no idea how incredible the effect is in this kind of circumstance . so you have some personal experience eh? please do share…that’s what this thread was intended for 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2009, 7:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/195 "2009-07-26T07:24:20Z")
I only got halfway through the thread but here are my thoughts why men see prostitutes: I do not think it is that complicated it is pretty simple: 1. men are married and bored with their wives and looking for something different that either their wives will not do in bed, or their wives are not giving it to them at home 2. guy just not in the mood to try to find a date and play the game and just horny and needs a quick fix and has money, and does not want to go through the whole take me out to dinner and get involved with a relationship, and just spend one hour and have some mind blowing sex This whole alpha/beta i don’t think applies at all..because if you look at the people who frequent prostitutes you will find all sorts of men, from upper class politicians, to presidents, to CEO’s and everyone else. Prostitution is the oldest profession and you know if they made it legal they can tax the heck out of it and maybe help us out of the recession and stop wasting police and our courts on it. I always found it funny…that a man and woman are allowed to have sex, and if there is a camera there and they are making a porno and getting paid for it is is legal, but if a man wants to hire a prostitute it is illegal, only difference is the camera Some things just do not make sense . Personally I am not one to judge what people do. ---
**Author:** ![MrRJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f05b48/32.png) [@MrRJ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrRJ)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2009, 5:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/196 "2009-07-27T05:56:42Z")
I’d like to point out that not all men like prostitutes. I personally have no interest in seeing a prostitute and to me, it almost feels like admitting defeat that you couldnt get it without paying for it! I know people go for many different reasons though, so good luck with finding a definitive answer. ---
**Author:** ![otter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/898d66/32.png) [@otter](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/otter)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2009, 6:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/197 "2009-07-27T06:40:11Z")
> [@diane999](#): > > I agree with you that nothing is ever as simple as it sounds. And no matter what the model people are complex critters. > > Sorry if I came across as a little too confrontational and shocking. Sometimes that is the only way to really blast open stereotypes. And that was my only intention. > > I absolutely agree with you that there should never be a monogamous person involved with a non-monogamous person. It never fails to produce an enormous amount of senseless pain. > > The problem I’ve had in the past is with a certain few guys who are not monogamous telling me that I have to accept that all guys are that way. Well, I never believed it, I chose to not be involved with them and I went on to marry a wonderful monogamous guy. > > The other problem I’ve had in the past is watching a certain few female friends believe that they were the “one” that would change their cheating partners, because they were somehow special. In every case the cheating boyfriend lead them on, carrot on a stick, that, yes, _maybe_ they were the one. I’ve stood by as they took the blame for their boyfriends behavior, while the boyfriend blamed them for it. I’ve been there to help pick up the pieces when the illusion bubbles burst finally and the lie was exposed. Just more senseless and devastating pain. > > From my perspective in the above incidents the guys were all total shits, selfish, self-absorbed, and uncaring of the shit-piles of misery they left behind. And, frankly, I don’t care what their self-images or self-stories were/are, or what theories they tell themselves and each other and others about why they do what they do, or how they justify their behaviors. > > When/if they learn to consider the consequences for their actions on others and take some responsibility to limit the damage they do, then I’m willing to dialog, because at least then they would be on the road to maturity. Until then, they can all just stay out of my life and out of my way. > > Diane sounds good to me, sounds like life to me..😛 LOL 😮 ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 7:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/198 "2009-09-04T07:43:07Z")
dis thread be back 😃 ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 7:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/199 "2009-09-04T07:50:03Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > Lol, you have a good point. > > So when are we moving to Amsterdam? 😃 > > Seriously though I think legalization of prositution is a good thing because that way men can separate their sexual and emotional needs. If you feel sexual go to an escort and when you feel emotional go to your wife/girlfriend. This way everyone is happy. yes and no…in my opinion it would be great for men but suck for women. pussy power won’t exist anymore lol. ---
**Author:** ![chads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@chads](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chads)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 2:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/200 "2009-09-04T14:07:32Z")
Here are a couple of interesting post from Tacitus on the subject. Mmmmmm… as with all things, the unintended consequences begin to compete with the desired outcome… although I’m no so sure how carefully these decisions are considered… Here in the USA there has been a veritable explosion in the Sex Worker industry… so much so that in the Upper east Side of Manhattan you have west of Lexington Ave, which is the land of billionaires, high profile marriage, and so on. Then you have east of Lexington which is a warren of “service providers” where the gentlemen to the west can unburden themselves… I think it was reasoned through that paying up front, by the hour, was a far better choice, economically, and frequently emotionally, than engaging in these abnormal pas de deux that are supposed to serve as “meaningful relationships”… so one must ask, in all seriousness, who are the real whores here ? The one who puts her cards on the table, gives a man an hour or two of great sex, some intelligent companionship, bolsters his ego, accepts an established rate, and leaves no mess in her wake, in other words, an honest player in the scheme of things ??.. or.. the one who goes through the motions, feigns whatever is needed to establish matrimonial symmetry, and then somehow arrives at the conclusion that the whole thing was a horrible mistake and wants out, and her lawyer will be in touch shortly ? I’d extend myself on this one and say, at least among the rich to the super-rich, that the greatest whores, in the fullest sense of the word whore, are those who go to the greatest lengths to present themselves as otherwise… among the sex workers I have known, some quite well, they may be sexual and make no apologies for being sexual, over and above that, people of infinitely greater integrity than the hustlers working the bars, clubs, restaurants, the same ones who would be horrified and insulted if you called them to their faces exactly what they are… Every time the legal system “wins”.. the real underpinnings of relationships and marriage break down… most women I know, once you cross a threshold of intimacy, initiate The Marriage Conversation… and more and more men that I know, and this includes middle class guys who don’t want the extra grief… especially guys who have been through one divorce and got the full taste of the process, are choosing the sex worker option… there are better, more professional sex worker websites with ratings systems, and so on… it’s becoming a legitimate professsion, like gambling, excuse me “gaming”, was a generation ago, taboo then, normal accepted thing to do now… the family values movement is pulling in one direction, telling folks what they ought to do, cool clear reality is pulling in another direction… a few hundred for some outstanding sex, as needed, no muss, no fuss is sooooo much easier than complicated, convoluted relationships, or option B, wasted time and hangovers from bars, or option C, screwed up marriages that turn into shouting matches and the constant threat of going legal… you know the number of times I’ve heard tell of an argument escalating into “I’m seeing my lawyer TOMORROW MORNING !”… Personally, I think this dynamic is heavily engineered by the legal industry itself, which is the primary beneficiary of human strife, and therefore has perfected th art of maximizing matrimonial strife as a matter of professional competence… since the rude stats are at least 35% of marriages end in divorce… not the 50% often quoted, but 35% is high enough… Can we see where this is all going ? Obviously the Sex Worker industry is going to gain ground, with more levels, up to something like rent-a-wife or neo-Geishae.. And if the pundits and moralists and flag wavers can’t deal with it, they’re going to get awful sore necks looking in the other direction… which will generate a boom in Chiropractic services… [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990.md?page=9) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990.md?page=11)