# Why Men Love Prostitutes **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [June 18, 2009, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990 "2009-06-18T23:58:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 11
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/201 "2009-09-04T23:59:06Z")
> [@Tigerlilly](#): > > Because they can get it when they want it, at a fair price. Cheaper than jewelry, dinner, a house, a car, a marriage… Basically this is the correct answer. I dont know why people make fun of people who go to prostitutes while at the same time they actually are the ones who get to have sex with better looking women, whenever they want, whichever they want, and most importantly at cheaper price. Prostitution should be legalized. > [@](#): > > I’d like to point out that not all men like prostitutes. I personally have no interest in seeing a prostitute and to me, it almost feels like admitting defeat that you couldnt get it without paying for it! Everyone pays indirectly or directly for sex. You are naive to think otherwise. > [@](#): > > yes and no…in my opinion it would be great for men but suck for women. pussy power won’t exist anymore lol. It would suck for shallow women, but it would be good for open minded women. As I said if prostitution was legal and it was no longer taboo, then women could find men who were genuinely interested in them emotionally more easily because their sexual needs would be met elsewhere therefore they could focus more on emotional basis with their partners. > [@](#): > > I always found it funny…that a man and woman are allowed to have sex, and if there is a camera there and they are making a porno and getting paid for it is is legal, but if a man wants to hire a prostitute it is illegal, only difference is the camera Lol, dude. I never thought of it that way. > [@](#): > > It isn’t about being seen by anyone or caring what others think that keeps an alpha away from prostitutes. It seems impossible for some of you to grasp that some men don’t even consider it, would never consider it, and have refused to go when buddies have suggested it. To some people (I’m referring to them as alphas, you can call them whatever you like) going to a prostitute is low behavior, behavior that is out of character for them. My husband falls into this category, as do most of the men I know. This is because when the word ‘prostitution’ is heard most people including men tend to think of ugly and dirty whores standing on the sidewalks at nights. But if prostitution was legalized and all sex workers were employed at nice and clean looking brothels like in Nevada and regularly checked for diseases then the impression of prostitution would change as well. > [@](#): > > But the rub is that women want sex too. We just don’t want it with _just anybody or anything._ > > And that is the difference. > > I swear some guys would fuck a dead fish if you put lipstick on it (or maybe even without). 😮 > > The other difference is women never _have to_ pay for it. Some guys, evidently, do. The only difference is testosterone level. Not anything you mentioned above. Women arent more moral or more able to control themselves when it comes to sexual desire. Its very misleading. They just dont get as much urge. Its as stupid as saying that white people can stand sun rays without getting skin cancer as much black people but black people can control their bodies’ immune system more so that is why there are more white people suffering from skin cancer. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2009, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/202 "2009-09-05T14:44:29Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > Basically this is the correct answer. > > I dont know why people make fun of people who go to prostitutes while at the same time they actually are the ones who get to have sex with better looking women, whenever they want, whichever they want, and most importantly at cheaper price. > > Prostitution should be legalized. > > Everyone pays indirectly or directly for sex. > > You are naive to think otherwise. > > It would suck for shallow women, but it would be good for open minded women. As I said if prostitution was legal and it was no longer taboo, then women could find men who were genuinely interested in them emotionally more easily because their sexual needs would be met elsewhere therefore they could focus more on emotional basis with their partners. > > Lol, dude. I never thought of it that way. > > This is because when the word ‘prostitution’ is heard most people including men tend to think of ugly and dirty whores standing on the sidewalks at nights. > > But if prostitution was legalized and all sex workers were employed at nice and clean looking brothels like in Nevada and regularly checked for diseases then the impression of prostitution would change as well. > > The only difference is testosterone level. Not anything you mentioned above. > > Women arent more moral or more able to control themselves when it comes to sexual desire. Its very misleading. They just dont get as much urge. > > Its as stupid as saying that white people can stand sun rays without getting skin cancer as much black people but black people can control their bodies’ immune system more so that is why there are more white people suffering from skin cancer. very well put…but you know all the women that post here have to defend their honor and shit like that…whateva. and the media doesn’t help…i was watching that idiot show sex and the city with my lady friend the other nite…it was so dumb. is that a common female fantasy? that successful men chase middle aged women? “well i’ve made my millions, and now i’m bored so i’m gonna hit the bars for some middle aged hoes” wtf? i was just waiting to see a spaceship land in the middle of new york..at least that would have been plausable. ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2009, 7:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/203 "2009-09-05T19:34:40Z")
The root issue is that sex has become separate from reproduction. Before contraception, sex had high consequence to the woman physically, and to the man socially. Society had to hold men accountable since otherwise the burden of child support would fall to the family of the woman and often on society as a whole (as in village.) That’s the original meaning of “bastard” and why it is NOT a term of endearment. Our bodies still associate the two and we continually work to trick ourselves that we can have the feelings and pleasures of sex without the consequences. I prefer girlfriend and wife sex because at least there is some indication from the woman that she’s interested in making my babies. With a whore, I can’t fool myself and won’t even try - I’m just not that stupid. Will I have one night stands? Certainly - the woman has acknowledged to me that I’m at least worthy of making babies beyond the cash-on-the night-stand qualification. If you other guys and gals want to participate in the sex trade, fine with me. I’ll conserve my efforts to women who appreciate my sperm quality. Ultimately, the most satisfying and pleasurable sex is with a woman when you both want children together. I’ve been blessed to have those moments and will relish the memories forever. ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/204 "2009-09-08T14:40:00Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > Basically this is the correct answer. > > I dont know why people make fun of people who go to prostitutes while at the same time they actually are the ones who get to have sex with better looking women, whenever they want, whichever they want, and most importantly at cheaper price. > > Prostitution should be legalized. > > Everyone pays indirectly or directly for sex. > > You are naive to think otherwise. > > It would suck for shallow women, but it would be good for open minded women. As I said if prostitution was legal and it was no longer taboo, then women could find men who were genuinely interested in them emotionally more easily because their sexual needs would be met elsewhere therefore they could focus more on emotional basis with their partners. > > Lol, dude. I never thought of it that way. > > This is because when the word ‘prostitution’ is heard most people including men tend to think of ugly and dirty whores standing on the sidewalks at nights. > > But if prostitution was legalized and all sex workers were employed at nice and clean looking brothels like in Nevada and regularly checked for diseases then the impression of prostitution would change as well. > > The only difference is testosterone level. Not anything you mentioned above. > > Women arent more moral or more able to control themselves when it comes to sexual desire. Its very misleading. They just dont get as much urge. > > Its as stupid as saying that white people can stand sun rays without getting skin cancer as much black people but black people can control their bodies’ immune system more so that is why there are more white people suffering from skin cancer. i think prostitution should be legalized for several reasons: 1. would stop the illegal sex trafficing that goes in this country, because women would have to register and everything would be in the open, 2. it would be taxed, so government can make money off of it 3. I never understand what is wrong with it…pornography is legal..which is two people having sex, only difference is a camera there…what is the difference between pornography and a prostitute? ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 9:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/205 "2009-09-08T21:02:49Z")
From one of my favorite philosophers: > [@](#): > > A whore should be judged by the same criteria as other professionals offering services for pay–such as dentists, lawyers, hairdressers, physicians, plumbers, etc. Is she professionally competent? Does she give good measure? Is she honest with her clients? It is possible that the percentage of honest and competent whores is higher than that of plumbers and much higher than that of lawyers. And enormously higher than that of professors. –Lazerous Long ---
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2009, 9:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/206 "2009-09-09T09:30:19Z")
I think if prostitution were legal the free market will force brothels to offer competitive prices. Right now prostitution is like drugs. It cost too much ROSES! Lolz. > [@](#): > > 1. would stop the illegal sex trafficing that goes in this country, because women would have to register and everything would be in the open, Actually according to research legalization of prostitution in Holland increased women trafficking in Europe. I think if prostitution becomes legal the government has to implement harsh regulation. ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2009, 1:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/207 "2009-09-09T13:09:42Z")
> [@jankren](#): > > I think if prostitution were legal the free market will force brothels to offer competitive prices. > > Right now prostitution is like drugs. It cost too much ROSES! Lolz. > > Actually according to research legalization of prostitution in Holland increased women trafficking in Europe. I think if prostitution becomes legal the government has to implement harsh regulation. see i find that odd…because right now there is a lot of it going in this country, if it went legal and you had legal brothels, i don’t see how it would not be reduced? I know in Nevada for example where in certain places it is legal they have all ladies who do it out of their own free will. In fact there are so many ladies who are working there they do not even need to place advertising to get women. Why would someone go to a place that is not legal vs going to a legal establishment? once everything was made legal? It makes no sense. Basically once you make it legal you take the criminal element out of it. I would like to see a report on why making it legal would increase it because it does not make sense to me. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2009, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/208 "2009-09-09T19:25:57Z")
the quality of hookers in the us sucks too. i’ve seen specials on nevada brothels and i gotta say…most of those women would have to pay ME to sleep with them. ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2009, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/209 "2009-09-09T20:02:40Z")
> [@meow333x](#): > > the quality of hookers in the us sucks too. i’ve seen specials on nevada brothels and i gotta say…most of those women would have to pay ME to sleep with them. well beats me…i don’t know or can report on quality ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2009, 5:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/210 "2009-09-10T05:24:11Z")
> [@denec](#): > > well beats me…i don’t know or can report on quality lol. hbo-home boob office ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2009, 9:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/211 "2009-09-15T21:10:11Z")
I don’t know if it is correct to ask why “Men Love Prostitutes”? Do we really love prostitutes? I remember when I was in school, prostitutes seemed pretty intriguing, but as I’ve gotten older it has been my experience that the great majority of dudes seem to consider the idea of going to a prostitute as slimy or “gross” or a sign of weakness. I’ve lived in a country where prostitution was legal, Germany. Personally, I can see the benefits for a guy who is not getting the amount/type of sex that they want “wearing out a trick”. Legalization of prostitution is one of the few things that I agree with Libertarians about, (the other being the legalization of weed). I do not think it should be legalized without it being taxed and the taxes going to provide healthcare both physical and psychological for those employed in the sex trade as well as opportunities for education/retraining and of course, sex trade workers should have the benefit of union membership. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2009, 9:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/212 "2009-09-15T21:51:18Z")
> [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](#): > > … sex trade workers should have the benefit of union membership. Ummm, they already have a **union** ([http://www.walnet.org/csis/groups/coyote.html](http://www.walnet.org/csis/groups/coyote.html)).:rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![ramtajogi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/dc4da7/32.png) [@ramtajogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramtajogi)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2011, 12:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/213 "2011-07-01T00:36:36Z")
well my thought in this hmmmm if you only need glass of milk why you buy all cow for where you get it from shop ! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Albion9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/albion9/32/1514_2.png) [@Albion9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Albion9)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2011, 9:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/214 "2011-10-31T21:51:24Z")
Go to this website [www.Shrink4Men.com](http://www.shrink4men.com/) and you will find out one reason why! There are some warped, mean, evil women out there. I speak from experience. No, I really don’t want to go into further detail and discuss it. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 7:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/215 "2011-11-04T19:38:50Z")
Dating women and maintaining a relationship is just too much “work” for some guys. Especially the ones who are emotionally challenged. Men love prostitutes because they’re easy, lol. They’re expedient and serve a purpose. It’s a business transaction. No fuss, no muss. 😉 Bella ---
**Author:** ![Bolkie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bolkie/32/1056_2.png) [@Bolkie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bolkie)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2011, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/216 "2011-11-05T00:44:35Z")
I haven’t read through all 20+ so someone probably already said this. But I think a lot of guys who visit prostitutes do this because it is impossible or at least incredibly hard for them to make women have sex with them. Only a small amount of clients visit for the better sexual techniques or love of obscurity or something like that. For a very large amount of men not visiting a prostitute means not having sex at all. So they use their services to feel like a human being every now and then. ---
**Author:** ![fishdude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/4bbf92/32.png) [@fishdude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fishdude)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2011, 11:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/217 "2011-11-05T23:38:37Z")
Who is more honest? A gold digger or a prostitute? ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2011, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/218 "2011-11-07T23:03:14Z")
> [@fishdude](#): > > _ **Who is more honest? A gold digger or a prostitute?** _ A prostitute. A prostitute provides a service for a fee. It’s an _honest_ business deal. A gold digger provides a deceptive affair of the heart for a reward. Bella ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2011, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/219 "2011-11-10T17:59:31Z")
Next question should be why Prostitutes love men 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Michiel45r](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/db5fbb/32.png) [@Michiel45r](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Michiel45r)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2011, 8:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990/220 "2011-11-24T20:43:40Z")
THINGS THAT I WANT IN LIFE 🆒 1. FREEDOM 2. MY OWN APPARTMENT (start with studio) 3. NO STRINGS ATTACHED SEX (one nighst stands, prositute visit) 4. A NICE SPORTSCAR 5. A JOB I LIKE 6. NICE CLOTHES, SHOES, WATCH, FLATSCREEN, BUBBLE BATH 7. A HIGH WAGE 8. A WORRY FREE LIFE You see how having a wife seriously fucks up my list. I mean it only go’s downhill from the start off a relationship, you still young, you getting it a lot, you madly in love etc.. But later she get’s older, nags, you have to work a lot to put food on the table,high mortgage, she even loses interest in sex when you get older and she don’t look so pretty as at the start, i mean it’s not a worry free life 😃 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990.md?page=10) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/why-men-love-prostitutes/29990.md?page=12)