I’ve noticed a lot of people searching out this -mone as the magic bullet to becoming a supposed Alpha male, which is admirable (and why I wanted to check it out). This is backed up by a lot of questions on how to assert yourself as the Alpha male, again helping with the touted congruence necessary. I’m thinking if you need to ask you’re setting yourself up for a failure by “acting” the part. Eventually reality will catch up but if you’re far enough behind, it’s just going to leave you worse off than you started. An “Alpha” male doesn’t necessarily assert himself, it’s a vibe and that vibe is certainly achievable with A314 and personal development.
I’ve noticed a lot more of the same in everyday life after using A314 and the hits have been here and there, but it’s made me realize that this ideal Alpha male is simply one who is comfortable in his own skin and willing to let things happen as long as they don’t negatively affect his own wellbeing. An Alpha male is a true rarity these days and cannot be created by the use of a pheromone, but can give one the added edge only after they’ve developed themselves enough to earn respect “as a man” upon first impression. I’ve loved the additional hits A314 has provided, but reading all these posts had me questioning if I was interpreting common things as me becoming this supreme, dominating male or simply becoming more observant. Time will tell..
When I originally wrote this post, way back when, I was referring to some of our fellow forum members recommending Alpha A314 to admittedly very shy persons. What needs to be taken into context, is that most shy guys come to the forum, not so they can have this ALPHA allure vibe around them, but rather so they can meet women and maybe have a sexual encounter. There certainly is nothing wrong with that.
A shy guy is not going to get that instant gratification with A314 as he would with Ammo or TUTH. Yeah even TUTH would be better than using A314 and sitting in the corner, wondering why, oh why, no one is talking to them. That shy guy has a better chance with IO and TUTH than they would with A314. So where as A314 might build confidence and ALPHA qualities over time, it will take time. What shy guy, I respectfully submit to my peers, wants to wait to build confidence over time, rather than use some -none and maybe get lucky? They have a much better shot at getting lucky with TUTH or Ammo than with A314.
To that instance the same could be said for other Instant consumer line products like IH, IO, Ammo, TUTH, IFM, CTTM and for that matter even Raw Power.
With that being said I still stand by my original position that A314 should not be recommended as a product for the shy. This is Super-Star stuff and one needs to be a Super-Star to fully comprehend its qualities. A Super-Star is born with those qualities and not made by Hollywood. They already had it, just needed Hollywood to bring it out of them. A314 can bring it out of them, but only if they already got it
You need to have the confidence to go with it, otherwise they cancel each other out in a way. Girls aren’t stupid and those who detect and Alpha vibe will throw something your way (might be a comment) to test you out to see if you really are who you are. I had this once, and while I didn’t have a ‘comeback line’ I just gave her the look up and down. She then retracted her question saying “sorry that was a bit harsh for this time of morning”.
Never looked at it this way before Guilty as charged your honour!
Like most guys, I tend to assume everyone thinks and reacts the same as me. I am naturally confident and tend to be perceived as slightly condescending, as such, A314 simply enhances “me” both professionally and socially, almost like “25% extra free” I know this for a fact after just a month of usage.
However, there are the shy guys on here for whom A314 could cause more problems than it rectifies. For those I would suggest the following question may provide something of a “reality check”.
Imagine you’re at a family wedding, stood at the bar waiting to be served, a stranger walks up and stands a couple of feet away, also waiting to be served. Do you:
(a) introduce yourself, shake his hand and start a conversation.
or
(b) try to pretend he isn’t there. If he instigates conversation, panic, mumble a few words and look for an escape route.
If you answered (a) then fine, throw on the A314 and go for it, you’ve probably already got the confidence to carry it off.
If you answered (b) then stop and think, is it the right product for me. We read a lot about congruence but it is vital to succeed. If it doesn’t gel, you end up like Stan Laurel facing down Mike Tyson.
Just a thought but might it be appropriate to move this thread out to the main men’s forum?
To my mind,it seems a little unfair to Mr Shy Guy that he has to buy A314, PM you for the password and then read a thread that suggests he may not be able to use the ‘Holy Grail’ yet because he doesn’t yet have the self belief to act congruent to his pherosig.
To me it’s not a problem as I’m a confident SOB at the best of times, however, were that not the case, I would have been somewhat hacked off to buy a bottle and fall flat on my face at the first hurdle.
Guilty as charged your honour!
