# Will IFM and TUTH help me get back my ex-girlfriend? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 21, 2007, 1:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615 "2007-03-21T01:42:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![xter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/f4b2a3/32.png) [@xter](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xter)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2007, 1:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/1 "2007-03-21T01:42:18Z")
What do you think about the combination of **Turn Up the Heat** and **[Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)?** My girlfriend and I are on a break right now. I just want to use these two product to somehow put her in a mood to which I can ask her to be my girl again. I know she still love me and I feel the same way but we’ve been going thru so much right now. I’m sorry if I’m not going into too much detail. ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2007, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/2 "2007-03-21T01:43:01Z")
i use the same thing in clubs + instant shine seems ok 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2007, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/3 "2007-03-21T02:10:54Z")
Sex is important to a relationship, but TUTH may make her think that’s all you want. Try using IFM by it’s self. This should make her comfortable and trusting, and if things are starting to progress, run to the bathroom and put on a spray of TUTH. Run it in stages so you don’t scare her off. ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2007, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/4 "2007-03-21T02:25:15Z")
I just notice you are a new member with 1 post. Post in the new members forum for that gift certificate. ---
**Author:** ![xter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/f4b2a3/32.png) [@xter](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xter)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 4:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/5 "2007-03-22T04:14:17Z")
Ok so I’m ordering [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), AMMUNITION and Instant Shine tonight on fedex overnight. does anyone know the best way to use these three product together? ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 6:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/6 "2007-03-22T06:30:49Z")
nice combo i will use that when i get my ammo for now i use Turn Up The Heat in clubs and on normal days A314 along with the shine and [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/). I do this 2-3 instant shine to front neck 1 ammo to front neck or chest 1-2 Instant Female Magic back neck ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 7:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/7 "2007-03-22T07:02:38Z")
ditto. Helix has it. ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 7:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/8 "2007-03-22T07:27:02Z")
its true i am cool 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Thalion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f475e1/32.png) [@Thalion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Thalion)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 2:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/9 "2007-03-22T14:32:38Z")
Actually, in my humble opinion what might have been very good to pair with [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) would have been an A314 derivative of some sort. It would have given you the ‘alpha male’ good catch vibe that would be important in your situation. ---
**Author:** ![Gem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Gem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gem)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 3:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/10 "2007-03-22T15:04:59Z")
Ok, i don’t know much about pheromones, but I do know lots about relationships. People don’t break up from long term relationships becuase they are not sexually attracted to each other any more. They break up because they are not happy (ok, I know it goes a lot deeper than than but that is it in a nutshell). You are not going to win her back with great sex (if only it was that easy), you are going to win her back becuase she feels good with you. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) all the way for me. Make her happy, make her realise how much she enjoys spending time with you. Leave the sexual pheromones for when she has decided to give it another go. ---
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 3:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/11 "2007-03-22T15:12:37Z")
On the other hand, A shot of [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) might make her feel good, in addition to Shine.. It smells so darn good.. ---
**Author:** ![Godhand](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/godhand/32/2378_2.png) [@Godhand](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Godhand)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 5:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/12 "2007-03-22T17:47:02Z")
> [@Gem](#): > > Ok, > > i don’t know much about pheromones, but I do know lots about relationships. > > People don’t break up from long term relationships becuase they are not sexually attracted to each other any more. They break up because they are not happy (ok, I know it goes a lot deeper than than but that is it in a nutshell). > > You are not going to win her back with great sex (if only it was that easy), you are going to win her back becuase she feels good with you. > > Instant Shine all the way for me. > > Make her happy, make her realise how much she enjoys spending time with you. > > Leave the sexual pheromones for when she has decided to give it another go. I’ll have to disagree with parts of that. For one, great sex DOES win some people back. Look at females that are in relationships with total jerks, complain about their boyfriends all the time, but won’t leave them for nothing. You can usually explain 90% of these cases with “great sex”, another 5% with “he’s wealthy” and the other 5% as “I’m co-dependant/I have unconditional love”. Great sex will make people do strange things indeed. And bad sex will make people vacate like rioters running from tear gas. The last LTR I was in suffered from bad sex. Normally, a sexual superhero, I was actually trying to avoid sex eith her because it was too predictable and unexciting. While it wasn’t the main reason I broke up with her, it was a strong factor in it. If she was like a porn actress in the sack, I probably would have overlooked a few more things. I do agree the [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Female Magic should ride front seat in whatever concoction he puts together, but if sex was a problem, then I would suggest a small amount of sexual pheromones in the background. But thats just my two cents… ---
**Author:** ![xter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/f4b2a3/32.png) [@xter](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xter)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/13 "2007-03-22T20:42:40Z")
> [@Gem](#): > > Ok, > > i don’t know much about pheromones, but I do know lots about relationships. > > People don’t break up from long term relationships becuase they are not sexually attracted to each other any more. They break up because they are not happy (ok, I know it goes a lot deeper than than but that is it in a nutshell). > > You are not going to win her back with great sex (if only it was that easy), you are going to win her back becuase she feels good with you. > > Instant Shine all the way for me. > > Make her happy, make her realise how much she enjoys spending time with you. > > Leave the sexual pheromones for when she has decided to give it another go. thanks, that exactly what i’m aiming for. i’m not trying win her back for sex or anything of that sort. i’m just trying bring back the vibe that we use to have. i’m new to the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) scene so those product seem to be what i’m looking for but i’m still not 100% sure 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![xter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/f4b2a3/32.png) [@xter](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xter)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/14 "2007-03-22T20:45:08Z")
Godhand, that true, great sex does help a relationship alot but that not the problem for me right now 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/15 "2007-03-23T02:10:11Z")
> [@xter](#): > > thanks, that exactly what i’m aiming for. i’m not trying win her back for sex or anything of that sort. i’m just trying bring back the vibe that we use to have. i’m new to the pheromone scene so those product seem to be what i’m looking for but i’m still not 100% sure 🙂 you should find out what she wants from you and what kind of relationship she wants with you. i wouldn’t mind a heart to heart talk if i was her. try instant honesty, it’ll open her up! good luck to you! ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 2:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/16 "2007-03-23T02:12:19Z")
> [@Thalion](#): > > Actually, in my humble opinion what might have been very good to pair with Instant Female Magic would have been an A314 derivative of some sort. > > It would have given you the ‘alpha male’ good catch vibe that would be important in your situation. That’s a good idea. I realy wish I could wear IFM AHHH!!! ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 5:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-ifm-and-tuth-help-me-get-back-my-ex-girlfriend/2615/17 "2007-03-23T05:13:54Z")
> [@](#): > > great sex DOES win some people back. Look at females that are in relationships with total jerks, complain about their boyfriends all the time, but won’t leave them for nothing. Most of the women I’ve known with jerk BF or husbands said the sex wasn’t that great (he was mainly concerned with getting himself off). They stayed with them for other reasons, fear, immaturity and a lack of self-confidence chief among them. Great sex tends to be more important for guys. If the both of you really love one another and have broken up, there must be a obvious reason. Women often break with guys they love because they don’t see a future with him. As she ages her biological clock informs her brain it’s time to look for an emotionally stable guy that will be a great provider, protector and life companion. Being in love and having fun ain’t enough. You have to show her you have a great future planned, e.g., get your degree, land a great job, buy house, make babies, etc. If you can add great sex to the mix, all the better. However most women will put up with mediocre sex if it comes with a sparkling future.