# Will Seduction Manuals Help Me Get the One? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 20, 2008, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-seduction-manuals-help-me-get-the-one/19923 "2008-09-20T02:24:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 13
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2008, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-seduction-manuals-help-me-get-the-one/19923/13 "2008-09-20T23:03:23Z")
Seraphim54 welcome to PheroTalk. I am glad you discovered the forum and this incredible world of pheromones. They definitely will open some doors for you and I would like to offer some advice to help begin your journey. The very first bit of advice I have to offer is this thread, by the PheroTalk forum moderator Tisha23: [What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) Even though it can be found in the women’s section, it is a unisex post and is a great way to mill about in your head how the pheromones might work for you. The good news I have today is you have qualified for the $15 Gift Certificate which will arrive in your email inbox momentarily 🙂. Unfortunately the rest of my post might not be so welcoming and I hope you take it as just advice and not personal against you. > [@Seraphim54](#): > > … She is a very stubborn “hard sell” and sometimes enjoys making my life miserable by keeping me at arms length as a “friend” grrr! … > > …I even told her (finally) that I loved her and she threatened me with a sexual harassment complaint, but after I pulled away from her and avoided her for a few days, she reeled me back in… Maybe I am reading this completely wrong and I do hope I am. Please let me be wrong, but you are saying this woman enjoys making you miserable! Let me repeat that, so that maybe your reading it from another perspective can let it sink in: This woman enjoys making you miserable!. Wow it makes me cringe when I read it back to myself, hopefully it will you as well. If that wasn’t bad enough, you told her you loved her and she threatened to file a sexual harassment complaint 😮. There is obviously much more going on here than meets the eye. I am concerned for you and feel the best advice I can give you is to run-away from this woman. Her life is off-limits and yet everyone else’s is free-game. BAD, VERY BAD. Personally I believe you will be wasting your hard-earned money on pheromones in pursuit of this woman. If you’re really going to go against all conventional wisdom and go for this woman, as I believe you are, then IG, as Gone suggested, is my advice too. I’m sorry Seraphim54, I’m not trying to be cruel or hurtful, but in my opinion that’s what this woman is trying to be to others. You might also try some IFM to help keep her emotions in check too. Maybe some IH, but be careful with that one, or you are liable to find out what she really thinks about you. Now as far as the DYD eBook from David D, who happens to be a friend of mine, I know you will be able to get your neediness and confidence issues under control. I believe you have made a HUGE step, just by admitting at 54 you need help in this area of your life. My friend that in itself is a step in the right direction. Most of us guys, especially the older we get, have this false aura of Don Juanism about us. We think we are the worlds greatest ladies man and the truth be told, we couldn’t get a number out of the phone-book let alone a babe. I also believe once you start conditioning yourself to have solid boundaries and not be needy you will see the truth about this lady. Of course I could be completely wrong and she may be a wonderful person who just enjoys seeing other people suffer. If ever you need some expert advice on not only pheromones, but also anything about DYD I am only a phone-call away: Get Fast & Friendly Help from Real People at the Pheromone Hotline. Call 1-800-671-6464 in the USA, or +01 425-786-2001 Internationally **Look for your $15 Gift Certificate in your email inbox shortly and welcome to the forum.** --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/will-seduction-manuals-help-me-get-the-one/19923)._