# Would getting "boobed"  beconsidered a hit?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [July 5, 2009, 4:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410 "2009-07-05T16:13:46Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 1

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![sweetsense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@sweetsense](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweetsense)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 4:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/1 "2009-07-05T16:13:46Z")

</div>

Before my wife and I were considered an ‘item’ and still in ljbf zone, i was gently bumped a few times when she wore really firm bras. She says it was accidental then, but not accidentlal when she does it to me now.l

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/2 "2009-07-05T16:30:34Z")

</div>

Yes boobing is a hit unless its a very obvious accident like she falls on her face and her boob hits you on the way down or something

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 5:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/3 "2009-07-05T17:04:17Z")

</div>

At that point though, she has already fallen for ya. 😛

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![sweetsense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@sweetsense](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweetsense)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/4 "2009-07-10T02:04:05Z")

</div>

> [@tisha23](#):
>
> Yes boobing is a hit unless its a very obvious accident like she falls on her face and her boob hits you on the way down or something

tisha, what got me was she kept saying ljbf, but kept doing unconsious things, finding things wrong with other women I dated etc. I really believe she was not doing it dilibertly, I was getting mixed signals, what she kept telling me was not inscyne with her body laugage.  
I’m glad I kept after her.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/5 "2009-07-10T03:26:04Z")

</div>

not for nothing,  
but i see this question come up and i almost _always_ giggle.

id like a show of hands,  
how many women _intentionally_ boob men they like?

im not saying women dont…  
(obviously they do if people write about getting boobed on purpose,right? _right??)_

since i cannot for the life of me  
imagine running over to a man and bumping my boobs up against him, swipe him “accidentally” with them,  
or get behind him and boob him, LOL-

i have to see with my own eyes

how many women “boob” strangers???  
how many “boob” men they would just like to know better?

im crying here, i swear.

without a joey "how you doin "  
i just crack up.

ok.  
sorry.  
i will be quiet and listen now.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Geena](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/geena/32/570_2.png) [@Geena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Geena)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/6 "2009-07-10T03:33:11Z")

</div>

Drive-by boobings…rude!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/7 "2009-07-10T03:50:47Z")

</div>

I once dated a woman who would very purposely “boob” me. And even told me she was doing it on purpose.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Geena](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/geena/32/570_2.png) [@Geena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Geena)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 4:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/8 "2009-07-10T04:00:20Z")

</div>

Well boobing someone you are dating is acceptable. Boobing strangers is a bit tacky.

> [@bosshank](#):
>
> I once dated a woman who would very purposely “boob” me. And even told me she was doing it on purpose.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 4:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/9 "2009-07-10T04:04:37Z")

</div>

I get boobed a lot.

Even had a bout of Competitive Boobing once.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/10 "2009-07-10T04:10:03Z")

</div>

> [@evolver](#):
>
> I get boobed a lot.
> 
> Even had a bout of Competitive Boobing once.

😮

_what the HELL_ were you wearing ??!?

shall we rename the mix???

😃

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/11 "2009-07-10T04:10:55Z")

</div>

> [@BrunetteBeauty](#):
>
> Well boobing someone you are dating is acceptable. Boobing strangers is a bit tacky.

read evolver’s post!

competitive boobing?

i think im jealous!

ah hahahaha…

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/12 "2009-07-10T05:38:16Z")

</div>

Happens to me too. Mostly from women who are interacting with me in a flirty way. It is beyond a hair flip but not as serious as a butt presentation.

Whether they do it with conscious intent and foresight or not, I wouldn’t know. It’s just part of the mating dance.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/13 "2009-07-10T06:48:22Z")

</div>

> [@](#):
>
> how many women “boob” strangers???  
> how many “boob” men they would just like to know better?

Well Lor he is talking about his wife in his post and I agree most women dont go around boobing perfect strangers until there is some other form of contact and attraction being exchanged. But I also agree with Whitehall.

People don’t consciously pay attention to body language and how to read it but the funny thing is you learn to use it from the day you are born. In fact body language is the second most important way we communicate with the people around us after verbal communication. Then comes mones. Understanding how to read and how to use body language is a important part of the attraction process and can determine your success and or failure’s in socialization.

I have heard many say “well humans have evolved and don’t use these methods of communication anymore” Its true we have evolved but we still all have that basic natural instinct and no matter how much we evolve those instincts remain a part of the human condition.

Boobing or presenting for women is just like peacocking for men. It comes naturally and its part of the human mating ritual.

I don’t think women go around boobing perfect strangers but once the attraction is established the ritual begins. I will admit I boobed my husband when we were just starting out. Hell I still boob him on occasion and he still peacocks. Its not a conscious thing though. I dont say “hey I think I will boob my hubby to get some today LOL” But its like the subconscious coming out and saying “hey I am into you” without going verbal.

Tisha

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 6:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/14 "2009-07-10T06:51:25Z")

</div>

Okay guys … I feel so naive now :o … maybe embarrassed

_ **But what is boobing and peacocking?!** _

Sounds very Tarzan…

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 7:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/15 "2009-07-10T07:12:14Z")

</div>

> [@msselva](#):
>
> Okay guys … I feel so naive now :o … maybe embarrassed
> 
> _ **But what is boobing and peacocking?!** _
> 
> Sounds very Tarzan…

“Boobing” is when a womans boobs touch or brush up against some part of a guy when they are interacting socially.

“Presenting” is a woman’s stance when they are interested in a potential mate. Women will pull their shoulders back and the chest go’s out. The same can happen with the butt as well. Did you ever see the movie legally blond. In the scene where they are in the beauty parlor and she is teaching all the girls the bend and snap. That is presenting… a little dramatized of course.

“Peacocking” is a term used for how men use their body to speak when interested in a women. The term comes from the actual way a peacock will spread his feathers to attract the female peacock. Men will flex muscles and stick their chest out. They stand or sit with their crotch facing you. They sort of strut and use their body to draw attention.

Its really a very interesting subject. You should read up on it because once you know it you can tell what a person is feeling and thinking before they even speak at times.

Good place to start is with …

The definitive book of body language by Barbara Pease.

> **[Amazon.com: The Definitive Book of Body Language: The Hidden Meaning Behind...](https://www.amazon.com/Definitive-Book-Body-Language-Expressions/dp/0553804723)**
>
> Amazon.com: The Definitive Book of Body Language: The Hidden Meaning Behind People's Gestures and Expressions: 9780553804720: Pease, Barbara, Pease, Allan: Books

They have a few good ones over at Amazon

[Amazon.com](http://www.amazon.com/Nonverbal-Advantage-Secrets-Language-Business/dp/1576754928/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1247209735&sr=8-2) [Amazon.com](http://www.amazon.com/What-Every-BODY-Saying-Speed-Reading/dp/0061438294/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1247210894&sr=8-3)

Its one of my favorite subjects after mones of course LOL

Sorry my links dont work but just pop over to amazon and type in Body language and they all come up.

Tisha

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![crashbandicoot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/crashbandicoot/32/2321_2.png) [@crashbandicoot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/crashbandicoot)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 7:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/16 "2009-07-10T07:20:42Z")

</div>

Ive been boobed in class. It was not due to the high  
dose of none. I think 😕

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 11:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/17 "2009-07-10T11:13:44Z")

</div>

Of course boobing is a hit. Aren’t boobs a hit? They’re a hit with me. lmao

Boobing happens in three different scenarios that I have noticed. Scenario number one is when she can’t help the fact that you are in the way of her mammaries and you just have to be pushed out of the way for her to get where she is going. This is common for waitresses in crowded settings, and usually means -zip- I can assure you. Careful not to read into boobing what isn’t there.

Scenario number two is where she’s attracted and wants to be closer to you than boobspace allows, or unconsciously wants to get your attention wih how sexy and breedable she is by physically demonstrating her breasts and/or possibly scent marking you with her breast [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). Of course nowadays we cover the female breast, so the pheromones don’t get transferred… but she can try. I know from personal experience that female breast pheromones are extremely powerful and can at times turn me into a boob-zombie. Of course at the point of being affected by breast pheromones, closing my eyes would help, but not entirely.

Then scenario number three is where she is consciously trying to smack you in the face with her chest and say, “Hey doofus, notice me! I _want_ you… what the hell else do I have to do to get your attention, you clod?!” This usually happens when a woman has breasts that are larger than average and has come to view them as her Prime Asset, so to speak. How dare he not notice, approach and request to partake? lol

Anyway, this is what I have observed. Feel free to align my observations with reality where necessary, ladies.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 11:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/18 "2009-07-10T11:47:20Z")

</div>

It happens fairly often in clubs when wearing A314. Not often in public, but I’ve had women uh… brush up behind me and rub if we’re in a hidden place out of sight. Behind a bookcase in a corner of the library for instance.

But the best has to be T & A presentations when wearing A314 with my best suit and taking care to appear as alpha as possible. 😃

I decided on an experiment. As a control, I dropped the A314, but wore the suit and maintained the alpha persona. I got blatant eye contact and returned it. The “Hey, you look gooood!” remarks are common. They tuck the hair behind their ears while looking down and back up, smiling. But no displays.

With the A314, I might as well be saying to them, ‘OK, what have you got?’ and they’re happy to oblige by bending over horizontal if I’m sat down with a drink, reading the paper etc. If I’m standing, they tweak a necklace to draw attention to their chest, or smooth and brush their tops with their hands. They run their hands over their hips and waist. One even brushed her ass and then tucked her hands in the back pockets of her jeans. It has the effect of thrusting her chest out and making the twins stand out.

If they’re wearing a blouse, the top 3 or 4 buttons on their blouses are undone.

Sometimes, they find an excuse to present both ends.

Amazing stuff, A314. Learning to read body language is a hoot sometimes. 😃 If you genuinely enjoy trying to figure people out, have a genuine interest in psychology and body language, then people-watching - or woman-watching - and spotting the giveaway signals of attraction is great fun! 🙂

Musk

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 12:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/19 "2009-07-10T12:06:01Z")

</div>

> [@MuskCloud](#):
>
> It happens fairly often in clubs when wearing A314. Not often in public, but I’ve had women uh… brush up behind me and rub if we’re in a hidden place out of sight. Behind a bookcase in a corner of the library for instance.
> 
> But the best has to be T & A presentations when wearing A314 with my best suit and taking care to appear as alpha as possible. 😃
> 
> I decided on an experiment. As a control, I dropped the A314, but wore the suit and maintained the alpha persona. I got blatant eye contact and returned it. The “Hey, you look gooood!” remarks are common. They tuck the hair behind their ears while looking down and back up, smiling. But no displays.
> 
> With the A314, I might as well be saying to them, ‘OK, what have you got?’ and they’re happy to oblige by bending over horizontal if I’m sat down with a drink, reading the paper etc. If I’m standing, they tweak a necklace to draw attention to their chest, or smooth and brush their tops with their hands. They run their hands over their hips and waist. One even brushed her ass and then tucked her hands in the back pockets of her jeans. It has the effect of thrusting her chest out and making the twins stand out.
> 
> If they’re wearing a blouse, the top 3 or 4 buttons on their blouses are undone.
> 
> Sometimes, they find an excuse to present both ends.
> 
> Amazing stuff, A314. Learning to read body language is a hoot sometimes. 😃 If you genuinely enjoy trying to figure people out, have a genuine interest in psychology and body language, then people-watching - or woman-watching - and spotting the giveaway signals of attraction is great fun! 🙂
> 
> Musk

You make an excellent point. I should get that suit after all, sounds like.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 12:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410/20 "2009-07-10T12:17:18Z")

</div>

> [@catlord17](#):
>
> You make an excellent point. I should get that suit after all, sounds like.

If you’re anything like me, you won’t regret it. Personally, I need to give my casual wardrobe an overhaul. Some of it is some years old now and I would like to see what I can do with A314 and clothing that doesn’t look as if it’s seen better days.

Musk

[Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-getting-boobed-beconsidered-a-hit/30410.md?page=2)
