# Would it be weird if I contacted this girl? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 5, 2014, 9:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625 "2014-04-05T09:20:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ThePheroNoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ThePheroNoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ThePheroNoob)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 9:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/1 "2014-04-05T09:20:26Z")
Alright, so I met this girl last year when I was staying in uni accomodation and I didn’t really find her that attractive. We spoke a few times, even went out a couple times with a group of friends. Also, I could tell she was attracted to me when we were out (all kinds of IOIs). HOWEVER, I haven’t spoken to her in almost a year. I recently checked her facebook page randomly and she’s pretty damn hot now. My question is, how do I contact her without looking like an absolute creep? It’s kinda strange that I message her out of the blue after a year. She might have even forgotten who I am! The main reason I want to meet up with her is so I can test some mixes haha. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 12:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/2 "2014-04-05T12:44:59Z")
IRL, I would just stop say “Hi, I’ve not seen you in a long time - What’s up?” and take it from there. So just do whatever the Facebook equivalent of that is. Personally, a year or more’s gap is nothing really. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ThePheroNoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ThePheroNoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ThePheroNoob)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 12:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/3 "2014-04-05T12:53:19Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > IRL, I would just stop say “Hi, I’ve not seen you in a long time - What’s up?” and take it from there. So just do whatever the Facebook equivalent of that is. > > Personally, a year or more’s gap is nothing really. 🙂 Oh god, I just realised I have already attempted this. I said, “hey how’s it going, I haven’t seen you in a while?” She replied, but I forgot to reply back. This was back in September 2013! I’ll give it another shot, what’s the worst that could happen right? 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/4 "2014-04-05T12:54:12Z")
“Hey, it’s been a while. Let’s catch up some time” Not weird at all. If she’s interested in you, she’ll make time. If she’s not, no time wasted. ---
**Author:** ![ThePheroNoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ThePheroNoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ThePheroNoob)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 1:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/5 "2014-04-05T13:32:04Z")
> [@Be\_Real](#): > > “Hey, it’s been a while. Let’s catch up some time” > > Not weird at all. If she’s interested in you, she’ll make time. If she’s not, no time wasted. Well, I believe she lives with some mutual friends so I pretty much said, "hey xxx it’s been ages! How’s it going? Are you living with xxx now? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 2:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/6 "2014-04-05T14:06:25Z")
The worst - No interest/response. Then you know to turn your attention elsewhere and not keep-on wasting your time. 🙂 Although I must say that if you have any reasonable way of doing this face to face, it would be much better. Esp with a good mix on. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![ThePheroNoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ThePheroNoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ThePheroNoob)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/7 "2014-04-05T14:09:09Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > The worst - No interest/response. Then you know to turn your attention elsewhere and not keep-on wasting your time. 🙂 Very true! I’ve been speaking to this eastern european girl who recently broke up with her fiance. I’ve used a fallout mix on her 3 times now. She actually wanted me to come help her move flats, while her parents were there! Does that mean anything? I’ve been using a lot of sexual inuendos, but i don’t know if she realises they are. I honestly don’t know if she wants to be a friend or more than a friend. ---
**Author:** ![Himeros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/himeros/32/2325_2.png) [@Himeros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Himeros)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 3:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/8 "2014-04-05T15:03:44Z")
Just assume attraction and go for it brother. Hesitation is an attraction killer. ---
**Author:** ![ThePheroNoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ThePheroNoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ThePheroNoob)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-it-be-weird-if-i-contacted-this-girl/61625/9 "2014-04-05T15:26:21Z")
> [@Himeros](#): > > Just assume attraction and go for it brother. Hesitation is an attraction killer. That’s pretty much what I’m going to do. I’d rather give it a shot than have nothing forever. Hopefully I can meet up with her soon so I can top up the fallout on her! She’s been exposed to it 3 times now, do you think this has done much? It seemed to work well because she began telling me stuff WAY beyond the point of tmi.