# Would like to meet...(SINGLES)

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374>\
**Category:** Lounge\
**Created:** [December 30, 2008, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374 "2008-12-30T17:58:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 9\
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**Author:** ![emmie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emmie/32/738_2.png) [@emmie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/emmie)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 7:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/81 "2009-01-13T07:35:42Z")

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> [@diamond](#):
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> emmie, whatever you do and wherever you go, grab life by the balls and go for it. No-one ever lay on their death bed and wished they had done less in their life.
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> Oh, when you get to Barcelona, have a beer for me, love that city 😉

ahh I will sweety. I’ll be thinking of you 😉

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**Author:** ![emmie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emmie/32/738_2.png) [@emmie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/emmie)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 7:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/82 "2009-01-13T07:37:16Z")

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> [@Mtnjim](#):
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> And don’t forget to hang out on [Las Ramblas](http://www.barcelona-tourist-guide.com/en/albums-en/ramblas/) (_I used to live just off of it_) and check out the Gaudi buildings..

I will thanks! I have been before but there’s too much to see for one visit.

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**Author:** ![emmie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emmie/32/738_2.png) [@emmie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/emmie)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 7:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/83 "2009-01-13T07:46:28Z")

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> [@tfrankz](#):
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> Emmie I can relate to you about is it worth it. I started my business when I was 23 now 30 and lost touch with alot of good friends for doing that, at that age. But I had a house, nice car, before them. So with that said no it’s not worth it. I would take friends over all that.
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> I have almost got married, was planning this year in Mexico. But things fell apart. Now I also know what I am looking for. Just going to take some time. Good luck in finding Mr. Right!

Thank you so much for your support! I understand completely. I lost so many friends and did indeed develop quicker professionally. I have found it more difficult throwing myself into relationships as I have gotten older. So, if i don’t do it now, I envisage becoming lonely ,old, hot, spinster…LOL 😃

You should add your wish list since it’s a new year. Lets see if we can conjure them up!😃

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**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 2:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/84 "2009-01-13T14:31:05Z")

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> [@kelsey](#):
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> ☹ So people are in love with me for my reward points.

_droooooooooolll_ reward points 😛

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**Author:** ![Hazard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hazard/32/1153_2.png) [@Hazard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hazard)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/85 "2009-01-13T21:32:50Z")

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> [@emmie](#):
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> no way!!!..actually way!!!
> 
> your right, I’m not one for putting up with what i don’t want. I am sexy, confident successful and, a hungry lover. I am at an age where I know what I want. I don’t mind if i don’t get it all 85% is as low as i’ll go! I have a great life, training & working hard. I would now like to have someone to share that with. not, mother, share!I have alot to offer. I’m tired of casual sex and have not participated in this for a long time. I’m telling you, it’s been a struggle! However, I’m 37 and have really put my career first. I suppose this reccession is making me wonder if it has all been worth it. I mean there has to be more to life right??
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> and now I want to explore all that that part has to offer. Don’t get me wrong, I have been married. I just wasn’t prepared to commit… not really commit. I somehow thought it would all just fall into place rather than out of place.
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> I want an adventure and, by the tone of some of these emails…I’m about to have an adventure!!!
> 
> YEEEEHAAAA!!!

MAN… where were you a few years ago??? Im having a bit of a rough time now… i work monday thru friday… have my own business on top of that. My hours can be erradic(sp?)… i work out and take care of myself to the point where the wife gets REALLY REALLY annoyed LOL. I guess i don’t spend enough time at home _shrugs_ - shes not a fan of muscle’d up gym guys… i think her view of it has changed since we got married. She liked me working out when we were dating… now she hates it. I’m not huge by any means… and i certainly don’t consider myself even close to the guys i wanna look like but her views of what i want to achieve are really starting to wear on me lol. Everytime i mix up a protein shake or cook up a piece of chicken - she try’s getting me to eat junk… or get chinese food instead… if i tell her i don’t want it but shes mroe than welcome… she gets pissed…

ok im gunna stop now 😛 i guess seeing your “description” struck a note in me 😃

Oh and regarding work… as long as your happy and have a good life as you said you do… it was all worth it! You’ll be complete one day… 🙂

~Haz~

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**Author:** ![emmie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emmie/32/738_2.png) [@emmie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/emmie)\
**Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/86 "2009-01-13T22:36:32Z")

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> [@Hazard](#):
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> MAN… where were you a few years ago??? Im having a bit of a rough time now… i work monday thru friday… have my own business on top of that. My hours can be erradic(sp?)… i work out and take care of myself to the point where the wife gets REALLY REALLY annoyed LOL. I guess i don’t spend enough time at home _shrugs_ - shes not a fan of muscle’d up gym guys… i think her view of it has changed since we got married. She liked me working out when we were dating… now she hates it. I’m not huge by any means… and i certainly don’t consider myself even close to the guys i wanna look like but her views of what i want to achieve are really starting to wear on me lol. Everytime i mix up a protein shake or cook up a piece of chicken - she try’s getting me to eat junk… or get chinese food instead… if i tell her i don’t want it but shes mroe than welcome… she gets pissed…
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> ok im gunna stop now 😛 i guess seeing your “description” struck a note in me 😃
> 
> Oh and regarding work… as long as your happy and have a good life as you said you do… it was all worth it! You’ll be complete one day… 🙂
> 
> ~Haz~

Hazzard that was such a nice response. Thanks. You sound like a really nice guy and, I am sure you’ll work through it. I can be tough when someone tries to make you fit into there ideal. Someone iknow tried to do this to me just the other day. I had to ask them to let me be me with all my faults and quirks and, i promised I would accept them with all their faults and, try to remember they were there own person. Even when i did not agree with their choices. This was’t even a potential lover! Just another nosey parker minding my life fo me.

Re: Protien shakes. I am just trying out Reflex instant whey. have you tried it? 80g Protein per 100grams. What are you using. This week I have shifted another 3lbs alone. It’s great. I have so much energy and no hunger at all. Just have to keep ontop of the fluids. What are you using?

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**Author:** ![Hazard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hazard/32/1153_2.png) [@Hazard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hazard)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2009, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/87 "2009-01-14T00:20:23Z")

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> [@emmie](#):
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> Hazzard that was such a nice response. Thanks. You sound like a really nice guy and, I am sure you’ll work through it. I can be tough when someone tries to make you fit into there ideal. Someone iknow tried to do this to me just the other day. I had to ask them to let me be me with all my faults and quirks and, i promised I would accept them with all their faults and, try to remember they were there own person. Even when i did not agree with their choices. This was’t even a potential lover! Just another nosey parker minding my life fo me.
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> Re: Protien shakes. I am just trying out Reflex instant whey. have you tried it? 80g Protein per 100grams. What are you using. This week I have shifted another 3lbs alone. It’s great. I have so much energy and no hunger at all. Just have to keep ontop of the fluids. What are you using?

What makes it so tough is that i was my own person when we met… and while we dated LOL… since then… i’ve stopped my jiu-jitsu/mma training… cut back my lifting (got back into that tho lol)… stopped going out at night… stopped going for walks/runs at night… stopped hiking and rock climbing… stopped surfing and spear fishing… it’s friggin depressing LOL - i try and work it all in when I can… it’s just not nearly as frequent as it used to be. i try to explain to her that i love these things and i can’t do them all in the same day/week/month… but when i DO do them… i’d like to be able to without having a tiff and then having my bad mood dampen my day LOL

Regarding the protein - i use ON whey protein. It’s all I use right now - i try to put on lean mass so i can do without the added weight gainer calories. I’m sitting on 223.5lbs right now… up about 8lbs from 4 month ago or so. My goal weight is 240lbs… i will reach it… just gunna take a while LOL. I’m sure it’ll be 250 after that 😃 - THAT wont make the wife happy LMAO!

Congrats on the 3lbs! Shoot over to the workout enthusiasts social group… lots of interesting stuff going on in there!

~Haz~

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**Author:** ![emmie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emmie/32/738_2.png) [@emmie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/emmie)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2009, 9:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/88 "2009-01-14T09:01:14Z")

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> [@Hazard](#):
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> What makes it so tough is that i was my own person when we met… and while we dated LOL… since then… i’ve stopped my jiu-jitsu/mma training… cut back my lifting (got back into that tho lol)… stopped going out at night… stopped going for walks/runs at night… stopped hiking and rock climbing… stopped surfing and spear fishing… it’s friggin depressing LOL - i try and work it all in when I can… it’s just not nearly as frequent as it used to be. i try to explain to her that i love these things and i can’t do them all in the same day/week/month… but when i DO do them… i’d like to be able to without having a tiff and then having my bad mood dampen my day LOL
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> Regarding the protein - i use ON whey protein. It’s all I use right now - i try to put on lean mass so i can do without the added weight gainer calories. I’m sitting on 223.5lbs right now… up about 8lbs from 4 month ago or so. My goal weight is 240lbs… i will reach it… just gunna take a while LOL. I’m sure it’ll be 250 after that 😃 - THAT wont make the wife happy LMAO!
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> Congrats on the 3lbs! Shoot over to the workout enthusiasts social group… lots of interesting stuff going on in there!
> 
> ~Haz~

Cool see you there 😃

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**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2009, 4:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/would-like-to-meet-singles/24374/89 "2009-01-14T16:09:41Z")

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> [@Hazard](#):
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> What makes it so tough is that i was my own person when we met… and while we dated LOL… since then… i’ve stopped my jiu-jitsu/mma training… cut back my lifting (got back into that tho lol)… stopped going out at night… stopped going for walks/runs at night… stopped hiking and rock climbing… stopped surfing and spear fishing… it’s friggin depressing LOL - i try and work it all in when I can… it’s just not nearly as frequent as it used to be. i try to explain to her that i love these things and i can’t do them all in the same day/week/month… but when i DO do them… i’d like to be able to without having a tiff and then having my bad mood dampen my day LOL
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> ~Haz~

Totally know the feeling man (and I’m not even married… although we do own a house together)

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