# YAY! My 2nd Purchase! Question... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 24, 2009, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386 "2009-03-24T19:55:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![allsmilz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/6a8cbe/32.png) [@allsmilz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/allsmilz)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2009, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/1 "2009-03-24T19:55:10Z")
Sooo I was FINALLY able to make my 2nd purchase. I absolutely loved Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness so I got them again. This time instead of Instant Op., I ordered [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). I’m so excited I wanted to post about it LoL 😛 But I do have a little question. Since I have a good idea of how Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness effect me, is it ok to just add the Instant Honesty to the mix? Or should I still just try it out on its own before mixing? I am so excited…I already have my target and everything. It’s a shame how much fun I have w/ these. Another random question about pheros…sooo it seems that when I wear Instant Shine ppl (speaking about ppl who don’t know me well) are more “welcoming” and “embracing” if that makes sense. In comparison to this, some ppl have made the comment that before they got to know me better they thought/assumed I was unapproachable or “snobbish” I guess (BTW there is no truth in that lol). What does this say about my natural signature (I think that’s what it’s called)? Should I be loading up on Instant Shine? haha ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2009, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/2 "2009-03-24T20:40:40Z")
You should most definitely try it on its own first, so that you can gauge the effects and the amount you personally need to get those effects. Once you have a handle on that, then you will be able to more knowledgeably and confidently mix them to achieve exactly the effects you desire 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SomeRedHeadChick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/someredheadchick/32/1902_2.png) [@SomeRedHeadChick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SomeRedHeadChick)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2009, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/3 "2009-03-24T21:58:46Z")
I don’t know how much advice I can offer to your questions but… I gotta admit it’s exciting and even a little addicting isn’t it? 🙂 I just placed my 2nd order and just HAD to have overnight shipping LOL I think trying on it’s own is always good. I mixed on my first “test” and wasn’t sure if the affects I was getting from one or the other or simply the combo. I did instant shine alone today and I seem to be in just a really good mood. I also noticed what seems to be an energy boost - but that could be from the coffee I drank earlier lol I think it def makes you seem more approachable and out there! I’m interested to see what results you would get with just [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). I don’t know if it’s possible but, seems logical that mixing to much at once can get confusing reactions or be overkill. Of course, what I think is logical isn’t always is. hehe I love reading others reports! ---
**Author:** ![allsmilz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/6a8cbe/32.png) [@allsmilz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/allsmilz)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2009, 10:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/4 "2009-03-24T22:14:28Z")
Thanks ladies! I will def take your advice and try the [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) out by itself. RedHead I definitely HAD to overnight my order also haha. I am so impatient and wanted to make sure I’ll have them for this weekend. Over the next few days I’m going to observe self effects from Instant Honesty. I’m kind of nervous, b/c when I’m under the influence I sometimes have this _spill the beans_ problem. LoL Can’t wait to read your reports! What did you order? ---
**Author:** ![SomeRedHeadChick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/someredheadchick/32/1902_2.png) [@SomeRedHeadChick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SomeRedHeadChick)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2009, 10:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/5 "2009-03-24T22:18:38Z")
IS/A and instant openness - I have the shine and IS/b already ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/6 "2009-03-25T00:48:20Z")
> [@allsmilz](#): > > Over the next few days I’m going to observe self effects from Instant Honesty. I’m kind of nervous, b/c when I’m under the influence I sometimes have this _spill the beans_ problem. LoL Maybe try wearing the IH on your wrists, so its not quite as close to you, and make sure you keep your hands closer to the other person (or people) so that they get it, but you don’t 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SomeRedHeadChick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/someredheadchick/32/1902_2.png) [@SomeRedHeadChick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SomeRedHeadChick)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 3:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/7 "2009-03-25T03:17:10Z")
great suggestion Kitty, as usual! ---
**Author:** ![OoohYahhh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ooohyahhh/32/1274_2.png) [@OoohYahhh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OoohYahhh)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 7:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/8 "2009-03-25T07:25:37Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Maybe try wearing the IH on your wrists, so its not quite as close to you, and make sure you keep your hands closer to the other person (or people) so that they get it, but you don’t 😉 Forearms (inside or outside) is a little slower diffusion. Skin is thinner and therefore warmer at the wrist. That’s why the wrist is one of the tradtional perfume application areas. Some people here apply to the hair or back of the neck. That might help to keep it away from your nose. Improves sillage. Your scent trail. Think about the wake of a boat. Move slower, it’s thicker The other thing you can do is to be aware of the direction of the air flow. Outside it is resonably easy to feel the direction of even a slight breeze. Try to feel it on your cheeks. The draft indoors is a little more difficult. But there is almost always air moving. Look at where the vents are. Watch what happens to the airflow when an outside door is opened and closed. Stoves and light bulbs make updrafts. Light some incense and watch the smoke. Even your computer fan makes a draft. Stay upwind. > [@allsmilz](#): > > … > Over the next few days I’m going to observe self effects from Instant Honesty. I’m kind of nervous, b/c when I’m under the influence I sometimes have this _spill the beans_ problem. LoL > … I know what you mean. I have in the past had a problem because I ‘say things’ due to a generally low level of inhibitions. You can see how IH could be a problem. So I’ve had to give some thought to exactly this problem. Recently I’ve found that I have over compensated. Not saying the truth that needed to be said, hesitating to defend those who deserved it. I’m counting on IH and ComeTalkToMe to help find a balance. Or least get back my uninhibited self. I was a better person plain honest, than trying to be a nice guy. So I say, let it rip! OoohYahhhhh! ---
**Author:** ![allsmilz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/6a8cbe/32.png) [@allsmilz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/allsmilz)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 6:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/9 "2009-03-25T18:27:57Z")
Sooooo I got my pheros!! Yay! I came home in between classes and caught the delivery guy right on time. Since I had to go back to campus I just put on Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (\<—my free gift…thanks guys!). Yes I sprayed a lot. 4-5 sprays of each…sue me…I was excited lol Wellllll I wasn’t really noticing anything out of the norm from others. Instant Shine always lifts my mood though. Then my TG (who I didnt expect to see today) showed up at my study spot. He told me AT LEAST four x’s that I look nice today. 🙂 It was a bit excessive, but it was okay since it was him. My TG and I will be getting together soon and I’ll be back to report on Instant Honesty. ---
**Author:** ![SomeRedHeadChick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/someredheadchick/32/1902_2.png) [@SomeRedHeadChick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SomeRedHeadChick)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 8:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/10 "2009-03-25T20:44:37Z")
LOL your a funny one allsmilz! I had to resist spraying myself down too when I got mine today - but I had a job interview and Instant Sexyness A isn’t exactly one you’d want to wear to a job interview for sure! Plus, I’m having dinner with a friend later (male friend of mine and hubby’s) and his girlfriend just dumped him 2 days before he got back from Iraq - IE a week and half ago. And well, when I bumped into another male friend, similar situation (no GF though) while wearing IS/B - he reacted for sure and it wasn’t cool! lol So I don’t want a repeat of any of that with this friend. Did that make any sense? I think it’s awsome you got some reactions from your TG – that’s what I’m talking about girly! ---
**Author:** ![allsmilz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/6a8cbe/32.png) [@allsmilz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/allsmilz)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2009, 3:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yay-my-2nd-purchase-question/27386/11 "2009-03-26T03:57:25Z")
Haha RedHead, I remember reading about your encounter with the mutual friend who hit on you. I can def understand how awkward that can be, but it’s like wow these pheros do get to ppl. I’m glad your interview went great though! Congrats So of course I have more to report on. (I might be addicted, sue me lol). Well I had to work this evening and I thought ahhh what the heck, let’s throw on some [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) + Instant Shine. Whooaa nelly! I had my manager spilling her beans alllll nite!! I could not even believe the stories she was telling. I was in total shock to see results so obvious. Most of the _good_/_juicy_ stuff was within the first couple of hours of me arriving. Ok, let me paint a lil picture. Usually this manager is very professional on the job. Her behavior, mannerisms, and conversation became very relaxed…at one point she was dancing. LoL Ok, ok, ok I did have some self effects…Although I was not nearly as open as my manager, I did slip once and say something I prob wouldnt have otherwise. Other than that I was on guard, protecting myself from having loose lips. The district manager was there for a short period of time and he was a lot more open in conversation as well. I mean overall I got some REALLY great results that makes me look forward to experimenting with my TG. Instant Honesty just became #1 on my list…