Pheromones don’t make anyone act against their will or want something that isn’t there. Here are two threads I really think you should read :
For attraction and at the same time to build confidence I agree that Ammo is good for you.
For a deeper level of communication with the ladies use instant honesty but for opening up conversation and to make it easier to go towards them I suggest instant openness.
Have fun with your mones and the info we have here you will get there.