# Yet another noob with questions **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 29, 2008, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yet-another-noob-with-questions/14621 "2008-06-29T17:01:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tbl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/57b2e6/32.png) [@tbl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tbl)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2008, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yet-another-noob-with-questions/14621/1 "2008-06-29T17:01:31Z")
I’m 46, single, successful (good job, plenty of money, nice car and house, etc.) and handsome (or so I have been told). I have no trouble meeting women who want LTR but now that I am recently out of a LTR I want to have a fun summer, romantic summer with really hot girls in the mid-30s (mid 20’s would also be great!). I bought Female Magic, Instant Shine, Instant Openess and [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/). The result I want is women approaching me (and being open to me approaching them) and then of course forming a connecting and scoring. Did I get the right ones? Any suggestion on the right mix of these? Any suggestions on others? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2008, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yet-another-noob-with-questions/14621/2 "2008-06-29T19:19:08Z")
Welcome to the forum! We always suggest you try each one by itself a few times so you can see what it does. This way, you can develop your own strategy for combining the products in a way to get your desired results. I’d also recommend reading and absorbing the information in this thread: > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… As for the products you’ve ordered, TUTH is the sexual product, and at your age, you’ll be fine wearing a couple of sprays. The older we get, the less androstenone (primary component in TUTH) we produce, so there’s less danger of overdosing on it. We’ll usually tell late teens and early 20somethings to go easy on it, but you’ll be okay. IShine is a very good mood brightener (hence the name) that can get everyone around you cheerful, including yourself. I usually give myself 4 to 5 sprays of it for work, so it’s a good safe pheromone to wear in a variety of situations. IFM is a pheromone for fostering comfort and trust in women, but it has been known to produce mood lowering effects in men, including the wearer. If you notice you seem a bit down or maudlin after wearing it, try spraying to the back of your neck. IO is a pheromone to get people to be more open to conversation. It’s been referred to as Instant chattiness. Just remember that [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are like gas in the tank. Without a spark to ignite it and drive the pistons, it’s not going to do anything. You provide that spark. Make sure to present an image congruent with the pheromones you wear. Be the conversation starter, and make sure you carefully observe how things are going. Hope this helps! -D4 ---
**Author:** ![tbl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/57b2e6/32.png) [@tbl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tbl)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yet-another-noob-with-questions/14621/3 "2008-07-02T14:12:56Z")
Thanks for the information. Is it a good idea to mix IS with FM to counteract the potentail “negative” effect it can have on males (including me)? I have never worn any sort of cologne or aftershave before. Now I can smell the product on me all day. I am wondering if others smell it too, especially those who’ve known me for a while. Tom ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 2:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yet-another-noob-with-questions/14621/4 "2008-07-02T14:29:14Z")
you’v made some flawless choices, out of all those i’d say tuth is your best bet, perfect for someone your age. Ishine and IO are also great choices, and they make a great combo. not everyone gets negative effects from IFM, you just have to try it and see, another alternative is to spray to the back of your neck.