# yooooooo **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 24, 2010, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yooooooo/39558 "2010-06-24T02:48:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![edgarallanho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/5f8ce5/32.png) [@edgarallanho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/edgarallanho)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2010, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yooooooo/39558/1 "2010-06-24T02:48:48Z")
I’m 19 (20 in a month!), female, located in Los Angeles. I guess I’m what you could call reserved – I’m selectively outgoing, and feel far more comfortable in smaller one-to-one situations. Recently, social situations with large numbers of people have started to…frazzle me a bit, although I used to thrive on high energy and lots of people. It’s part of this social anxiety/nervous issue of mine that comes and goes, I think. I can be both quiet and loud – again, it depends on the situation. I think my close friends see me as somewhat crazy, but those who don’t know me might perceive me as somewhat aloof. Also, I’m a tiny Asian girl, and have been told that I play off the cute Asian stereotype very well, but with a twist. I curse like a sailor, have huge curly dyed hair (it used to be bright red!), dress somewhat “artistically” (or so I’ve been told), and overall more than likely stand out in a crowd. I’m probably more dominant than submissive, as I usually have very strong opinions and defend them voraciously, but if the topic is something I’m apathetic about, I’m very very very passive (to the point of non-participation). At the same time, I’m not particularly interested in being the center of attention, so I’ll downplay a lot of my emotions for the sake of staying out of view (which doesn’t really work because of my appearances…) I hope that’s enough information about myself. Anyway, I’m planning on using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) for two primary reasons: a scientific interest (social experimentation) and something to help my lacking self-esteem. The former because I’m extremely interested in social interactions and would love to see how using pheromones would affect a given situation and the latter because I think pheromones could aid in re-teaching me how to interact in social environments after my social hibernation this year. I’m still terribly anxious around large groups of people and it doesn’t help that I always get looks based on my physical appearance, it’s a lot of pressure for me. In terms of social spheres I’d use this in, quite honestly, nearly everything. I’m looking for a job and hoping this will help in job interviews, my friends all throw a lot of parties regularly and perhaps this would calm my nerves at them, I used to go dancing quite a bit so at clubs, and at school because I realize that I actually do have to talk to my classmates to make connections for further job opportunities (being an artist is all about connections, anyway). So yeah! ---
**Author:** ![Jericho](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jericho/32/1658_2.png) [@Jericho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jericho)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2010, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yooooooo/39558/2 "2010-06-24T03:04:07Z")
Wow… you sound exactly like me. Crazy! Anyway, welcome to the community! Since you’re here to experiment, a good way to start is with the to-go bottles. I’m nuts about the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) line, but since you say you want help in the confidence department I’d suggest instant shine as well. It says it’s for men, but it’s really unisex. Total confidence booster! The Instant Sexiness/a (the default one) is great for giving off a more “respect me” vibe, so I’d probably start with that one. The IS/b vibe is more submissive, which sounds like the opposite of the effect you want to have. Also, instant honesty and instant openness are great social mones, and some of the more experienced ladies can help you out with those, I’m still kind of a noob myself. 🙂 If you plan to experiment, you should start up a journal as well. Fun stuff! Again, welcome and have fun! ---
**Author:** ![celerytree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@celerytree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/celerytree)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2010, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yooooooo/39558/3 "2010-06-24T05:38:44Z")
Welcome to the forums! While I admittingly know very little about Instant Sexiness A and B, I can definitely suggest that you try out some of the unisex [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) like Instant Openness or Instant Shine. Instant Openness is a fantastic conversational lubricant and may help things flow a little easier and help you meet new people when you’re in a situation with a large amount of people. Instant Shine works great as both a standalone product and as a finishing touch to nearly any other pheromone combo. It gives off a fun, happy vibe that most people love to be around. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 25, 2010, 7:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/yooooooo/39558/4 "2010-06-25T19:03:38Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! For your situation, try Instant Sexiness A (for a more strong alpha woman sexy vibe), or Instant Sexiness B (for a soft sexy feminine vibe). To help in social situations, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will help with shyness and get everyone friendlier and more talkative, and Instant Honesty will help to create and strengthen emotional bonds. For job interviews and work situations, go with MX300, which will help give you an aura of trust/respect/confidence/capability.