# your woman can never be your best friend? **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [May 7, 2010, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400 "2010-05-07T02:17:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/1 "2010-05-07T02:17:33Z")
[31 Days of Game: Day 6](http://therawness.com/31-days-of-game-day-6/) > [@The Rawness](#): > > This piece of advice, which I learned from Rev. Gary Brodsky, may be the most controversial. Whenever I say it to people I get a lot of resistance: > Your Woman Can Never, Ever, Truly Be Your Best Friend or Closest Confidante. > I repeat: Your Woman Can Never, Ever, Truly Be Your Best Friend or Closest Confidante. > Forget what you read in stories. Forget romance novels. Forget chick flicks. Forget all the storybook fantasies. It’s impossible. It will never happen. It’s a great concept in theory, but it doesn’t work in reality. ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/2 "2010-05-07T02:30:37Z")
A lot of great insight after reading this. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 2:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/3 "2010-05-07T02:57:07Z")
Deep down in her lizard brain??!! Thats too wierd…I hope you guys aren’t getting brainwashed by some kook, I’ll have to go kick his butt!! 😠 ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 1:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/4 "2010-05-07T13:49:20Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Deep down in her lizard brain??!! > > Thats too wierd…I hope you guys aren’t getting brainwashed by some kook, I’ll have to go kick his butt!! 😠 I already bought my advanced screening tickets for that showdown 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/5 "2010-05-07T18:40:10Z")
I don’t know, I’ve have a very best friend to this day and guess what, she’s a girl. I love her like my sister, she’s married has kids and I still consider her my closest confident. I usually agree with The Rawness, usually but not sure that I do this time. ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/6 "2010-05-07T20:59:57Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > I don’t know, I’ve have a very best friend to this day and guess what, she’s a girl. I love her like my sister, she’s married has kids and I still consider her my closest confident. > > I usually agree with The Rawness, usually but not sure that I do this time. if she is married (and not to you), I suppose she is not _your_ woman… wrt lizard brain, anyone serious about understanding [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) might find it interesting to explore Paul Maclean’s triune brain hypothesis [Paul MacLean’s triune brain hypothesis](http://www.kheper.net/topics/intelligence/MacLean.htm) ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/7 "2010-05-08T05:30:14Z")
Definition of best friend is in order. But on a general level, It’s been my experience that every women I’ve been intimate with can’t be my “best friend” the way my actual best friend…we’ll call him Jason is…because with Jason, I can be my weakest worst bitch ass arrogant self and he just slaps my ass back to reality, but sticks wit me. I’ve yet to know a women to do that, save my mother. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 11:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-woman-can-never-be-your-best-friend/38400/8 "2010-05-08T11:30:55Z")
Actually I agree with this. I think he go’s a little over the top though. My best friend is not my husband. My husband holds a higher spot in the hierarchy then best friend. We are equal partners though and both carry the role of leader in the household but when he is there I step into beta automatically. Tisha