# YOU'RE STARING AT ME!! And I like it. **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 5, 2008, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908 "2008-02-05T21:21:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![justonce](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justonce/32/1316_2.png) [@justonce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justonce)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/1 "2008-02-05T21:21:58Z")
Here is my first [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) report. Sorry for the delay! **Instant Honesty** only - **5 sprays** - 2 to neck/1 each wrist/1 hair. Covered it up with Pink Sugar. I arrived at TG destination 45 minutes later. **First contact:** Well, this was an entire 180 from the week before! Holy crap! The mood was soft and gentle, the conversation fairly intense, very pleasant indeed. This was exactly what I had been hoping for. Yummy. A couple of odd things happened though. Keep in mind this is not a romantic TG - he most certainly does not want to be interested in me, apparently the operative word here being want. I happened to be looking down as I was taking off my coat when my eyes suddenly popped up and I noticed he had his head turned 90 degrees to the right and his eyes were looking away - anywhere but me. It immediately gave me the feeling he accidentally looked at my breasts and said whoa - help. I can’t look at those. This certainly was new. Another odd thing happened when I was leaving. I started heading slowly to the door and as my hand touched the knob I stopped and slowly turned back around. I find him in back of me on the other side of the room. What the heck was he doing there? Anyway, when I looked at him he was staring right into my eyes. He had been staring at me the whole time I was going to the door and never looked away, even when I turned and met his gaze. Yowsers! That was hot. Anyway, the thing that I find the most strange is that he did not hide the fact that he was staring. I had turned back around rather slowly, giving him PLENTY of time for him to quickly pretend to be looking at anything else besides me. This is VERY unusual for him. Cripes it was sexy. I do not know quite what to make of it because Instant Honesty is not sexual. What does this mean? Maybe I just looked really good that day and he liked what he saw when I took my coat off. Or maybe he was having a Pink Sugar moment. Who knows? Who cares? Just keep doing it. **Second contact:** After I left there I stopped at a quickie mart. Usually, I am not one who just starts speaking to strangers but when I reached the checkout I said something (can’t remember what) to the one cashier. She responds by immediately talking about this book she is reading. It is a book of questions for people to ponder about what they did or haven’t done in their life, yadda yadda yadda. Well, she was INTO it. She came over opened the book and told me to read it! She was so excited she apparently did not want to wait for me to read because she started reading it, spewing out question after question. Then I realized she was actually shouting! It went something like this - “THIS BOOK REALLY MAKES YOU THINK, THIS BOOK REALLY MAKES YOU THINK, THIS BOOK REALLY MAKES YOU THINK, DOESN’T IT???” Then her partner chimes in. “THIS BOOK REALLY MAKES YOU THINK.” I’m not sure, but I think they were trying to tell me that the book really makes you think. Now I’m scared. She appears to be licking her lips getting ready to tell me her personal answers to all of the questions. Omg. 😮 Get me out of here! So that was my first Honesty experience and can’t wait to have more! Perhaps next time I can add a spray or two of something else to heighten the effect (as long as I don’t have to stop at the quickie mart). justonce ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2008, 10:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/2 "2008-02-05T22:31:28Z")
Yay, you got some hits 😃 I knew it would start if you kept at it. > [@](#): > > I do not know quite what to make of it because Instant Honesty is not sexual. This is a comman misconception about mones. Yes IH is more on the social side but all mones cause some level of attraction. IH makes people feel the need to connect its deep and intimate. He looked you right in the eyes and I am sure he was effected by the IH. I got to admit I just did a little dance in my diningroom, I am so happy the mones are finally kicking in. It only gets better and better now 😃 Great report reps to you. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/3 "2008-02-06T00:08:15Z")
Hahahaha. THIS BOOK REALLY MAKES YOU THINK!!! Too funny. You never know what people are gonna tell you when you wear that [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Great report. I find androstenol both beta and alpha, but especially alpha to be very attractive to men. In some ways I like it just as much as copulins for attraction. ---
**Author:** ![justonce](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justonce/32/1316_2.png) [@justonce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justonce)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/4 "2008-02-06T01:45:47Z")
> [@](#): > > got to admit I just did a little dance in my diningroom, I am so happy the pheromones are finally kicking in. It only gets better and better now You are so cute! Thanks for being excited for me. I thought it would never happen and even doubted that it was a hit but you guys know best! I just had a horrible thought! The whole room must of smelled like a pink sugar cloud because when I got back in my car it practically knocked me over! Does that smell linger on, and if he comes in contact with someone else while still enjoying MY scent will he start becoming attracted to the person he is with when he smells it??? No, no, no. Mine, mine, mine! Get your own pheros babe. Please someone answer that so I can sleep tonight! > [@](#): > > I find androstenol both beta and alpha, but especially alpha to be very attractive to men. I shall keep that in mind, thanks! Justonce. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 9:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/5 "2008-02-06T09:24:13Z")
Good doses of [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) can create the feelings of an intimate connection. It sounds like you got that effect here. Personally I prefer IH to IO but Kitten may well be right about the overall trend as a lot of guys do not necessarily go for deep conversations as much as women do. To answer you second question - personally if I felt that connected to you and then smelled that same perfume on another - it would only make me think of you. I might feel more at ease around the other person due to the artifical familiarity caused by the scent. But if I were interested in you that feeling would not transfer. That is just me personally but I hope that helped. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 12:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/6 "2008-02-06T12:03:30Z")
Here is a little creepy story a guy told me at work… I waer pink sugar alot and frequantly the guy comment on it. They adoe the smell. So one of the guys at work asked me if I could pick up a bottle for his wife for him. I said sure no problem and did. About a week later he tells me his wife loves the scent and wears it all the time now. Here is the creepy part… He said now every night he lays in bed next to his wife and thinks about me. 😮 (snort) Dont worry justonce, he knows its your scent and even if it lingers or someone else wears pink sugar the feeling the mones subconsciously left with him remain. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![desert\_rose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8c91f0/32.png) [@desert\_rose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desert_rose)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 12:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/7 "2008-02-06T12:34:20Z")
wow now I can’t wait to try instant honesty!! 🙂 I was gonna try instant shine next instant honesty really sounds like something I’d really love. Thats something I’ve so often longed for whenever I really love having someone around I often long for a deeper connection, I was planning to try instant shine next, after seeing this though I can’t wait to try intant honesty now too!! 🙂 Thanks for such a wonderful report its so inspiring to read 🙂 rep points for you all 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 2:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/8 "2008-02-06T14:10:44Z")
Oooh. I love your reports! When I bought the Pink Sugar yesterday, the lady at the counter said the smell drives men wild. Reminds them of donuts. GAWD - does that mean we will have the police after us? I have NEVER NEVER purchased any fragrance without spending hours at the perfume counter. I bought the Pink Sugar and the Chocolate one - and all these Pheros without trying first. You guys are expanding my horizons. Should I get [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or Instant Open next? What about androstenol? Ohhh. Sorry, just had a brain fart. The whole reason I found this site to begin with was the fact that Victorias Secret is selling a skin firming cream that claims to have androstenol in it. Of course, I couldn’t just BUY it - had to research first. That’s how I got here. Anyone tried that yet? Flirty Little Secret firming cream with Pheromones. $32 for 6 oz. ---
**Author:** ![sheba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sheba/32/1664_2.png) [@sheba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheba)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 2:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/9 "2008-02-06T14:37:02Z")
> [@phernoob](#): > > Should I get Instant Honesty or Instant Open next? > > What about androstenol? Cool thing is, whether you get [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or Instant Openess you’ll be getting androstenol! 🙂 Instant Honesty is mostly beta androstenol and Instant Openess is mostly alpha androstenol. It’s been said that a-nol brings about chatter while b-nol brings about close intimate conversation. ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 2:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/10 "2008-02-06T14:43:57Z")
Thanks. I just ordered the [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). CANT WAIT!!! ---
**Author:** ![justonce](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justonce/32/1316_2.png) [@justonce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justonce)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/11 "2008-02-06T21:55:33Z")
Hold on to you whatever it is that you hold onto, but I think I am STILL getting hits from last 2 weeks ago. Is that possible? 😮 😮 😮 There is a guy I know that was in fairly close proximity to me 2 weeks ago, long enough to get a whiff of 4-5 [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/A sprays and something else. It is on another thread. Anyway, this is NOT what I would normally wear in his presence. However, today is the 4th time in two weeks he has called me. I will admit, the first two were legitimate about canceled meetings, etc. After that, there was no reason to call again. Then a couple days later the 3rd call comes - I knew who it was (caller ID) and didn’t feel like answering. Now today the 4th call comes and he tells me something that was not really all that important. It was the kind of thing that he never has called about in the past. The thing that worried me was that he has a booming voice and he was suddenly talking in a softer, tender tone. 😮 My lordy I thought he was going to say, “It’s okay pooky pooky poo. Daddy’s here.” Why now? Is this some sort of a hit or am I overreacting? Oh please don’t let it be a hit for crying out loud. The man is married! WAH! Okay, just take a deep breath. And NEVER wear Instant Sexiness/A there again! BAD justonce. BAD girl. justonce ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/12 "2008-02-06T23:52:58Z")
Sounds like he likes you, but I’d say he hasn’t crossed the line yet. He may never do so. But as a phero-enhanced babe you’ll have to deal with an enormous fan base. Not that you don’t have one naturally, but its gonna get even bigger and more diverse now. That’s just how it is. Like a celebrity! Now if dude does get too heavy with you, try this. I’ve done it and it worked remarkably well. Casually, as you’re talking about something else drop this in, “Oh you know what I really hate? When a married guy cheats. I mean I can’t imagine anything worse than someone who would break a vow like that. How could you ever trust or respect someone who would do that? You know?” Then if he looks guilty or stammers, like happened for me, say, “Oh I wasn’t talking about you! I totally respect you. _You’d_ never do that. I was just thinking.” The married guy I used that on now respects the hell out of me. He even wrote me a professional letter of recommendation and still keeps in touch. Best, Kitten ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 10:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/13 "2008-02-07T10:54:03Z")
Married men hit on me all the time. They are married not dead and I just say well I am flattered but no thank you. I have had men react right in front of there wives. There are times when our [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) are going to effect someone we are not targeting. Take it as a compliment and proof that your pheromones are doing something. In the case of your “caller” when he calls keep it all business. If he starts to get personal in anyway just cut him right off by saying “is that all you needed to tell me” Dont chit chat with him. Was the something else you used IH prehps. It may have given him a feeling of closness to you. Someone he can trust and talk to. Yes you can get delayed reactions. I have experienced this alot. Especially at work where it is inapproperiate to act certain ways or to act on a certain impulse. Sometimes they Alter Ego just to shell shocked from the vibe to respond right away. I have had men later say things to me like “I dont know what it is about you lately” Oh someone who never seemed to respond before will hit hard as soon as we are somewhere more casual and I am not wearing my pheromones. They seem to retain the feeling. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![justonce](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justonce/32/1316_2.png) [@justonce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justonce)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 11:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/14 "2008-02-07T11:47:34Z")
Hi Tish. Just looked up that other post and it was Instant Honesty but only 1 spray. For the most part I was drowning in Instant Sexiness/A. Thanks for the response! And you too Kitten! And everyone else who responded. It’s nice to know people are interested. > [@](#): > > Should I get Instant Honesty or Instant Open next? Phernoob, I haven’t tried the [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) yet, but the Honesty is the first thing that has worked for me. Instant Sexiness/A had a bad effect on my TG. Maybe I had on too much. Instant Honesty causes more deep, intense communication and can cause one to reveal secrets they may have otherwise not revealed, whereas Openness is more chit chatty, lots of talking but in a light-hearted sense, fun and happy. For my experience, I felt like he was more interested in what I was saying than ever before, some sort of closeness. He was very gentle and caring, VERY intense. On thinking back, the staring seemed like he was magnetized and saying to himself, “What is wrong with me?” And all of this made me feel like I had more control over the situation. Me likes control. So it just depends on what your main objective is. HTH! justonce PS - Ladies, please correct me if am wrong in the explanation. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 4:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/15 "2008-02-07T16:18:51Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > There are times when our pheromones are going to effect someone we are not targeting. Take it as a compliment and proof that your pheromones are doing something. Exactly. This is something that seems to shock a lot of women from an early age - like starting in Middle School. And I think it is because a woman’s approach is often (but of course certainly not always) 180 degrees out from a man’s approach. Women often have a target guy (TG). You look sharp, throw on the phermones, find a reason to make contact, focus in on him and do your best. But then you tend to be surprised (or even disgusted 😮 depending on the individual) when some guy OTHER than the target notices how sharp you are and responds. “Why is he talking to me, I am not interested in him. I am interested in X.” The “other” guy doesn’t know that. He just knows you are looking good. Remember - its like a radio signal - the broadcasts are picked up by every receiver, not just your intended audience. Most guys on the other hand amp up and then focus in on whoever seems to respond favorably. Of course there are quite a few guys here looking to impress their own “Target Girl” but for most guys the first situation of this paragraph is often the norm. ---
**Author:** ![sheba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sheba/32/1664_2.png) [@sheba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheba)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 4:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/16 "2008-02-07T16:48:10Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Most guys on the other hand amp up and then focus in on whoever seems to respond favorably. Of course there are quite a few guys here looking to impress their own “Target Girl” but for most guys the first situation of this paragraph is often the norm. This has always been my way. I look good and feel good and then choose my dates from the guys who are showing interest. I never vie for a particular man’s attentions. Well, accept for my man! LOL Once we’re together I’ll do most anything to keep him on his toes… but that’s another story. LOL ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/17 "2008-02-07T19:42:18Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I have had men react right in front of there wives. Tish, Right in front of their wife? Could they have been hoping you’re bi and been looking for a little three way action?? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2008, 12:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/18 "2008-02-08T00:41:08Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > Tish, > > Right in front of their wife? Could they have been hoping you’re bi and been looking for a little three way action?? (Snort) 🙂 hell maybe, I dont know they didnt ask if I was Bi . One guy did ask me and my husband when we were out once if we were interested in swinging. My husband spit his beer out his nose lol. He got pissed but I just said no thanks, not interested. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![desert\_rose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8c91f0/32.png) [@desert\_rose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desert_rose)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2008, 6:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/19 "2008-02-08T06:52:47Z")
Hi justonce, I tried instant honesty for the first time right after I saw this thread 🙂 I tried it once on its own and it worked really well I looooved it then I put some on with female magic later and they worked wonderful together 🙂 I tried it again earlier today along with female magic and it worked really nice they seem to complement each other and work really well for me 🙂 I’ve tried instant openess several times it worked good, though I did feel little overwhelmed at times cause so many guys kept talking about stuff I wasn’t interested in, it was kinda like ummmm… like anyone know where the mute button is!!! lol!! [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) was soooo good the quality of conversations was better it was more real, Instant openess feels more like it will work better for me in shorter connections like business where there’s all different people all day, instant honesty really works so good for social settings and seems like it will work in others too!!! 🙂 Thanks so much for sharing your experiences with instant honesty, this thread really helped my last couple days go even better, using instant honesty along with female magic is really working good so far 🙂 Thanks so much for this thread 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2008, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/20 "2008-02-08T08:03:15Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > (Snort) 🙂 hell maybe, I dont know they didnt ask if I was Bi . _One guy did ask me and my husband when we were out once if we were interested in swinging. My husband spit his beer out his nose lol._ He got pissed but I just said no thanks, not interested.Tisha ROFLMAO! 😛 Tish, I think under the circumstances…he was… rather composed! Had the same thing happen, to me, in a bar years ago…only the ‘couple’ were girls!..and they _did_ asked me if I was bi!.. _no question_ they were lookin’ for a little menage a muffin… I confess, at the time, I _was_ in a gay bar with men/women both gay and straight…nothing unusual for me… And, yes, I told them I was bi… 😮 …yeah, girls, _bye bye_…_ **I’m** _ going home with _ **the boys!!! 😃** _ And,Tish, next time somebody asks you if you swing? Tell 'em, yeah, but only if you can bring the dog… [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908.md?page=2)