# YOU'RE STARING AT ME!!       And I like it.

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 5, 2008, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908 "2008-02-05T21:21:58Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 17\
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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 10:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/41 "2008-02-23T10:41:06Z")

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Now way Bella. I’m with April. This avatar is a keeper (along with the John Wayne quote) even if you just rotate in and out of it.

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/42 "2008-02-23T10:45:46Z")

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> [@EnchantedApril](#):
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> _ **Man, if I wore pheromones, I mean cops, the poor man would lose it.** _

_ **Aaaaaah…lost in paradise…drifting in a sea of…April scented cops… 🙂 🆒** _

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 10:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/43 "2008-02-23T10:48:23Z")

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> [@EnchantedApril](#):
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> HOWEVER, to actually yield it up, really yield it not just let’s boogie, then we ladies need to FEEL connected with.

YES!! My experience exactly.

Reps back at you for that observation and honesty.

I really think these posts (not necessarily the whole thread) along with a couple others by Tisha (and a couple other of the ladies) discussing how to properly use 'none (Turn Up The Heat) in context should be added to the stickies for men. Not just tell them what the products do but really how to best use them in what sequence and within certain contexts.

Edit: Went to rep you and said I need to spread the wealth a little more first. I’ll come back to this ina while. Definitely deserves the points.

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 10:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/44 "2008-02-23T10:57:58Z")

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> [@bosshank](#):
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> Now way Bella. I’m with April. _**This avatar is a keeper (along with the John Wayne quote)**_ even if you just rotate in and out of it.

Why howdy, Pilgrim!  
Allrightythen…think I’ll keep it!..'n fact that’s just what Wolfie said! 🙄  
Must be that same tribe thing…😃

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/45 "2008-02-23T15:26:22Z")

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> _ **Yard work?** _ So _that’s_ what we’re calling it now. Well, if he needs a hand? just call Ink or Tisha…they’ll send over “Chubby” and “Willy” to help out.

😮 OH my, ROFL You know Bella my husbands name really is willy or william to be exact LOL Must be why I love those wet willies so much (snort) 😉

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/46 "2008-02-23T20:01:29Z")

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> _ **Yard work?** _ So _that’s_ what we’re calling it now. Well, if he needs a hand? just call Ink or Tisha…they’ll send over “Chubby” and “Willy” to help out.

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> 😮 OH my, ROFL You know Bella my husbands name really is willy or william to be exact LOL Must be why I love those wet willies so much (snort) 😉

Hahahaha! 🆒

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 8:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/47 "2008-02-23T20:07:45Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> 😮 OH my, ROFL You know Bella _ **my husbands name really is willy** _ or william to be exact LOL Must be why I love those wet willies so much (snort) 😉

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! ROFLMF’NAO!!! I can’t stop laughing!!! Between you and Ink, I need to change my underpants!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/48 "2008-02-23T20:28:47Z")

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Does your Wofie do laundry Bella? 😛

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/49 "2008-02-23T20:59:45Z")

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LOL Ink, my Wolfie does _everything! 😉_ _ **We** know_ what a little TAH and a smidge of cops can do for a girl! 😃

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**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2008, 8:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/50 "2008-02-24T08:32:09Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> 😮 OH my, ROFL You know Bella my husbands name really is willy or william to be exact LOL Must be why I love those wet willies so much (snort) 😉

you are SO bad! I LOVE it, naturally!

> [@Bella](#):
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> _ **Yard work?** _ So _that’s_ what we’re calling it now. Well, if he needs a hand? just call Ink or Tisha…they’ll send over “Chubby” and “Willy” to help out.
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> Thanks April! I was just thinking of changing it too!..buuuut since _you_ said _you_ love it…think I’ll hang onto it a little longer!  
> I was thinkin’ biker chick with a cigar and maybe a little body art, ya know?..somethin’ a little different. 😛 My alter ego?

You crack me up!

Now, of course, I love the John Wayne quote, but I REALLY love the Cinderella quote! ROFL over that one. It is SUCH a **GIRL** quote.

Your avatar, very VARGAS. Is it by Vargas?

> [@bosshank](#):
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> YES!! My experience exactly.
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> Reps back at you for that observation and honesty.
> 
> I really think these posts (not necessarily the whole thread) along with a couple others by Tisha (and a couple other of the ladies) discussing how to properly use 'none (Turn Up The Heat) in context should be added to the stickies for men. Not just tell them what the products do but really how to best use them in what sequence and within certain contexts.
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> Edit: Went to rep you and said I need to spread the wealth a little more first. I’ll come back to this in awhile. Definitely deserves the points.

You’re very kind. Thanks!

It’s even more interesting. Because by NOT having it stickied, it’s only the men who take the TIME to read through a bit, like the same skill set in actually getting to know us a little, who will truly then benefit from these gems.

Those who only want the quickie connection will, at this stage in their sex life, not get it. Even though they will be gettin’ some sugar! lol!

Cheers!

April

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**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2008, 8:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/51 "2008-02-24T08:35:07Z")

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> [@Bella](#):
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> _ **Aaaaaah…lost in paradise…drifting in a sea of…April scented cops… 🙂 🆒** _

Darlink, you are fabulous!

Wow, it is going SUPER SIZZLING!

OK, and I keep getting these compliments from other people WAY later in the day, “I don’t know it is, but you look just GREAT today!”

I am ROFL. It’s also cause I washed and styled my hair today. But WE also know what that extra edge is! !!!

Can hardly wait for my new order to arrive in March! yip,yip, yahoooie!

April

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2008, 12:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/52 "2008-02-24T12:18:37Z")

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> [@EnchantedApril](#):
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> So, with that, your post got me thinking… _ **It might be REALLY REALLY good for MEN who are after women to wear Instant Honesty.** BECAUSE of precisely what you just said_  
> \ ***Women then FEEL that we are more intimate** , _ **and then, ahem, you CAN get more intimate with her physically** _ because we feel you have bothered to connect with US uniquely individually,and not just as Model x3z700000a who comes with the right equipment.\*April

> [@bosshank](#):
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> EXACTLY!! I am an old (mid-40s) married guy (20+ years) and this is the conclusion I came to even before I was married. _ **But it is hard to convince the young guys of this. They see 'none as a more direct route to where they want to go. But that only gets you sexual excitement - which is not bad of course. But the Instant Honesty helps create that feeling of intimacy which in turn helps create a much more fertile ground for emotional and sexual excitement/fulfillment.** _  
> I also use this just to help connect with female friends with no romantic intentions (as I am married). I think it definitely helps. _ **I find myself being included in conversations and thoughts that these women may not normally share with most guys. It makes better friends** _ and helps create a huge web of connections I can rely on when needed. Once againI am married so this is not an issue.

Okay, just so you don’t think I haven’t been paying attention…

Sage pheroadvice that we, alas, repeat often, lol.

The [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) are highly attractive on their own and the younger guys would do well to heed this advice. Bella waiting to exhale. 🙄 Yes, what they fail to understand is a detour may take them a little longer than the ‘direct’ route, but in the long run may be their _best_ ticket…if they _ever_ want to get there…and may get 'em more of what they’re ‘after’ better than the sexual pheromones. _Especially_ when they first begin using them. Once the socials are understood, it becomes more apparent how to manipulate the sexual within the social context. I agree…when social rapport has been comfortably established it…ahem…pardon me…greases the way toward a more sexual relationship. However you want to define that. I don’t know why it’s a concept that’s so difficult to understand.

Maybe if we say that… _ **Tater has gotten some of his BEST HITS** _ wearing Instant Honesty\*\*\* ALONE\*\*\*…not that he hasn’t stated it all over the forum himsef! 😃

What happens with Instant Honesty is it opens up a \*willingness \*to connect, to share…and _this_ allows for a deeper connection and \*that \*makes all the difference in relationships, in general, not just romantic ones…_and_ it can _ **re** connect people in ways you have to see/experience to believe.  
That’s the true beauty of Instant Honesty…when you learn how to work the magic it’s an amazingly_ useful tool. I never want to be without it.

Something freely offered to me is, somehow, always sweeter than something taken.  
Like a box of fine chocolates, sure you can pluck a piece from the box yourself…  
but when \*offered \*by someone, especially someone you care about or are getting to know…  
it’s something more than candy…it becomes a wonderful shared experience you can delight in together.

> [@bosshank](#):
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> But _ **there is nothing wrong with a continuous seduction of your wife** _.

If you already have, as bossdaddy 😉 said, a '_permanent date’,_ sooo much the bettah.

That’s why I’m _never_ without Instant Honesty\* **and** \* my _glass slippers_…when I \*ride! 😉 \*

Bella

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [February 25, 2008, 8:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/53 "2008-02-25T08:52:29Z")

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Well spoken, Bella, well spoken. Che Brava!

Same situation as with April - I would rep you again but the system will not let me. I will get back to you as soon as I can.

Edit: Finally. I am a man of my word.

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2008, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/54 "2008-06-17T20:39:09Z")

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> [@Bella](#):
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> _ **Yard work?** _ So _that’s_ what we’re calling it now. _ **Well, if he needs a hand? just call Ink or Tisha…they’ll send over “Chubby” and “Willy” to help out.** _

> [@tisha23](#):
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> 😮 OH my, ROFL _ **You know Bella my husbands name really is will** __ **y** _ or william to be exact LOL Must be why _ **I love those wet willies** _ so much (snort) 😉

Oooooooooo Tisha…gurrrrrl! Looky what I found here! 😮 😃 Couldn’t help maself…‘n dun ask me what I was lookin’ for when I found it! LOL

I’ve sculpted…but nothin’ like this…hum…think I mighta found a new project! 🙄 😛

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**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2008, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/56 "2008-06-17T22:38:58Z")

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Betanol, particularly when used as part of a balanced mix, draws attention.

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2008, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/57 "2008-06-17T23:24:38Z")

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**Author:** ![copycat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/copycat/32/896_2.png) [@copycat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/copycat)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/youre-staring-at-me-and-i-like-it/8908/58 "2008-07-16T05:48:59Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> He said now every night he lays in bed next to his wife and thinks about me.

Tisha,

Eeeeeew!

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