1 year, 40 girls

Hey guys,

I lurked under a different screen name, but decided to make a new one as my old screen name is too easily identifiable. Hope you understand.

This is my story. All real. Both the positive and negative.

Background: in my mid to late 30s, had been with someone for 4-5 years and when we broke up, she completely destroyed me. My confidence shattered, she stole all my lifesaving. I had all of 40 dollars in my account and no job, as I was finishing a professional degree. I was distraught for a while. Took a few months to figure things out, then when life got more stable, I started dating again.

Before pheromone: When I started dating again, I absolutely had no idea what to do or what to say. I “got lucky” a couple of times in three months, mostly because of my perceived “high value” (even though I was not really) and reasonable fashion sense. I challenged myself by going out as much as I can, sometimes I would go on 2-3 dates a night. This had the effect of 1) I was less outcome-oriented; 2) it helps me figure out what i wanted, and what I was doing “wrong”

Post androtics: i’ve been curious about phero before. Had tried athena and some lovescent stuffs. Then I stumbled on to this forums and started experimenting. My first was A314 (which I got partially because I started a new job), followed by IS, ammo, TUTH, IJ, p83, p74. I also got hold of a few free sample of IO, IH, CTTM.

my usual mix: i have to admit i’m lazy. I just go with the flow and treat each day as my little experiment. That said, I think two mixes give me the most success in that romance department

mix 1: 3 x IJ, 2 Ammo, 2 IS, 2 p83 15 mcg
mix 2: 5 drops A314, 2 TUTH, 2 p83

Obviously body chemistry is different, but between phero and my fearlessness, I probably have gotten laid more than most rockstars. sometimes twice in one night. Including girls who are STILL IN COLLEGE. More than 15 years younger than I am. I have “gotten lucky” with 40 girls (roughly) in the past year, not including probably equal numbers of making out and other (not quite full blown sex) illicit activities :stuck_out_tongue: at bars and restaurants. All of this despite working 80-90 hours a week.

That said, I haven’t been able to transform my dates into anything more permanent so perhaps that’s a downfall of those mixes (particularly in combination with my personality). YMMV.

My advise: go play and stop worrying about little things :slight_smile:

one more thing: how does one become a reporting user??? I’m interested in trying out project UF for fun.

Just keep reporting and you’ll get there bud!
Hint: If you report about MXs in their special thread created by John Sebastian, you will have an even greater chance.

Btw, nice report. The reason why nothing gets serious though is because of the highly sexual products in your mixes. I’m talking about TUTH for mix 2 and AMMO + IJ for mix 1.
Slow down a bit the -none and add IH and socials. Steer stuff to a more serious direction and may be you will se something there :wink:

Yes - both those mixes are very overtly sexual. A more social/bonding mix would help a lot there - and maybe slow down a little when you meet someone with LTR potential.

Saying that, mix 2 has LTR potential, due to its hi-status.

And regular reports of this quality should get you RU’d in just a few months. :slight_smile:

Thanks. That’s interesting. I’ve tried more social mixes in the past. One that came to mind was Ammo x 1, IS x 2, IH x 2, but that doesn’t seem to be as congruent with me as the two mixes above. I also didn’t get anymore LTR than the two mixes that I outlined earlier. It’s like women have on their sexual brain with the phero…and switch their regular brain on the morning after…

Every woman responds differently to pheromones. In my opinion, setting is the most important variable when deciding the mix. For example, women that normally party at clubs will generally be more receptive to -none (in a positive way) than socials. Now of course, there’s a limit, but you get my idea.

Now dont get me wrong I am not judging you. I am just bringing this up because of your mention of not being able to transition into any LTR’s

What if a girl banged 40 guys in a year ? You may still want to bang her but you wouldn’t want to bring her home to meet your family. Its the same with what we call manwhore’s (no offence) Sure lots of people tried him out and we may want to try him out as well but we dont want to keep him. I know you may not think people know each other so there is no harm but you would be surprised how word gets around and women know the player vibe when we observe it.

Not being able to transform these encounters into something more has little to do with the pheromones. They wont prevent that in fact they should enhance your ability to do that. I agree highly sexual products just signal sex. Maybe its time to send another signal.

Nope pheromones dont work that way. The morning after she see’s you the same way she did the night before.

Mixes are not congruent with you, they are not your natural signature, you need to be congruent with them. Perhaps your just not looking for anything long term which is why those mixes you mentioned worked so well for you.

Just remember you direct the mix the mix doesn’t direct you. You may get less hits with the Ammo Is Ih combo you mentioned or maybe you just didnt use enough, 2 sprays of IH and IO is not much. The hits you get will be more quality hits though and quality is better then quantity if your looking LTR.

Be sure your trying different dosages of the socials. People tend to need more of those then things like IJ AMMO or TUTH,

Tisha

As long as I’m 1 through 40, then I don’t mind. :smiley:

First 10 or last 10? lol Doesn’t that defeat the purpose of ‘playa’?

Tisha’s right. And the places you’re going - you’d be surprised how many fem’s in the bathroom who DON’T know each other, will talk to another they see with you. You will be scored, sorted and determined as “ok for one night”.

We now do the same thing that you guys do. You’d be surprised how many girls now give ‘heads up’ about guys they’ve seen playing the circuit. I prefer the term He-Whore. It’s funnier. But yes, you’ve probably been labeled - just like guys do to us - and been found ‘a sure thing if you need to scratch an itch, but nothing else’.

And it’s obvious that you don’t want an LTR. Your head, maybe (the one on your neck); but your emotional state says otherwise. Your ‘little head’ gets to override at this time. Happens to us too.

Just so we’re all clear, here: I’m not judging you. Sounds like you’re having some well deserved fun (being careful too, I hope). I say I’d like an LTR, and so I would - in the abstract, in perfect conditions. What, then is perfect conditions? I don’t know and so I shy away from any kind of repeat incident with the same person. So much for wanting an LTR, lol.

When you’re ready, you’ll vibe different. Right now you’re being congruent with what you actually need - recovery, and learning to get back to that trust space. Which takes work and concentration on developing yourself, which will bring it’s own search failures or learning experiences lol.

Right now, you’re just catching the vibes you put out. And at one point in time or another, most girls will do an ‘older guy’ - mistakenly believing that age brings practice and skills. Hope you’re not disappointing them - :smiley:

Take it easy and see if you can top your own record this next year.

I would highly suggest doing daytime for so many reasons. I’m kind of assuming you always meet these women at clubs/bars/nightclubs?

The kind of girls you will meet in a mall/coffeshops/park/streets are totally different from the women that goes to several clubs in 1 week. I’m sure you understand my point now.