I’ve registered on this forum almost a year ago yet for some reason I haven’t ordered yet :o. well im gonna do so real soon, and need some advice on the first buy
First, background. I’m 17, still in high school, a loner because i’m like a ghost sometimes (ppl don’t realize i’m there). And for a while I was really pushing it, being very outgoing and stuff, saying hello, etc. But all my conversations end after a while, like the other person would be uninterested and turn away. Or, sometimes there’s just a awkward silent period and it ends there. also i feel 2nd rate, because when i talk to someone and then someone else says something, the person who i was talking to would respond to the other person instead, and then come back and like “what were you saying?”, or forgets i even talked
So I’m looking for some attention basically. And I dunno if it exists a mone that can prevent those awkward “silent” periods in convos. ive read alot of threads, and came down to IShine (for the self-effect - be more confident), IO (suppose to make others more willing to chat?), CTTM2 (the name seems to fit my situation), and AMMO (to get attention?). which ones work well as a standalone/starter thing? And I’ll probably buy several types of those to try.
one last question, should i buy the TOGO ones first just to try and then move on to the 30ml bottles? that way atleast i wont feel like abusing the guarantee
I’d suggest getting togo’s of IO and Shine. Now here’s one caveat. Awkward silences are not the other persons fault, and mones will not help if you don’t actually have something to talk about. What’s funny is some of the quietest most awkward conversationalists I’ve met have actually been some of the most interesting people I’ve met. Take an inventory of some of your most interesting true personal stories, practice your delivery…how can you tell the story in a way that’s engaging and captivating. Also make a small list of off the wall questions that can be good conversation starters. When there’s a lull or awkward silence break out the questions, questions are good because it gets people talking about their favorite subject…themselves.
First off let’s give you a bit of a boost. Instant Shine (2x concentration) will put you in a great frame of mind and make you want to be social; it’s youthful energetic fun in a bottle. Next add Instant Openness(2x) or CTTM2 to make those around you chatty. Then the topper… Instant Gentleman… for a cool suave got it all together vibe. The kind of person people want to get to know and be friends with. Those are the three I would go with. Keep in mind you have to force yourself to be in the conversations, but try to do it in a relax way. Lunch might be a good way to start with a group of people; if things seem awkward for you just take a bite of food and pick up where you left off. Best of luck!
yea i definitely need to improve on social skills. gosh its not normal, it’s like something i never really understood. i wish there were a book “how to talk 101”.
Actually there’s a lot of books on conversational skills, One thing I did was buy “The Book of Questions”. These are great conversation starters and can lead a conversation in much more interesting directions than the simple “What do you do for a living?” and stuff like that.
hey i received my bottle today!
im gonna try IS tomorrow to school. I’ll start with one spray as said in a guide by tisha23
specifically how do we apply the pheromones? spray it where, at what distance, half a spray here and another half there? rub after that or let it dry? should i apply twice a day (morning and then 8 hours later)? is showering everyday (removing the old stuff before putting on new) important?
lol, all those questions! i wanna make technicalities right
IS I usually spray around my upper chest/neck area, that way the mones waft upward when I breath and I get an awesome self effect. Some mones that you’d rather effect others more than yourself you can spray on your wrists, that way if you talk with your hands in front of you or move your hands around you wave your mones around to whoever s standing in front of you.
