The Turk: eventually i put on 2 more sprays of Turn Up The Heat (cuz i dont care). as far at the turk, he was only quieter and nicer after that, if anything. runnerxvr, im thinking you’re right. he could put a lot more value on interpersonal male hierarchy because of his upbringing/genes than, let’s say, a young european male like myself. so let’s assume for a second that the pheros worked: then i smelled like a better man to him (especially after 2x in the morning and 2x more at 4pm). so therefore he switches from thinking of me as a POS to looking up to me because in his mind he wants to learn how to be like me. i dont think he respects people who are just like him, but i noticed that he’s very eager to please anyone with a higher title than him. edit took so long to type all this up and bosshank posted his comment: im glad to see others interpret this the same way (runner and boss) edit
The Russian Hotness. sorry, right off the bat im gonna tell you i didnt get to do much testing or saw much of a reaction. like Casanova suggested, i dont spray more until i see how she reacts first. she comes in at around 4pm all flustered from doing whatever she was doing all day. at that point i have the morning 2 sprays still smelling strong. she didnt do anything out of the ordinary, no lustful looks, no jumping around. i said, “fuck it, im going for 2 more.” so i went to the car and did 2 sprays on my neck. if anything, this stuff will make me wanna have sex with myself, i like the scent
i was kinda scared to go back in because the scent is very strong and it would seem wierd that all of a sudden at 4pm max decides to put on some cologne? anyway, i go back and go up to her cube. we chatted, but nothing. maybe just maybe: her face was blushed, but this is boston and it’s piss-freezing weather outside and she had just come in. there is a male director, her and me talking a few mins later. she kinda told the director that she would hate to sit in a diff seat because then her boss would be able to see that she spends too much time online. i felt that whole conversation was TMI in the presence of a high level business manager. it was like 5:30 at that point and she said she’s leaving again and wont be back for an hour, so i wasnt gonna stick around that long to find out nothing, i left after she left. still not convinced, too much circumstantial evidence.
a little background on the russian. she and i are best friends are work and everyone else thinks im banging her. she’s 26, has a 9yo son, married to a russian champion (european and near east gold medals) wrestler who runs his own private gym here now, he’s 47. from all that i know about anything, she wants me anyway. because she’s married, nothing ever happened, and prolly never will. nor do i want something like that to get out and ruin a perfectly fine family. i wouldnt mind making the crap out with her in a dark closet at work tho.
i think that because of our already established flirtatious rapport she didnt not show any effects. maybe she already thinks im sexy? she doesnt behave professionally, so i dont think she’d cover up any subconscious signals like grooming her hair or bitting her lip (which she does like she needs it to breathe as it is
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The Project Managers. ok, so im not getting anything new from the russian hotness. at this point it’s after the additional 2 sprays of Turn Up The Heat. i migrate over to the cubes where we keep our PM’s. 3 older than me women, 40yo pakistani, 40-50yo white american, 30-ish white american recent first time mother. im there for one reason and one reason only, to get some attention. i want to talk to them all, especially the new mom cuz she’s cute (and even more now so because i know she just made a baby, wierd, creepy?). so i ask about some total bs about indian food: “oh, you like indian food? really, i never pictured you would! oh, it’s just that i noticed you eat very healthy and smart…” blah blah blah, more of that kinda conversation with the new mom. all 3 were friendly and laughing/joking, nothing out of the ordinary, they like me anyway. no looks tho, and that’s not to say they didnt look at me, they make plenty of conversational eye contact, but no LOOKS if you know what i mean, and i think you do… so that’s that, except…
here is something i thought was maybe possibly something. in the process of that conversation im standing in the cube of the 40 paki and i see something on the floor, so i pick it up, it’s some kinda cloth sack. i give it to her and ask what it is. she giggles, “oh, i dunno, some pouch, i think it’s from my cellphone.” then she tries to throw it in the air and catch it. except she’s looking at me while doing it, totally fucks that up, the thing does a quadruple pirouette salto into her face, bounces off, she tries to catch it like a puppy going after a butterfly with her paws, knocks a bunch of crap off her desk, and now she has to go hunting for that stupid sack under her desk! wtf was that? i’ve never seen her do a trick like that before. i think it’s possible that was an indication that there were thoughts in her head at that moment other than indian food that i was talking about.
Stop and Stop. went to get some food, but mostly to walk by a bunch of women and see what happens. nothing. no looks, no turns, used the self check out and left.
Conclusion. not convinced either way. 2 possible reactions of today were the random comment from a female director and then the juggling act from the PM. both indicate possible hidden or subconscious thoughts, so that’s a point in phero’s favor. however, nothing much else noticed today unless i get super picky, but any one of those could be explained naturally: like a red face from the cold or fun conversations because everyone is in a good mood anyway.
Plan for Tomorrow. im just gonna do 4 sprays of TUTH off the bat in the morning, fuck it, let’s see what happens 