i’m ember. i’m a 20 year old estrogen user (ha) who currently lives in florida. i stumbled upon this site when a friend of mine in alaska give me a bottle of “pure instinct,” a supposed pheromone. after trying it a few times, i realised this product did no good for me. doing research on it, i found that there are better, MUCH better products out there.
as i mentioned earlier, i CURRENTLY live in florida. i am actually moving from small surburbian florida, to big city california, and to be honest, i’m scared to death! i’m a pretty shy girl, and even though everyone tells me i’ll make friends easily, i wouldn’t mind a little help in the making friends, finding love, boost in confidence, etc etc field. not to mention, help in the field of “getting some.” oh man that sounded immature. whenever i am in a relationship, my boyfriend never seems to want to sleep with me. am i really just THAT unattractive or anti-sexy? =/
i’ve been looking into a few different pheromones, but i don’t want to go ahead and jump into buying and then later realise it isn’t the right one for me. any suggestions? any comments? so curious to hear and learn more. thanks! =3
Hello Ember!
Welcome to the forum! And one more Welcome as your name is the same of one of one of my best friends ;-)! So, you are thinking about Pheros as an help for your situation? Ok, Pheros can give you a (small) help, even if the most of your help will come from within of yourself. Anyway, not knowing much about you, I can only give you soem help on the “Pheros” thing. First of all, read carefully the stickies in the mens’ and womens’ forums as they are very useful. Then, I’d suggest to take some pheros in TOGO size just to test them out and see what suits to you the best. I suggest you Instant Sexiness A and B, Instant Openness and maybe also TAH/TAL (I don’t know if these two are sold to newbies, but nevermind, are quite difficult to be used). Are you already thinking about some product? Ok, if you have more questions, feel free to ask!!!
you should consider yourself lucky you found this site! when i first read about pheros i got scammed and got really nervous about this whole phero thing! most people buy the fake or not so good quality pheros and just quite after that, but i see not you.
well now that you found out about this magical place you should read the womens stickies as they are the BEST for beginners. I wish i did because i bought TUTH which is basically for advanced users who know what they are doing.
so i would say READ READ READ and when your done READ some more! thats the best thing you can do now.
then buy some togos of what you think will ACCENT your features and personality. Then you can work on your insides. thats the best thing you can do for yourself at this point.
so why are you moving to cali?
what do you plan to do their.
do you still have you same squeeze as mentioned before?
Welcome to the forum! It’s great to have another female poster here. You’ve gotta try Instant Sexiness (that describes it very well ) and some of the “social” pheromones. I really like Instant Shine and Instant Honesty. You’ll be the hit of any social gathering that you go to!
Just remember though, the pheros can’t do all the work for you…you’ve got to put yourself out there too. And moving…what a great opportunity to act more confident and “with-it” than you normally are because your new friends won’t know you any differently. The more you act this way, the more it will become part of your personality. Sort of like Fake it until you Make it!
Good luck to you and I hope to see more posts from you!
Do you mean your on the pill or take estrogen for other reasons. It could make a difference in pheromone recommendations so dont think I am being nosy LOL
This is why I asked the above question. See when a women takes BC pills they make less of a pheromone called copulins. Copulins are vaginal secretions from young fertile females and signal men that you are a attractive mate. Basically they are part of what turns guys on. Dont worry cops sold here are synthetic. So products that contain it will work well for you in this department.
I suggest Instant sexiness A to start with. It has a small amount of copulins in it.
Its confident strong sexy and attracts attention.
I also suggest something to help with the shyness. Instant Honesty and CTTM are both very good.
Next I suggest Instant Shine for a upbeat charismatic warm vibrant vibe. This can also boost the confidence a bit and people will gravitate to you more.
Oh and pure instinct is a pheromone product its just really mild. The most you see with it is a increase of socialization but its very subtle.
If you have any questions just ask. We look forward to your participation in the forum. We have lots of fun here.
hi everyone! thanks for replying! sorry it took so long for me to respond. my internet here has been cut off, so i pretty much rely on mooching off my neighbour’s wifi. xP
tisha23:
to be honest, i have just gotten off the pill. i was living in alaska for a few months and ran out of the stuff while up there about four months ago. i’m debating whether or not i should go back on, but probably not. glad i mentioned that. had a feeling it might make a difference.
thank god you mentioned that! i was beginning to think that stuff was anti-phero and did the complete opposite for me. that would be bad.. thank you for your suggestions. i’ll go check those out.
i am curious those. instant shine. i haven’t really looked too much into that. is it something that will effect myself or the people around me? between that, instant honest and CTTM, which would be best overall? am i even compairing the right products?
thanks for the advice, river! i’m really working hard on this, kinda psyching myself out until i really believe it i suppose. =3 i’m so excited about moving. but like i said, a little nervous at the same time.
) and some of the “social” pheromones. I really like Instant Shine and 