I’m a pretty lowkey dude that has fallen into a rut with women…
I’m 21, around 6’ tall, and in okay shape. I go to college, and there are a ton of beautiful women everywhere… all of them seem unattainable. I’m smart and pretty funny, but I never get to that point, because I’m relatively sure that my approach anxiety (if y’all call it that here) gives me the confidence of… something that doesn’t have confidence. It’s annoying to the point of embarrassment. HELP! I’ll probably use whatever you suggest at bars, class, or really anywhere I’d see a nice lady. Thanks!
I’d really like a suggestion for some way to get me to open up.
Hi Bambino, Welcome. I think a great place for you to start would be Ammo and IS. Ammo will help you get the attention of the ladies, and instant shine will make it easier to get a conversation going. But you do have to do something, the mones wont work all by themselves. But the shine should help you too get over that confidence issue. Keep working on it.
Im sure some other folks will be along soon with some more advice. If you need some help, just ask. Everyone is pretty cool here.
I agree with the suggestions of Ammo and IS, but I actually think that Instant Openness would be more important for you than IS. IO is specifically designed for conversation. IS is a mood lifter, and it might help you feel less tense, but IO will make people more inclined to talk to you, and conversation will be more natural.
In your situation I disagree with much of what the others have said. Go with IG + IH. It’s a nice guy with balls (it helps me act on them). Ammo + Instant Shine is solid and IO helps get peeps gabbing, but with IG+IH on I just say f**k it, let’s do this and I think that’s what you need.