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Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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Here’s my intro: Hello from Toronto Canada

That was last October. I haven’t started a journal because I felt I still had a lot to learn about reading human behaviour, so my reports would be either unhelpful or inaccurate.

I’ve done a lot of learning since then, and tried to recognize behavioural indicators. In April, I decided to keep a personal journal, which I’ll post in here.

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2012 Friday, April 6

Part1 ~8pm

  • 3x IG to sides of neck
  • 3x ammo (1 chest, 2 front of neck)
  • 1x IH to wrist and rubbed onto other wrist
  • 1x IO to wrist and rubbed onto other wrist

Location: sports pub

Went to the bar to have drinks with an old friend. I’m a regular at this bar, so when I walked in there were a group of friends I usually hang out with. I said hi to them, and sat down with the friend I came there to see. The great thing about nights like this is that I wasn’t on a mission to get laid. I was just there to have drinks with my buddy.

  • first thing he says to me is “You look good”
  • he was suffering from depression, so I did most of the talking. IO and IH may have helped me.
  • at the table next to us was a group of college kids. They were friendly, but we spent most of the time minding our own business.
  • whenever my friend went to the washroom, I’d get up and chat with the group of regulars I’m usually there with. They were extra smiles toward me, and wanted to tell me about their upcoming vacation (like a child telling dad something to be proud of).

Part2 ~12:30am

So my friend is getting ready to leave, and goes to the washroom one last time. I’ve had a few beers, and when I do become very spontaneous. There was a girl standing nearby waiting for her friend in the washroom. Cute face, big boobs, not thin, but not fat. Like Meg White’s body, but a cuter face, and shorter hair. She had a jacket and scarf, and was checking her phone. In my spontenaity, I just went up to her and introduced myself. She wasn’t standoffish. She wanted to get to know me as I was asking her about herself. Turns out she’s 20 years old. I didn’t lie about my age. As we continue talking, we got closer. She wasn’t stepping away, so I knew she was into me. I asked her for her number, and we exchanged them. My buddy comes up to me and says he’s leaving. I gave him a hug goodbye, then I asked the girl if she wanted to sit down at the table my friend and I were at. She says yes, and goes to tell her friend (male).

We (her and I, not her friend) sat down across from each other, and there wasn’t much conversation before I looked into her eyes for an extended amount of time without us talking. So I just came out and asked, “Can I kiss you”? She leans in and we kiss. I suggested that she sit next to me, so she did and we start making out. It wasn’t long before I became conscious of the spectacle we may have been making, so mentioned that we were a bit too public, and asked if she wanted to go to my car. She said yes.

We get in the back of my car, and start making out more passionatly. She started telling me how handsome I am, and that she wanted me to approach her, and I must do this every night. Very flattering. It wasn’t until the next day, I equated this to the IH/IO on my wrists. I tend to hold a girl’s head when kissing her, so she probably got a good whiff. Eventually things get more heavy. She didn’t mind my hand up her shirt and down her pants, so I unzipped my pants, put her hand on my cock and she started jerking me off. That’s when I start talking about going back to her place or mine. Neither of which was an option, so I suggested we get a hotel room.

I had to go back in to pay my tab. At this point it’s around 1:45. When I came back in, one guy I knew was asking me what happened with that girl. The waitress, who I know from being a regular, was extra smiles when I asked for the bill. She knew what was going on. We stopped off at a gas station, to pick up condoms, then to a hotel.

As we’re at the front desk getting a room, the clerk asks for my liscence plate number. I didn’t remember it, so I had to go out and check. I don’t know how, but I was “on” that night, and realized: this is the perfect time to sneak on some tuth! The last mones I sprayed on were 6 hours earlier.

-1x TUTH double strength togo to my chest (I ordered regular strength, but AD gave me a free upgrade. I guess that’s fine, but at double strength, I’ve always been scared to use it.)

We went to our room and started. I was on top of her, with my head next to hers, so I’m sure she inhaled the tuth. It wasn’t intentional; I worked out my arms earlier that day, so I just couldn’t hold myself up. :slight_smile: Because of the beer, I lasted 2 hours. She had 4 orgasms, and was telling me that I’m amazing in bed. Keep that in mind for the end of this story.

We eventually showered together and went to bed. In the morning, I drove her to home. Things were pretty quiet as we left and on the way to her place. I snuck in a spray of tuth, 2x A1, 2x IS in the morning. I keep them in an altoids case. I pulled up to her apartment building door. We looked at each other. I was waiting for her to say something, and she was waiting for me. I broke the pause with “I’ll call you.” She wanted to let me know that she never does this.

I got home and thought “how in the world can I be great in bed?” You know why I thought that…
Up until that that night, I was a virgin. :slight_smile:
The only reason I can give for her being satisfied is tuth.

She could have been lying. I texted her a few days later, to see if she wants to get together for coffee. She sent me an enthusiastic “for sure”, and suggested a date and time.

Thank you, Pherotalk. :slight_smile: