Hi phermone peoples. Here’s the deal. Male, Illinois, newly single after being in LTR for 7 1/2 years. I am so off “my game”, if I ever had one, it’s scary. The thought of even approaching a woman at a bar and trying to start something up is terrifying. I thought maybe phermones might help things along a bit. I think I’m average looking, and once the ice is broken, I can hold my own - I hope. I am looking for something more than a quick fling. I’ve done a lot of reading and it looks like A314 might be a good product to start with. Agree? Any other suggestions? My first purchase will probably only be 1, maybe 2 products (yes, I’m a skeptic), so I’d like something that will show some tangible results.
Hi ToroLoco and welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear you feel you’ve lost your edge but hey, pheromones will sort that right out and give you a boost 
For yourself, you might want to pick Instant Shine (that’s a definite pick-me-up when you’re feeling not so sure), Ammo to attract the ladies and give you a little something they get curious about. Actually, the whole Instant line is really good and usually recommended for beginners (not that I’m any kind of expert myself 
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A314 seems to me as more of a “Respect me, I’m your leader” product but I’m sure someone more knowledgeable will come along to explain.
What kind of venues are you going to (bars, clubs… something else)?
Do you have any experience with pheros (actually should have started with that)?
Be sure to check out the stickies in both Men and Women’s forums for tips, guidelines and don’t forget to report back on what results you get!
Anyways nice to have you on board
Hello TOroLoco Welcome!
Dont worry too much, you will soon be able to get your game back, especially with some help from pheromones. Sorry about the breakup. I would say io can will help you alot getting started since it break the ice very well, and also help everyone be alittle more relaxed and approachable.
A314 will not make you approachable, possible on its own can even give a too high status and some unfriendlyness. So try ammo too which will be great for dating 
Good luck!
Hey Loco,
Welcome to the community.
A314 is an excellent choice for a first pheromone. But, A314 should not be used on its own as a pick-up pheromone, and it is recommended to soften it up with one of the socials.
No experience with phermones. The only venue I go to regularly is a pool hall with a very high guy to girl ratio. I’m thinking no matter what, phermones won’t help much there. Ill probably start going to more bars (not clubs), the gym, etc.
Also, don’t be sorry about the break-up. I’m not. Should have done it years ago.
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
Its OK to be a skeptic but I do suggest you read “what mones can do and what they cant do” You can find a link to it in my signature below.
Mones are subtle in nature, we dont go around consciously saying “hey there is a masculine guy he must make alot of anone” When you use synthetic mones they are more noticeable but every reaction is not blatant. It is fun when you do get one of those occasional blatant hits though LOL .
I suggest you start with AMMO , CTTM or IO and some Ishine.
If you have questions just ask.
Your GC is on the way.
Tisha
Ok. I think for my first order, I’m going with Instant Shine and A314. I like the idea of a self effect and both seems to be acceptable for a work environment. I work in an office where there’s over 30 women and 2 guys. The other guy is a manager and recently married. Not a lot of dating prospects in my office, but they could have friends…
Thanks Tisha for the tips. I read all your stickies.
Wish me luck.
Good luck. I’m 28 and just out of a 5.5 year relationship. I’m starting out with TUTH and IO. I’m enjoying a couple weekends worth of success, so I wish you luck man.
I will tell you this, your attitude will spill into what the pheromones will do for you. (and vice versa if the sprays are too strong.)
If you’re looking for a fling, it can overwhelm what IO or IH is going to tell girls you’re meeting if your body language is too forward. Balancing the two is the key.
As far as your first post, I would say stay away from the office while you’re experimenting, at first. I thought icebreakers were awful, but they’re actually not that bad. Maybe the 'mones helped. Even if they were a placebo, something worked right for me 3 nights out of 4, so I’m not going to b*tch. Converting number swapping to Date #1 has been my challenge.
My advice, find some single friends (male and female) and hang out in public settings with them. Then leave the group for a bit and fly solo and see what you can pick up. Success or failure, return to the group after a bit and recoup.
You close to St. Louis? (My stomping grounds.)