A new direction!

Hello everybody from the bay area California! They call me Hairbone, nickname Ive acquired nearly 15 years ago! I’m in my mid 30’s and getting on with life well.

I work as a tech here in frisco area, in the motorcycle industry for last 10 years, where I deal day to day with customers, and many departments through out the dealership. i have a loving partner, who Ive spent the last 5 years with, and have been friends with her over 15 years, a wonderful woman, who looks after me, keeps me grounded!

I’m somewhat of an introvert, not very good at opening conversations! I do well on a none personal/professional level with customers, but it also depends on the social level of the client. The typical biker out law type, easy! Doctors, lawyers, same sex partner clients, law enforcement officers, celebrities even. Some times i don’t feel like I’m on there level, even though, I’m one of the best in my field, and they came to me, I still don’t feel I’m connecting with them socially.

This is the first reason Ive decided to try " mones"

The second reason Is my significant other, and to try and spice things up abit! Not that we really have any problems their, Ive always been satisfied and then some, but we both work so much, and commute to work, and at the end of the day, we end up leaning on each other and saying dam! we both lack enthusiasm. You would think that it would be opposite, for me to say Im looking for more between us, but its actually her that wants more.

Ive been reading in the forums for days, late into the evenings and learning from you guys just how mones have changed day to day social events, and I was drawn in and so interested by what you all have to say.

SteveO thanks for the intro advice, and looking forward to more reading, making some friends,and making the choice on the first purchase.

Hi there Hairbone,

Thats a pretty cool nickname that youve picked up(^^)Thats interesting that your in the motorcycle industy.Must be pretty cool.Even better that you have such an amazing partner(^^)Haha,can understand with being an introvert.Im that way too,particularly in large groups.Haha,the socials will definitely help you with opening up conversations and connecting with people socially.(^^)Ishine and Instant openness will probably be useful tools for you.Haha,for the significant other.Youll probably like TUTH for the arousal and instant honesty to enhance the experience.Can get you both in the mood pretty quickly(:-p)All the best and looking forward to hearing about your adventures when you start testing.Think you sound like an interesting person and you meet lots of interesting people where you work so will be an interesting read(^^)Bet your going to enjoy being here.Catch ya later.

Hi there.

Welcome on board.

Sound like you have a great job, which can also be a great testing grownd for mones.

A314 comes to mind if you want to rise your status in the eyes of your customers. It seems they like the way you treat their machines and the advice you give to them, so maybe it´s only in your head, but A314 will give you a nice self steem boost and also make you apear as more mature and alpha to your customers.

You can mix it with IH, maybe throw some AMMO (one or two sprays maximum during worktime) and top it with IS. If you read through the journals, there are some advanced users that use a simlar mix as they everyday work mix.

It´s a big mix, so I would suggest you to start with A314 for a week or two and then start adding the rest of the products, so that you give yoiurself and others the chance of getting used to your new signature. And also, you can see what each prodcut adds to the mix.

For your domestic issues, I guess your SO will notice some changes when she is around your work combo. If you take ashower after woork, as many peope do, you can try AMMO+ IS with her, and see what happens. For more intimate moments, TUTH should do the trick.

Anyway, before you follow my advice,I would suggest you to do some reading. Go through the sticky threads at the men´s section. They have enough good basic info to get you started. There´s alos a ton of valuable informartion in the journals. Try to find a user you seem to have things in common and seehow he is doing, what he wears and how it is working for him.

Hope this helps.

Talk to you soon.

Hey i noticed your pinball quote! Since motorcycles sort of ruined my hobbies, my fun time, when I have it is arcades and pinball’s. current pinball, chicago coins cinama. arcades, Donkey kong, Ivan Stewarts super off road, Mr Doo! spy hunter, qbert, and a mame machine I built out of a nintendo vs. with every original nintendo game they made!

thanks for the warm welcome!

thanks! ill look into those, and nice to meet ya, looking forward to making friends here!

Haha,no worries.Im sure you will.Lots of really nice and friendly people here(^_^)

Yeah, pinball! I used to love it back in the day. Maybe I´m a simple mind :smiley:

Love motorbikes too. They make driving much more interesting and fun.

Anyway, mones can light the extra ball for you. Now is your tur to actually get it.

Talk to you soon.

Hi there, welcome to the forum! Hgiggle, you’ve got some nerve coming on in here and just reading up on the forum in the evenings… shame on you for delving into the corners of our minds! :wink: :stuck_out_tongue:

For introverts, I say, IO, IO and a dab more of IO! This along with IShine for a bump in confidence and a general feel good vibe to others will get you out of your shell. The TAA, as a main mone molecule of IShine, will get my LTR ready for some action! :wink:

I hope you would start up a journal and let us know what worked for you!

Welcome to pherotalk hgiggle!

You got some pretty good advice there and great pheromone recommendations.

There are many experienced members on this forum as well as married persons who have had similar situations who will assist you along the way.

Sometimes, we complain about your busy lives but never do anything to change it, think and look at what you can do. I am sure there is something , as it is your life and never out of your hands.

Good luck with everything

Your gc was issued!:slight_smile: