My main problem in dating is approach anxiety. Although I am pretty good in attracting women from my social circle that I know for a while, I feel very inadequate in starting conversations with strange women which I would like to know better. This is an area that pheromones have helped. Using somewhat large doses of pheromones I had opportunities to start conversations much easier than before.
What I would do is to use a large dose of pheromones and stand near a beutiful female in a bar, bus, shop, anywhere. Usually because I am using Androstenone in my mix I would draw attention. I would get a lot of eye contact from some women and as I know they are interested and they show it, it is easier to start a conversation. The problem is that although
-none grabs attention, give me eye contact and sexual body language from females it also creates anxiety especialy in younger females I am trying to approach.
What I am trying to find and I would love any comments is something that would really draw attention, give me eye contact, comfort, trust (liquid trust?) and even if possible ? initiate conversation from females.
Does anyone has any ideas on individual pheromones, products or mixes for the use I describe?
Sounds to me that your problem is completely psychological. Have you tried talking to elderly women? Give them a shot. They are women, and are easy to talk to. Chances are, they are more than happy to talk. It’s not like they are in a hurry any way; they have all the time in the world. Once you are used to them, gradually talk to women who are younger, then younger again until you are at ease.
IS and A314 may give you self effects. Why not try them out.
This topic has been discussed many times before, both here and at LS. You might want to do a search. There are plenty of other good advices. If you are nervous and shy in nature, talk to your GP. He/she may be able to give you something, which a few Androtics and LS members are very familiar with. It is a temporary fix, and no substitute for your own effort.
Talk to old ladies LOL I understand what your saying it was just funny the way you said it (snort)
He’s right though but not just old ladies. Talk to everyone and after a while it comes easier.
I dont know what the large dose your wearing is.
Best bet would be IO. Chatty friendly and you can use it with some Ammo and maybe some IFM to the back of your head.
Ok now the harder part. When they show any IOI just talk to them. Review what you want to say in your mind and just do it. You dont need a pick up line at this point. You just need more practice.
Do this… Go out with no intention of picking up a girl. Take that preasure off yourself. Now just make small talk with old, young, male and females. Practice this for a while and it will boost your confidence and before you know it you will be picking up a girl without thinking about it much.
Reps to Tisha! (oops…too soon…will rep you when im able)
Thats Taters approach. Talk to anything that moves, and sometimes even thats a bit restrictive. Just be social, conversational. I was kidding around at Boston Market last night, noticed the cashier smiling at me and turned it into a date.
Keep yourself IN PLAY. Be friends with everybody who isnt otherwise preoccupied.
It is a temporary fix, and no substitute for your own effort.