I recently ordered a few pheros to help up the attraction and stay out of the friend zone. I tried Ammo, but I soon realized that -none makes me really depressed after a while, and doesn’t really work with my age group, i seem to get the ghosting effect with very little dosage.
Then I realized something. The group I hang out with at school is pretty much like a cult(swim team lol) and really the people always being chased by the girls are the people who get the most respect, aka, the all state really fast guys. I, being injured 2 out of my 4 seasons, never really got that much respect. SO I figured maybe A314 would get me the respect and keep me out of the friend zone as well. Bought some CTTM2 to help with conversations as well and help maintain a young aura still.
WOW have I noticed a change. In the beginning, more girls got closer to me, talked to me, and held deep conversations. I liked it. I even started noticing hits from other people I don’t usually talk to and it was great! But now, a bunch of people literally talk to me only to vent. I still get great hits but its much more venting and asking for advice. Don’t get me wrong, I love to help people, it makes me happy, but most of them have been girls and I get less flirting now and more just the big brother vibe. The girl I like seemed to get really close and even canceled other plans to hang out with me (haha she even asked!). Now I feel like she sees me as a really good friend, as I’ve heard from her, like others, things that nobody else has ever heard. My text messages have literally doubled in number and they are all from women, just not always about fun things. Ive tried to change the signature a bit by adding a spray of togo ammo or tuth, but there really isn’t a change except for an alternating cycle of aggression and then depression for me.
What should I do? I enjoy the trust and respect and kinda need it, but the socials seem to have made me into a shrink. 18 year olds btw.
Add some Instant Shine to your mix. Hit your neck and your wrists. This way you’ll seem super happy and they’ll feel better just by being near you. Maybe this will turn the conversation positive.
I agree! If you can afford to (being in high school) I’d suggest grabbing some Instant Shine because it will give you that happy VIP vibe instead of the, ‘This guy is someone I know I can trust and tell my problems to’ vibe.
It is great that people trust you enough to share but there does come a time where it becomes an issue if all they do is think of you as their counselor.