It’s been a very long time since I’ve done any pheromone testing, but since grad school started for me last week, have decided to start playing with some of the old pheromones I have from the old days.
Anyway, I’ve spent the past week, sort of mindlessly using a bottle of A314 from 2009, and some SOE. I’m happily married now, so my motivations for using pheromones are very different from what they were before. I’m primarily using them to build professional rapport, and make strong first impressions as I start grad school. In not way am I trying to build ‘attraction’ mixes…that isn’t to say, however, that those effects aren’t present.
The interesting thing about getting back into pheromones again is that I’ve forgotten just how effective these things can be, but I also don’t have that ‘newbie’ enthusiasm and am not actively looking for or trying to create hits. I find it interesting because I go most of my day forgetting that I’m even wearing pheromones, yet in hindsight, can see the effects of them throughout the day…and in viewing my days using this very basic mix, there is certainly a greater degree of social command than I have been used to. Not that I’ve ever had any kind of trouble socially without pheromones, however, things do feel a little bit out of the ordinary (in a good way).
When wearing this mix, it really feels like my persona goes on auto-pilot, and I have a very positive effect on people without really trying. Not to toot my own horn or anything, but people seem extra ordinarily impressed by me, and everything just seems to go my way. And what I eventually came to realize in life, is that when you find yourself in that position, women tend to come very easily too.
This became abundantly clear to me when I got married and my demeanor around women changed because I stopped trying to impress them. I’m happily married now and am not actively trying to attract women any more, but I have noticed that women seem more drawn to you when you’re simply comfortable in your own shoes instead of trying so hard to be attractive. It’s probably the most ironic thing about being a guy.
When you have a great sense of inner confidence everything just comes easier…including women. And that’s A314 really personifies…INNER CONFIDENCE. Not the outwardly type that screams for attention and validation. Its the infallible sureness in yourself that exemplifies itself without trying.
The old mixes I used to mix were very over the top, high energy mixes. High levels of androstenon, alpha androstenol, TAA. These were mixes that were screaming for attention, and while that was a whole lot of fun, I’ve also realized that the subtle confident approach might have been a better one.
At any rate, I’m rambling a little bit here, but I really think that people should give A314 a shot as THE primary attraction pheromone product. In the end the single most defining characteristic that women will be attracted to is confidence…not the kind that needs to stand out and demands attention, but the “I’m so utterly sure of itself, that nothing could break my stride” type of confidence. A314, IMO, personifies that kind of confidence.
