Hi,
Just after some advice on using TUTH, pretty similar question to what i’ve seen in a couple of other threads regarding using it in situations with girls you are friends with already. The girl in question is someone
whom i’m pretty sure if i’d met in a club etc. I’d have a very good chance with, but at the time, the circumstances wern’t right
I realise light flirting and change of enviroment are the major factors, but i’d be interested in the roles that TUTH and AMMO could be used to help things along, aswell as the potential negatives.
Ie. If i just turn up with TUTH on and start flirting, would that be perceived as to sudden of a change and have negative effects? Would a strategy of light flirting + AMMO earlier on be better? Is it possible to add TUTH later in the night, ie. In situations where you are meeting earlier on, in a more relaxed enviroment, then going onto a club later?
I’m 24 btw, should that be a factor in my choice?
I personally add TUTH later when you want to take your evening to the next level. To go bottle of TUTH is always with me.
I’ve went as far as turning around to spray it on
, or you can go the bathroom and spray it.
I’d turn up with ammo on, its not too in your face and it will help some intrigue and attraction. Use this to build up comfort levels and add TUTH later on, dont expect her to dive on you, if she’s been your friend for a while it may all feel strange to her and she may not understand this attraction toward you and it may seem like she’s being bitchy or cold with you.
I’d actually suggest doing this over the course of a few days to a week for maximum effects, but experiment with it, no one can tell you the “perfect” way to implement this 
Yup, start the evening with something fun/social/slightly sexy. Then and only when your interaction is escalating eg kino, closeness, major IOIs, go-add the TUTH. I’ve found this to go well so many times.
However, if your behaviour has not produced escalation/IOIs, hold-off the TUTH till another time as you are liable to end-up with it backfiring on you and her becoming grumpy, agressive or simply withdrawing from you. You need to read the signs as you go.
This is where I think people get confused about a product like TUTH and how it can hurt or help you.
I would not add it then start flirting with the girl, the reason is her feelings and her perception of what is going on will be amped up. Your subtle flirting may now come across as drunk frat boy horny grasping, when all you did was laughed at a joke, said 'You’re so cute I wanna put you in my pocket" and tapped her on her knee.
When I wear TUTH around someone its someone I’ve already stated some intention in the past with, and / or kinod in a way that lets them know that I’m not going to agree with a friend zone label. That doesn’t mean I’ll push and escalate to the point of date rape, no means no. Just that I never agreed to limit our relationship.
For example, one girl I posted about IJ and TUTH being a FZ buster. I’ve said or texted things to her that were of a sexual nature. Like when I saw her in a bikini earlier this summer, “yeah that’s a belly I could kiss on all night long.” She laughed, but still I’ve planted the seed…so when I put on TUTH around her, we already have loads of comfort (too much) and and with TUTH I started to make things “uncomfortable” but in a sexual tension sort of way. So now, even though a target may not want to escalate just yet. When I’m around, and because of things I’ve said and have done, those feelings they are having may, in their mind be because of all that tension building up. It’s not because I’m being a creeper and trying to make a move on them.
I have used TuTH and IJ to bust through one FZ barrier this year, I still have one that’s fighting the urge…LOL. But I have faith I can get it done.