I apologize ahead of time if there was another thread somewhere along these lines, but I didn’t see any.
I am 50 and a pheromone newb. I have done a lot of reading on this site over the weekend and am about ready to place my first order.
There are a lot of guys on this forum that are young (under 40), and then real young (under 30). I’m sure they have a lot of natural pheromones going out. When I read their journals, I’m sure I cannot follow a similar regimen than a 25 year old.
What are some adjustments that I should make at my age? I am reasonably fit (but working on it regularly to get more fit), nice looking, and probably look around 45. My interest in women range from 21 right up to my age. The excitement of scoring with young women sounds great (I have always had a thing for young women), but there are many beautiful and classy women near my age as well, and would want to stick with more mature women when I am ready to start a long term relationship once again (I am just a few months away from being divorced).
Maybe I would need a different mix, depending on what the prevalent age group is when I go certain places?
The main thing is probably your none/rone balance.
As we age, our none production falls and our rone sig becomes more prominent - This can be a good thing for younger women as they tend to be more attuned to a lower none sig but equally it can attract women who are drawn to the “daddy” vibe for all the wrong reasons. Similarly, as a woman ages, generally she becomes more comfortable with and attracted to a higher level of none. So its all about finding the right balance for your age/physical condition - fitness helps a lot for offsetting none output.
So a bit of extra work to find the balance that suits your age will pay dividends and do not ignore the socials - they can be as important as none in fostering the feelings that cospire for full-on attraction in a younger woman and to moderate any none you are using.
And yes, I do find myself using different mixes depending on the predominant ages of the places I go to - eg I would normally use a high-status/higher none/overtly sexual mix like A314/TUTH when going to clubs that cater for the 30+ crowd but when socialising with my younger colleagues, I would usually wear something less overt and more socially engaging, like Ammo/IS or MX297 and a small amount of none.
This is interesting because isn’t it true that young men produce higher none?
So reason would have it that younger women would prefer older males, and older women would prefer the younger males. Maybe a contributing factor to the cougar phenomenon?
I would think that a younger female, who still have time to reproduce, would be biologically tuned to reproduce with an older, more successful male because by surviving and thriving so long, his genes have proved the test of time.
An older female, who’s biological clock is running out, will reproduce with a younger male, who’s youth has proven them to be more virile.
Anyway, that can probably explain the cougar situation.
Yes - Which is why younger guys often get far more from the socials or significantly social than from purely high-none mixes. Of course some none still has its place and like any general rule, there are always exceptions.
Yes it might, very much. Joey outlines the evolutionary thought well and there are social aspects that could be expanded-on as well.
Thanks guys. It makes sense and is an interesting topic to me.
I guess societal pressures had kept older women with older men. For financial security, for one. Now that they are becoming more financially independent, they can choose whoever they want to have sex with.
So, what would be a good none amount for the younger crowd and for the older crowd?
That’s where you need to get out and do your own sweet spot testing - For each phero individually, then in combination.
I would generally go fairly low around younger folk in most situations.
1-2 sprays standard Ammo, alongside 3-4 sprays Instant Shine. Or one spray standard TUTH, alongside 2 sprays MX297.
For an older crowd - Maybe 3-6 drops A314 depending on situation, and 1-2 sprays Heavy TUTH or maybe 1 spray IJ (watch for triggering aggresion in guys here), I’d probably start the night with one spray TUTH (or similar) and keep a togo in my pocket and build up the none dose as the night goes-on. Say, when we move from the likes of a pub/lounge atmosphere to a more uninhibited environment like a club or back home.
At your age, you may well find the benefit of the 2x or heavy versions of both Ammo and TUTH - I know I do but I do keep a few togos of the 1x TUTH for topping-up/dosing on the move. The lower dose makes adjustment over a basic mix much easier.
