Alright guys (gals, you are welcome to comment too) I’m looking for some advice. This is a little complex and a lot long, so I will try to be brief while not skipping important parts.
My wife is bi. I’m cool with that. I was actually partially raised in the lesbian/bi/gay community because my Mom is a lesbian.
Some of you may remember my earlier posts (last year) about Emma, my wife’s bi friend. She exited the picture for a while, but seems to be making a comeback. I guess she got her life a bit back on track, I don’t know. Anyway, last night Emma and I were texting and I got a few interesting responses.
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I told Emma my wife had wanted to kiss her on New Years (awwww). Emma’s typical response has been “I need time to think before anything happens”. Last night was “I’m glad she didn’t, trying to keep this a secret. If I was alone, maybe” (Her very gay roommate was also over on New Years).
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She made mention she wants to go slow still, as to not get anyone hurt.
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Wants to get together some evening, minus the gay roommate. Just the three of us. (Last few visits the gay roommate has come over as well)
I messaged her back the three of us should sit down and have a talk about what’s going on, only response I got was “Dinner is ready, will talk more later” I know Emma and my wife are interested in each other, but they haven’t admitted it yet TO each other. I need to figure out a way to get them to sit down and discuss things so everyone is on the same page (and I can get out of the middle of this!)
So…how the hell do you break the ice without saying “Alright, I know yall wanna mess around, go for it!”
