Since I have a few minutes I’ll help answer your questions.
There’s a couple ways you can go about spicing things up in your marriage. The first question you really need to answer, and not to us publicly, but what’s changed besides the busy schedule? Are you guys communicating, talking, laughing, living? Most of us guys think the way to sex is based on how horny we are as guys so we go straight to the sexual. Its like hey honey, we haven’t talked in a wall but look how hard my D*** is 
. From experience I’m sure you know that doesn’t work. While women are actually just as hot and horny as us guys are they still want to get swept up in emotions and feel like it just happened even in marriage.
With that in mind I’m always going to recommend Ishine. For me, a single guy, its the most sexually attractive mix on the market. It says I am a confident person with a strong sense of well being. When others are around that type of person they feel secure, comfortable and good about themselves and the person who is making them feel that way. Its why its called Ishine. It makes the wearer shine like a beacon attracting those around them that are also happy and awesome. You’ll notice in lots of my posts I talk about just how much attraction can be garnered from Ishine. If a guy can make a girl smile whenever she is around him that is so attractive. It’s like hitting a goal every time you have the puck. To bad I couldn’t convince the Devils to use some!
Your wife will react to it. She is already sexually attracted to you, so now you are in effect reminding her how happy you make her. It’s really that simple!
Next you might consider a communication mix like IH or IO. IO and IH are both communication pheromones. Where IShine main ingredient is TAA, IO and IH both use molecules related to the androsteNOL family. IH is Beta-AndrosteNOL (AKA BNOL) where as IO is ALPHA-AndrosteNOL (AKA ANOL).
IH is a deeper connection as in deep rapport type. It creates a sense of comfort amongst the user and those you are looking to neuro-influence. While someone will NOT give you the combination to their safe, they will be more relaxed and at ease in your presence and therefore more inclined to trust you. I’m sure you have been around someone you just met that you had a connection with. Same scenario 
IO is raw chatter. It’s the guy at the end of a bar who won’t shut up during the ball game! While it is fantastic to get the communication juices flowing, great for the shy-guy who would normally not start a conversation, it can and does break down into pure gibberish after a prolonged exposure.
Well that’s the beauty of having the two of them. Think of it this way; IO is the quantity of conversation, IH is the quality. So if you are going to a club and want chatter, where a bunch of IO and a little IH to keep it open, light and fun, but not silly and pure gibberish. Going to a corporate sales meeting to give a presentation? Use a bunch of IH to come across as trusting, humble connected, someone who can be relied on and a little bit of IO just to keep people from clamming up.
They both have very good applications in married life, but since I have enough trouble with keeping all 6 of my girlfriends in harmony, I couldn’t really provide any usable feedback on marriage .
You can mix and match all of these together too which will cover you in different scenarios. A little Ishine, IH and IO goes a long way to creating the right moment for sex.
Then of course you have the sexual mones. You have a couple different options here too. Ammo is more the sexy guy, but she already saw that in you and obviously having kids meant she and you at one time were doing the horizontal shuffle. Everyday I’m shuffling, shuffling . In this scenario of yours I would actually suggest TUTH. It does exactly what it says it does. Amplifies the sexual tension between you and your wife. Just remember what I wrote about creating that tension when the moment isn’t right though. It would be like walking into the room holding your d*** after a fight saying let’s get it on while wearing a sombrero and carrying a pistol in a gunslinger holster. Sure its sexy and exciting but more than likely might get you kicked than getting you laid.
Create the moment and then amplify it with the TUTH.
Anyway hope that helps and glad you signed up. Now you just need to decide what’s right for you. If you’re on a budget, and who isn’t in these times, then pick up some to go’s. Same thing as the big bottles just the size that’s smaller and in this case small might be perfect. To go’s are 5 ml which are essentially the size of a lip balm and contain about 40 sprays. Most of us do not wear mones every single day of the week. Average guy wears about three sprays of TUTH at a time. That would be about 2.5 weeks of everyday testing. Best of all with the $25 GC Mickaelia will issue soon you can pick up Ishine and TUTH basically for free.
Yeah we stand behind everything we do and promise you it works and as such are so confident you’ll agree will basically give you a couple to go’s for free utilizing the GC and remember 500 ($5) in reward points just for signing up to the store.
Welcome to the community my friend