Well, i am having truble with this girl at my work (not in the same office). I am sure she used to want me, but now she isent showing good signs. Will ammo do the trick? Maybe along with some A314? If there are any other tips (social) you would recomend..
I wear Ammo at my job, I work at nail salon and I catch a lot of women giving me eye contact. (I catch them looking at me and then they look away, ha I caught you checking me out!)
I guess to answer your question, what do you want from this girl? Trying to nail her? Get along with her? Or just can just try Instant Openness and Honesty if you want her to get “good signs”.
Ammo and lots of instant shine finished off with nice smiles in her direction will do the trick. Just do not over spray the ammo as the game scent can be to much. And good luck I hope you nail her and do your duty as a man.
I am looking for a ltr. I am actualy in love with her
Then take it slow - easy & targeted. & NO, you’re in love with the idea of her, you don’t really know if it’s HER or not.
you are probebly right. But i do realy LOVE every thing i see from her. Could you elaborate a bit more about slow and tageted? Thanks man.
How old are you, Gam?
It may work, and it may not.
She showed signs, and you didn’t bite. Now she’s not showing signs, and you’re in love with her? Maybe she’s moved on, and has a boy friend.
Hope she hasn’t figured out, and she probably has, that you’re in love with her. Hard to get is fun, IF it’s you that’s getting chased. Do yourself a favor … don’t you dare tell anyone at work that you’re in love with her, 'specially her!
Have you bee up in her face more than normal lately … hello everyday … making it a point to see her?
I’m 19, She does not have a boy friend and I don’t think she has figured out.
I don’t give her that much attention or make it so obvious that I like her. I just came across and asked her after lunch if she wants to come and get a popsicle, and she said no (if someone like you then she does every thing just to be alone with you). She now does stuff like that along with other kind of ignoring me somtimes, but also saying all the time that i am handsome.
There are a few people at work that do know I want her. Actually I am in the army, I sleep there, so I did tell them and they are kind of helping me.
For example, we went out, and we all decided to her that I met a 22 year old really hot girl and that I am going out with her. She completely changed her attitude towards me. Started asking questions about her and acting as if she was really happy for me. I am keeping it cool for now, kind of ignoring her and sometimes giving her a bit of attention.
How do I move on from here?
I would like to put like 1 spray of ammo, but I am afraid she won’t react good about it.
What is your sweet spot of ammo anyway? Have you found it yet? One or two sprays seem to be ok, as tommy mentioned to add more touch of ishine to ammo.
Actually, I could not help much in such case as I dono much about yours and hers story. Just my small ideas, to make girls interested more in you, or to make they think you are interested in her, better start to complement her more, tease her more, then compliment her more, then start to show more of your IoI to her, and finally tell her directly that you love her. This should be what SCoupe mentioned about the slow and targeted.
No, I don’t know my sweet spot.
Well, the thing is, when I neg her, she kind of gets offended. She used to not get offended but now she does, and I do neg her with a smile, so she knows it’s a joke. Giving her ioi’s didn’t really work for me. I came across ONE time by saying I thought she was pretty and she was like, “ok, thanks”. I couldn’t even isolate her for a short time.
By the way, after her changing her attitude towards me, she asked me if I want to walk with her to some place (a building). She isolated me.
I thought more of something like, I dating this girl I mentioned on the reply above, took her out for about to nice dates, and then telling her that she just didn’t interest me, and then moving on and asking her if she would like to go out.
The ONE thing that I’ve figured out, when it comes to women, is … YOU HAVE TO BE “MAN” ENOUGH TO “”“ACCEPT”“” THE OUTCOME, NO MATTER WHAT IT IS. Once you master that, dealing with the opposite sex become easier and easier. “You don’t want me? Fiiiiiiiiiiiine.”
As for AMMO … put on your ONE spray, and throw in 2-3 sprays of something social. If she doesn’t react good to it … FINE. 
Playing games is ONLY FUN when YOU ENJOY playing games, and should you decide you wanna play, you can’t get tired! Don’t put too much time in thinking it won’t work, 'cause IF you asked ME … she’s an excellent testing target, if nothing else! 
Good luck! And remember … no matter what the outcome, YOU will be just fine!
Haha thanks a lot man for the motivation.
I have ran out of my ISHINE, all I got left is IH, CTTM2 and A314 along with my AMMO.
Umm, well, I can’t not think about the out come. I am really really interested in this girl. Haha, if I won’t get her, I Won’t be fine!!
What do you think about how should I continue my little story I wrote above?
Gem!!
I see and help many guys like you almost all the time!!! Now this will sound like I am contradicting myself, but there is a point to it.
We are human. Men can be emotional. Sometimes TOO emotional. And when we do, we lose sight and focus and behave in a very childish/juvinle manner. For example… A couple of weeks ago this girl that I’ve been talking and getting to know all of a sudden changed attitudes and said after 9 months that she is not interested anymore. Was I upset? VERY MUCH (for about 3 days). Did I react… Oh Yes I did and as a result I got the social slab and was removed from her Facebook friends (pathetic that now added another dimension to our real life friendships by online social networks now…how sad). Did I make a fool out of myself? You bet I did, but I do not care what she thinks. Why? Because I know she lost a great man, and everyone around her told her this the first time she rejected me.
But guess what? The reality of the matter is she probably was not meant to be mine. IF she is, then our time will come. I moved on, and I am out having fun, enjoying myself and I haven’t thought about her since then.
If you want, send me a PM and I will recommend a couple of books for you to read to help with your Pick Up game and understanding women’s psychology 
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Morphious
Hey Morphious,
I would very much like a few recommendations on woman psychology.
The thing is, I am very picky. Until I finally find a girl that I like, take a lot of time, and until now, I hadn’t succeeded with any of them. I am 19, almost 20 years old, still virgin, never had a girl friend in my life. I NEED this to work for me. And seriously, I really can’t stop thinking about her.
You’re living in a scarcity mentality by putting too much value in this one girl, you should live in an ‘abundance’ mentality instead. If she likes you, great! if she doesn’t like you, great! and move on with your life. There was no point in negging her, if she was offended, then it was an insult and not a neg.
A good plan right now is to create jealousy plotline by demonstrating some pre-selection. Tell her that you’re going out with some friends (female friends) and that she is welcome to tag along. So if she doesn’t show up, it’s something you’re already doing. This is different then just inviting her out for dinner because if she rejects you, it makes you look bad.