Good stuff. I wear A314 pretty much every day for the same reasons you described above. I do take a day off when I know I’m going to just be kickin’ it at home all day alone (which is very rare) for the reason I don’t want the self effects to diminish too quickly.
Is that why you wear it only 6 days?
I like how you’re conditioning yourself for a conditioned response using the Akuto scent as a stimuli, smart thinking.
That way you can create all kinds of mixes and not even use A314 that night, whatever, and still be carrying that vibe with you mentally and physically.
I do not believe you can lose self effects. People say you can, however, I have used A314 since June of last year for weeks on end and still get effects. You may experience a temporary decrease in the self effects with some pheromones, but if you take a break, the effects will be right back. I used to believe otherwise, but now I have a better understanding about how pheromones work. Pheromones that play with dopamine levels are the ones that you really need to have a break from. P86 would be one of those such ones.
I went to a local music store and picked up a metronome for $14. The brand is Qwik Time it’s digital and is one of their better sellers because of the price.
I’m trying it out now, and will be reading aloud using it, and will report back on it later.
Or here’s a youtube “metronome” video at 45bpm you can use.
The Gentleman has an amazing journal going! Check it out if you have not done so!
My wife went back into the hospital today. Her sickness is part of the reason I stopped doing anything productive. I used it asan excuse. For the past several months she has gone to the hospital 2-3 times each month. She just got out on Friday, and went back today Sunday. The good news/bad news, is that the doctors are all out of ideas, so the reccommend surgery. Even the Mayo clinic is in agreement. >y wife does not respond well to meds, so its been a long time coming. She is scheduled to go into surgery on wednesday, so I am praying for her a lot! Hopefully after her recovery, she will be able to be the same woman I fell in love with many years ago.
Last night I ran into a lady who had her children playing at the playground. She looked very hot. She was looking very milf. I smelled her and an alarm went off. I believe she was wearing pheromones. I am not normally attracted to any other woman other than my wife. Today I saw her out of pheromone range. and she was lets say… not as milfy. LOL. Its amazing experiencing the effects from others.
I have been practising the things I posted above. I am still not very good at the unconscious hello. I think it may have to do with me being auditory digital. I plan on trying to do the process with TAK on. It may channel a breakthrough for me. I alsohave been using the metronome itis easy to do while the metronome is going harder without it I thing with practice it will improve.
andrew, I’m sorry to hear that about your wife and my prayers and thoughts will be with you, her, your family and friends.
Sending positive energy your way.
Good luck with everything related to your wife’s health, Andrew.
You might like this site: METRONOME ONLINE - free!
To use it, click on the tiny round button next to “44” or “46” along the outside of the circle.
What is the name of the program you have that talks about speaking in rhythm?
Thanks guys for the kind words and the positive thoughts!
“The Persuasion Factor” is the name of the program.
I have always figured myself as an alpha type person. Looking back, I was never a follower. I did my own thing. Sometimes others made fun of what I did. I never let it bother me for the most part. I see the world in a different view than most people. The view that I held caused people to follow me at times, at others it left me alienated. It got me a lot of women though. Women that were not in my league. My step father was a very dominant man. To the degree that he had to break others around him. I was something he could not understand because try as he might, he was unable to break me. I am not sure if my world view was developed to combat his dominant nature, or if I was born with it. I do know that it allowed me to get through some crazy shit and survive where others did not make it. If I was in a situation that I was not in control of, even one that was dangerous, I was able to assert my persuasion in whatever means necessary to spin the situation enough for me to come out on top. I have never taken the time to learn “game”, or persuasion tactics before in my life. This journey, just begun, already has opened me up so much. To persuade others you have to know your self first. Looking at my self, I think somehow I lost myself since around the time I got married.
Yesterday, I read the post from LaPew https://pheromonetalk.com/t/become-an-alpha-male-one-task-at-a-time/28112/6
While I do not exactly agree 100% with the post, I can verify that it is completely true. Before I was married, those rules were very similar to the ones I lived by. It worked out great. Life was great. Not much stress, no fuss. I got stuff done. I did not need pheromones. I did not need to read or write posts on a forum. The only thing I used the internet for was to limewire download free mp3s LOL. I was truly an Alpha man then. My wife, even with being sick, is out of my league. I will not lie. I like to think it was fate. We both started a job the same day. I was nervous around her and almost afraid to talk. I told my friends about how hot she was and decided that first day I would have her. I was intentional. I was clear about what it was I was going to do and how I would do it. No reading about how to do it. I just did it. At the end of the second week of work, I went out with her. We went out to a pool hall to have some drinks and play a couple games of pool. I went to use the restroom. I came back out walked up to her and just kissed her. She responded accordingly. We left and had a make out session in the rain. No sex, but she became mine that night. I did not question my actions. I just did because it was the right thing to do at the time. It was natural. Since we have been married, I have heard whispers of people wondering why she is with me. They do not understand. I am not bad looking by far. However I do not have the manliness that I possessed then. She and every one we come into contact with sees it.
Last night, my daughter said her stomach hurt. I asked her what she wanted me to do. She did not know. I was not sure what to do. I eventually gave her some Advil. That was not alpha. That was so beta. My daughter came away with the impression that I could not always protect her. That is not being a good man or really a good father. All of this came to me while I was sleeping last night. I have gotten bits and pieces of the message for years, but it never clicked until now. Knowing this, the problem now becomes, what shall I do with this important piece of knowledge.
This is from thegentlemans journal.
Yesterday I experienced the same thing. I realized that I no longer “feel” like “the man” that I once was. I used to be calm, cool, and collected. Very alpha in every action. After I got married, I lost that feeling. It may be that I have an idea of how a family man should act. A “family man” in my mind, seems to be a watered down, pansy, metrosexual, pussy that is ineffective and might as well have ED because it would not matter anyways if he used his dick or not, kind of guy. The shit that the media has planted in my brain for years plus as a child I swore I would never act like my father, who was (and is) very dominant and controlling.
A review of how this week has gone. I must say that I have done very well to follow the goals I have set out to accomplish. I do not use the words but or try. That alone has helped me tremendously in just personal matters. I cannot believe how small but powerful removing those 2 words could actually be. Plus when I caught others using the word try, I called them out on it. 
It caused some awkward moments, but it led to better discussions and more follow through on others actions. Removing “but” also helped out my relationship with my wife. When I need to tell her no, its so much easier to seem like we are on the same page, and really we were always on the same page, just worded poorly.
The metronome. I have been failing to utilize this as much as I could. I am using it everyday, and can speak to the beat. I still have to have the beat to stay on rhythm though. So it is not effective in conversations yet.
Unconscious Hello. This is proving to be really hard for me. I think I am starting to get it, but not in a conscious manner. I am getting a whole lot more smiles and openings from others, so I wonder if I am mimicking in a subconscious way more than I was before. This is a skill that will take time to perfect. I am benefitting from the power of it already.
The self realizations about myself have also helped me. While I am a long way from being what I intend to be, I have already taken huge strides in moving towards that goal. This is what I am most proud of so far.
Good to see you posting again and getting back on track. Don’t forget to smile and enjoy life, otherwise all the work is meaningless.
WILL
Last night I was watching my hometown football team the CHIEFS actually win a game! Wahoo! Just had to put that in
Anyways after the game I put in my headphones to listed to some wonderful stuff! The main focus I came away with was about “WILL”. Kenrick believes that most people do not possess little if ANY will. I tend to agree. He give an example about persuading someone to kill against their will. Can it be done? YES. However the circumstances must be congruent to cause something like that to happen. Its what the military does every day. On the street, probably not. However, for less threatening things most people have very little will to stand up against persuasion. In fact you, yourself probably have a very low amount of will. If you are honest with yourself, you will find it to be true. (There are exceptions, however they are very few) If you will yourself to do something, how likely are you to do it? If you willed to create something could you do it? Most of the time, for me, it is no. I have a low amount of will. I can will to not eat junk food, or will to work out, it CAN happen, but unless I am really motivated then it may not. Why is that? Well… its because you LIE. You may or may not lie to others, but you definitely lie to yourself. If you will yourself to do something, your mind does not care. It is not important. All of the times you willed and did not follow through in the past have made your word meaningless. Those little lies have stolen your will from yourself.
This may sound silly, at first I thought it did, but as I reflected upon it, I can see the truth. Would you trust in someone that lies to you? Especially over and over again? I know I would not. I would not put much stock in anything they had to say. So what makes you so special then?
How to change it. It is similar to how you begin to trust someone else. You establish a pattern of telling the truth. It is actually quite simple. For example, if you say I am going to take the trash out at 6 pm, you take it out at 6 pm. Not at 5:59 nor at 6:01. You state what you will do explicitly and you do it exactly as you stated. By doing this, you will eventually increase your “WILL” because your mind will believe what you say. If your will is strong, and you will to accomplish something, your mind will be more apt to figure out a way to make it happen. Think about it. Everything starts out as a thought and becomes a will. From a pencil, to the entire world. A man willed to make a pencil cheap but wrote well. He made it happen. God willed for all of the world to be created. It happened. To have a strong will is a very good thing indeed!
Not only will it help your will, but it will make you a better person in general. If you are not lying it will increase your integrity. It will create more harmony in your life and others will be able to trust you. Less stress, more will be accomplished. Something small and simple, but so POWERFUL!
I smiled today as I placed my order for some P97, P103 and P76. This week has been one of the best weeks in a long time. I have reframed how I think into an alpha frame of mind. Before I speak I make sure its consistent with who I really am. Not who I have become. It has already bettered my close personal relationships. Especially with my kids. I have also been more intentional to spend quality time with others around me doing what they enjoy and learning about them. I taught my daughter some Joel Bauer mechanisms this week. LOL She has mastered many of them as she loves magic. She has even began using them at school to amaze her friends. I have smiled more this week than I have in the past 2 months so it is not all work
I just want to say again. Get some P106. Its in the store right now. I love this stuff. I put some on today after I saw it was available. I used it only every once in a while because I was afraid it would not ever restock. 20 mcgs and a couple drops of A314 is MAGIC! Everyone you interact with just wants to help you above and beyond what they normally would. They offer you so much extra, they are just on your wavelength. They listen to your ideas. Stuff gets done. Happiness is in the air. Every time I wear it, I fall in love with it again. Try it, and you will understand what I mean.
Good stuff about lying to yourself. There’s a very powerful book called Radical Honesty, I’ve read it and honestly its hard to live the way this book suggests you live.
In the book it discusses the constant lying we do that we don’t even pay attention to anymore. “yeah those pants look great.” “I loved your report boss!” etc..etc..etc.
He talks about how it is what is destroying us emotionally and its true. The amount of dishonesty we create in our lives leaves a heavy burden to carry each and every day. Imagine how little stress we’d have in our lives if we weren’t trying to figure out what to say to this person, and what we said to that person, and like you’ve pointed out, the lies we tell ourselves.
The level of honesty he approaches in this book is radical like the title suggests.
If you were to say commit adultery, not only does he say tell your wife /husband. But to explain how many times it happened, where it happened, that you performed oral on her for 2 hours straight and she came 101 times.
I guess the reasoning for this, is so that you get it all off your shoulders, plus you don’t leave any room for your partner to create what happened in their head, which could be much worse.
Anyway, good stuff. Glad to see you posting again.
Sorry I have not been updating recently. I have been very busy and just checking in now and again.
As a quick update, the Unconscious Hello is starting to click. I can get almost half people I see smile at me without saying a word. Its actually pretty good. I have always been one for making eye contact with people I walk pass by while walking. I would get occasional smiles, mostly women and some men would look down and ignore me. Some men would greet me. A few smiles here and there from both genders. Now I can get smiles from many more than I used to. Its nice doing something simple that can bring a tiny bit of joy and it costs me absolutely nothing.
I have worked at speaking in rhythm. This has been very hard for me, I am not good at doing things to the beat. I would make a terrible drummer! It is kicking in and I can do it consciously. Still more practice will improve the skill. I have not attempted to use it on anyone yet as I am still too awkward LOL
For improving my WILL. I must admit that this is something that has already started paying off for me. I have made sure I do everything I say when I say I will do it. I did have a slip up, and it actually was really hard to NOT do what I said I was going to do. It was a very conscious and forced decision that actually seemed to cause a lot of inner turmoil. Amazing stuff. What is great, is that I have started testing my will. I have a couple projects that I am working on. I have willed myself to hit a certain goal, one that I have never done before. I have already surpassed that goal and am well on my way to surpassing the new higher goal I set. This is really something that shows you how powerful your brain is. It also shows how much you thoughts really do affect you.
Acting in an Alpha manner. This is also something I have been very consistent in. It also goes well with improving my WILL. They work hand in hand. I feel much calmer overall. I still have aggravations that I show, but they are far fewer than 3 weeks ago. I feel more manly. My wife has been away so it has been a great time to work on myself in her absence. To assert my new behaviors and get into sync with them.
For the program I am using for learning persuasion, there is a light and sound system that goes with it. That way the ideas are presented consciously and subconsciously. I can tell that they are working as certain suggestions are showing up that I would have never thought of before. I am more concerned with BEING instead of DOING. Instead of doing something to be what I want, I am being what I want and the doing naturally follows. Its a much better progression than what I did in the past.
I have some other things that I have learned that I will share in the next couple days. I have to type it out. I am also working on identifying my goals and getting specific about them.
I have been testing a version of MX350 while wearing A314.
This is the mix:
10 mcg P79
8 mcg P83
16 mcg P86
12.5 mcg P102
5 mcg TAF
7 mcg A-nol
3 mcg B-nol
DPG 5% added to time fix.
I wear 3 sprays to hit the mcg amounts I prefer to use. So it is different from MX350. You could use IO instead of Anol and Bnol, 2 sprays. It has no None in it whatsoever. I wanted this to be an add-on to use while wearing A314. I am not aiming for any overpowering sexual desires. My goal is to have a mix that helps build a quick rapport with others. Something a salesman or persuasion artist would want to use to boost the performance of A314.
Rational:
P79: IME it amplifies my mood and others pick up on it. When being persuasive, you should be in a good mood with your intentions 100% clear. This should help push that vibe so others pick up on it.
P83: I like this because it can help create an impulsive feeling in others. It also helps me remain focused on what my final outcome is.
P86: Who would not enjoy a good dopamine rush while being near you? It also makes myself look more attractive, which plays well with A314 alpha status vibe.
P102: For me I notice a bonding quality when using this molecule, so it makes sense to use it in a persuasion situation.
TAF: I use this to enhance the mix. It also helps drive my focus, and to get others to focus on what I want them to think about.
A-nol/B-nol: Used to simulate an IO type of response.
All of these qualities seem to play very well with A314. I use 3 drops of A314 with 3 sprays of the mix.
When wearing the combo, I feel very positive and and much more outgoing than I normally would be.
I have gotten so many responses from the combo. Not one negative response yet. I am generally treated in a more alpha manner than with out the pheromones on. People seem more drawn to me. I have been approached for nothing more than a simple conversation, by people that I actually do not know, but they knew of me. When dealing with business professionals I am regarded in a high manner. I have had 2 circumstances where they went out of their way to do something for me. I did not need them to help nor did I ask. When I needed a specific form I expected a day or so to actually get it. I was told that they would actually drive to get it filled out and I could come back later that day to pick it up. Totally unexpected. There have been many other responses, but no need to list them all.
Yea man! I’ve made these kinds of changes in myself as well… It’s really quite amazing. I’m not married and haven’t experienced that side of things yet but I can see exactly what you mean. A lot of problems americans have of themselves is pretty much the fault of media putting images of what we’re supposed to be in our heads… it’s starting to disgust me really. At least people are starting to realize that this is the truth and not just something people say all of the time lol. I might have to try this mix. One thing I noticed with Taf is… it makes me notice things more.. but it’s harder for me to keep a straight concentration on one thing as well… but coupled with the other mones along with A314 should get rid of that part
The mix is really solid for me! I enjoy it very much.
I also am enjoying the changes. I cannot say my wife is enjoying them as much as I am. Because my viewpoint on things has changed, to her, I react in an unexpected manner. Before I would just let things go easily in a beta fashion. I would “just deal with it”. Now I will stand up for myself and others when something is not right. I decide to do something and it gets done. She does not appreciate all of the changes right now, but give her time and she will. I know that women really want a MAN. Not the smucks on televison either. They have been fed the same BS as we have. It all takes time.