Arizonagolfer's Journal

I decided I am going to start a journal like many of you have when you first became members of this site or first starting using Pheromones. I tend to write a lot when I do journal/blog writing so there will be times when I will write out what looks like a novel.

A little bit about myself in case you missed my intro. I’m 40 years old, single, no kids, no g/f. I do pretty good in the online world of dating/sex and pretty much am looking to take my success from the online world onto the real world.

I consider myself somewhat social with a touch of shyness at times. I guess once a person gets to know me, I usually am very talkative and fun to be around.

Ok, enough about me… lol

The products are I ordered are:
Instant Shine to go
Instant Openness to go
TUTH to go
Instant Jerk to go

I really wanted to get AMMO but they were out so hopefully they will get some of that soon.

I decided to start out with the to go bottles because I am new to using pheromones and wanted to be able to experiment before committing to the more expensive spray bottles. I also intend on taking my time before getting into the mixing pheromones.

Sometimes I feel like there is information overload in the journal section and tips and tricks. Over 10k threads and over 100,000 post, that’s a lot of reading! lol But I have read some very interesting journals to say the least.

I live in a huge metro area of at least 5 million people and even though I am 40, I do hit the bars/clubs once a week. Being in such a big metro area is going to give me a lot of places to test out.

Places I intend on testing out are:
Bars/clubs.. the bars I frequent tend to have clientele age range of 21-50.. some clubs are dance type places and others are karaoke.
Stripper Clubs… maybe on this one..lol
Casino
Shopping Malls
Grocery Store
Swap Meet.. yes I know you are probably thinking swap meet? But where I live, there is a huge swap meet not far from me that has a lot of diverse people and some of the booths have very attractive women selling things!

As far as my testing will go, there will be times I go alone in my testing and there will be times I will go with my friends so they can help me gauge interest/reaction. I have a good friend who is also a member of this site and I hang out with her and her hubby on the weekends. I think it’s IMPORTANT to have people help you gauge the interests, especially in bars/clubs because you don’t have eyes in the back of your head and people could be checking you out without you know but your friends can inform you that someone behind you is checking you out.

My journal entries will consist of the following:
Type of location I am testing out
Age of clientele in location
What I am testing out and how much I am using
What reactions I get if any and how it goes from the initial look all the way to talking and more.

Speaking of information overload, I am a smoker, not a heavy smoker but when I go out to bars/clubs and drink, I tend to smoke a cig about every 45 minutes. I tried to search any helpful posts about the effects the smell of smoke would have on the pheromones and couldn’t find anything. Does anyone have any comment on how much, if any, smoking has an effect on the pheromones? I should probably say that the state I live in doesnt allow indoor smoking in just about everywhere so I have to smoke outside.

I also need to do more reading/research on how much to apply due to my age. I’m pretty sure I am older than probably 75% of the people who are members of this community so you people who are 35 or older, please feel free to share on how much you put on and if it was successful or not. Thanks!

Well, as I said, I tend to write a lot when I do journals/blogs so I am going to be closing now and my next entry will be when I get my first shipment (hopefully get it in time for this up coming weekend) and be able to test out Thursday through Sat. and report back in a Sunday journal! J

I just got my very first order and am happy with speediness of shipping! :slight_smile:

What I ordered:
Instant Openness
Instant Shine
Turn Up The Heat
Instant Jerk

Freebie is:
Come Talk To me (mix 2)

All of these are in the to go bottles. Am pretty excited to see how I respond to these as well as others once I start my testing today or tomorrow.

Yeah mine came extreemly fast! Looking forward to hearing your first tests.. I picked IS for my first try, figured it would be a good base/starting point.:wink:

Ok tried out my first testing. Used IS 1 spray on back of neck and rubbed some on wrists. Total 1 spray.

Testing area was at Walmart and I just dont think Walmart is that great of a place to test. Place is huge and people just seemed really focused on buying food/clothes/crap and I dont want to come across as stalkerish. lol

Tomorrow will be a better day for testing as I plan to get a haircut at my normal salon as well as hitting the shopping mall because I am in need of some new clothes. Will put on 2 sprays of IS on neck, maybe both front and back or just do back of neck again and on wrist.

hopefully you see this in time but don’t forget about the cape that you wear while getting a haircut. the ones where i go cover most of my neck. i can’t do lower chin either because sometimes things get a little messy when they’re rinsing me out. back of hands works for me, keep them poked out from under the cape.

Thanks for reminding me about that. I had totally forgot and would have sprayed my neck.

Is that 1x IS you have? because most people seem to need 5-6 sprays of 1x to start seeing effects. of course it is different for everyone, but 1 spray may not show you as much as a few extra shots might. im recently learning not to be scared of an OD, but it’s really hard to OD on IS anyways, so I wouldn’t worry about that.

Yeah I got the 1x of IS so thanks for the heads up and I will try more than 1 spray to see what happens.

np. I forgot to mention that IS is typically used for more of a self effect than an effect on others. Of course many have reported positive effects on others, but to notice the self effects you may want to spray around the face, neck, chest area.

So today, day 2 of testing, I did the following, keep in mind I was getting a haircut:

4 sprays of IS on hands and arms (as the cape covered my neck) and made sure I kept my arms and hands out on top of the cape (thanks Jayarea for suggesting that).

2 sprays of IO.. both on inside of elbows.

Same feeling as yesterday, more upbeat, good mood but today elevated heart rate, as it might be from the IO. Felt like I was hyper but only lasted about 5-10 minutes.

Sat in chair and had the overwhelming desire to talk to the lady cutting my hair. She is attractive but married. I just felt like I couldnt resist the urge to talk to her when I normally just sit in my chair and the only thing I say is how to cut my hair. Talked about the nice weather we were having.. and I commented on her tat again (did this the 1st time I had my hair cut by her).

Continued talking to her up at the front desk while I was paying for my cut. I asked her what her schedule is because I liked how she did my hair both times. This is not normal for me as I really dont care most of the time who cuts my hair as long as they do a decent to good job on it.

As far as what I wore affecting her.. didnt notice anything out of the ordinary but as everyone knows, people who work in salons tend to talk a lot anyways.

I was more shocked at how much IO made me become a chatterbox..lol.

I really like it as I can easily see this helping me out a great deal in the bar/club scene as Im not terribly social in those unless Im flat out drunk. :slight_smile:

I thought I would update my journal as I just completed my first weekend of testing the to go bottles in a bar/club.

I first want to say a big thanks to snoopyace as he suggested I try something out to see if it works.

Here is what he suggested:
3 sprays IG (one to each side of the neck and 1 split between the wrists)
2 sprays CTTM to the side of the head above each ear (yes, into the hair or scalp if you don’t have hair)
1 spray IJ to the front of the neck/chest
2 sprays IO (one to the top of each hand)
Cover cologne of your choice

The bar I went into Friday night wasnt as busy as it usually is so I thought testing was going to suck. I should note another member of this forum, who I am good friends with her and her hubby, also went to the same bar as we usually sit together.

There are plenty of open tables and we sat at 2 tables that were round, about ohhh 3 feet in diameter so the tables arent really that big. Both tables are put together OO like that so in case other friends show up, more can sit with us.

Anyways, not sure how long I was there when 2 blondes, Im guessing one was in her late 20’s, the other in her mid 30’s sat at our tables. I was shocked at this because there were a lot of other tables open and my friends and I didnt even know these 2 women. I had a table for 4 behind me open and those 2 women could have easily taken that table.

The two women seemed to be chatty with us and I have to admit, Im not really attracted to blondes so I wasnt really paying attention to any IOI’s going on if any was.

My friend who is a member of this forum said the younger blonde commented about me while I was singing (karaoke) but I forgot what she said. I talked to my friend outside and we both thought this was for sure a hit.

I had my eye on a brunette and eventually got the balls to go over and talk to her. She is really nice, looks to be in her mid to late 20’s and got our pic taken together on my cell phone. :slight_smile: The downside was that I had too much to drink and forgot to get her cell number.. damn! lol

On to Saturday night.. wore the same combo Snoopy suggested. Bar was twice as busy so I thought it would be a great night for a test. There were more women there and appeared to range in age of mid 20’s to about 40.

This turned out to be a bad night of testing because as I went outside to smoke, I came back inside and some guy, who is way bigger than me, took my chair from my table as there wasnt very many chairs to sit on. I told him he took my chair because he wasnt sitting there when I was at my table just a few minutes ago and he said no he didnt take my chair.

I said “whatever” and went to find another chair and couldn’t so the bartender told the guy (I never said anything to the bartender as I am a reg and she knows me) seen what happened and came over and told the guy to give me back the chair. He ended up arguing with her and they should have tossed him out of the bar.

I hate it when people are rude in bars and this guy clearly was being rude.

So, it ruined my mood to test and we ended up leaving.

Friday night though was definitely a hit and I will be testing out lightly this week and again on the weekend with Snoopy’s suggestion or maybe altering it with one or two other combo’s.

Great report! Sorry the big guy kind of ruined your night but it sounds like you were getting some attention! :slight_smile:

It’s been a while since I have written in my journal, so I thought since I am bored and cant sleep, might as well update it.

Went to a bar for Halloween with some friends. One of my friends also is a mones user and visits this site from time to time.

Anyways, bar is pretty busy, which I suspected it would be. Lots of younger people (as Im 40) and a few regulars around my age.

I took a date and she is 40 and just recently moved to Arizona. I think she is a little bit defensive on dates and keeps her guard up but she still had fun.

So, as the night was progressing and towards the end of the night, I look up at the bar (as friends and I were seated at 2 tables not really close to the bar) and this woman who looked to be about my age was seriously looking at me!

I thought she was very attractive (could be from beer goggles as well..lol) but its like she continued to look at me while she was waiting to sing her song for karaoke.

Even Ray Charles could have seen she was checking me out and the funny thing is, I didnt even see her in the bar the entire night I was there. She might have been sitting with other people and I just didnt see her and when I walked to the bathroom (which was serveral times due to alcohol), it must have been my mones trail that hit her.

It looked like she was with guy and Im not the kind of guy who moves in on a chick that is with a guy. So, I walk up to the bar to pay my tab and she is watching me walk to the bar. I stand next to the guy who is in between me and her.

I look at her and she is looking at me, smiling and she says hi and I said hi back to her. After paying my tab, I go back to sit down and she is still looking at me right before she starts singing.

In between breaks in her song, she would go back to looking at me smiling.

After her song was over with, her and the guy she was with started to leave. As they walked by my table, she looked at me one last time, smiled, said goodbye and waved at me with her hand in front of her chest so the guy she was with that was behind her wouldnt see.

That is absolutely a big hit! Like I said, you would have to be Ray Charles not to see that this was a hit!

The problem is, I dont remember what I was wearing that night. lool

I know I had on IS, CTTM (as much as I could salvage from what I had left), IO, IG and IH.

I have never had that kind of hit before in a bar before wearing mones and fortunately, I just got my new to go bottles of the ones I was running out on.

If she wasnt with that guy, I could have easily gotten her number!

I am also getting AMMO today (thursday) so will be going out this weekend to try that as I am excited to try it.

My stash is now:
IO
IS
IG
IH
A314
AMMO
CTTM
IJ
TUTH