I got my first order of pheromone Monday and have had immediate results with A314 and Instant Shine, but some of the more social pheromones don’t seem to be effective for me. My routine so far has been to use A314 + Instant Shine for work, then use Instant Openness + Instant Shine after work when I go out (usually dinner, shopping, etc.).
I’ve gradually been using more Instant Openness, but haven’t noticed that the people I approach are any more receptive. I haven’t been out to any more social settings, like bars, though…is there a particular environment that the more social pheromones seem to work best in?
I haven’t seen much of an effect on others from the Instant Shine, but have had a definite self-effect. The A314 seems to both boost my state and to have a noticeable effect on others, but in a way that doesn’t seem appropriate for normal socializing… My main goal with pheromones is to improve first impressions when I go out in the evening, so any advice would be appreciated.
A314 can be pretty strong, and even though you may not add more drops when you go out depending on your social buffer dosages, I am thinking that perhaps you’re giving off an intimidating vibe. Not by your choice, but A314 can make some people be intimidated by you and in return won’t probably go up to you. However, this doesn’t mean that they’re not thinking good of you!
How much socials do you use when you go out? Have you tried upping the doses? Are you intimidating already as it is (without pheromones?)
I find social mones work best when you can spend 5 minutes or more in close proximity, especially cars and small offices. Wide open spaces like malls, large crowded bars, etc., are far from ideal. For me personally small college classrooms are amazing testing grounds, e.g., 15-20 interacting students, not huge lecture halls.
I somehow have the same experience you are talking about. Not sure why.
Goodluck and give it more test ground. and A314 really do work. Put it on the right dosage and put it on there for a period of time and when you are not wearing them you will feel you are so weird in some manner.
Heck, My self effect is so strong that i’m so hyperactive i effect others this way or maybe so.
I would say just give it some time. Like you I got good results from A314 right away and then couldn’t tell much from the others for awhile. The best thing to do is use one thing alone for at least a week taking a day or two off and varying the amount you wear. Good luck, have fun and rememeber that the best things take a little time.
I’m not sure about intimidating, although I’ve been called unapproachable in the past. I’d been gradually increasing the amount I use…today I applied 4 sprays of IO with no other products. A clerk at the store I frequent in the mornings acted kind of weird (she looked at a lost for words for a few seconds when I asked “how are you?”), but that was the only possible hit.
Hmm, can’t say I’m in scenarios like that too often, maybe that is why… I’ll be visiting Austin this weekend and will try it out in some smaller venues there. People seem to be more receptive when I say I’m from out of town anyway, maybe this will increase the effect…
