BeTheOak Journal (WinHerBack)

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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Hi, there that is my firs post in my journal.

Me-37 years old, 2 kids 7 and 9, married from 11 years together 17.
Target - My wife 40 years old.
The mons situation (journal), start at point where, my wife do not have trust on me, great resentful, bitterness, nagging, sheet test, comfort test, disrespect.
All this is from my infidelity 4y6m ago, and neglecting in the years before that.
I think my wife is in LImerance state (fall in love) to her male friend.

So yesterday 29.06.2017 i restive my moones i my intention si to work in fallout direction.
My wife call me to take her from her job, she felt not well and cannot drive .
7:00PM So before go there i put 2 drops A314 oil on joule line and 2 Shine oil on cheeks.
It was 30 minute before take there.

Self effect. I was in jealous state, i did not felt happiness or more confident on me. May be only difference, was the filing op pain in the body from jealousy thoughts dispraiser. The mind steel think about Wife and Her friend drink coffee, and how she pursuing hem hard.
But i think i was more calm.
When i met her, she went on back set, and took rest. we took 30min drive.
When go home 8:00PM, there is not difference.
I am feel depressed,she took shower, and we went on balcony for smoke and her to take rest. After awhile she start to chat about her day, whit details, but miss all about the coffee with her friend.

So at 8:30PM i add 2 drops more A314, 2 drops IS, 2 drops IH (on wrists) and 2 spray ComTalkToMeV2 on the hair. She continuous to be chatty, whit some moments when she stops and go into her (may be gilt or/and think about Male friend).

To the rest of the evening i did not found any IOI, she look likes was more friendly with me, and more talkative than usual, but nothing more. it could be from (she is happy that see her mail friend in the morning or/and feel guilty, because she met him, and she did not tall mi nothing).

So for today is that.

i have notice that i do not feel as same as when used A314B spray, with oil i do not smell A314. And the feeling is more like give hope than be confined and exited when use A314 spray. Any ideas?

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Thank you for starting a journal and I am tuned in to see what happens and thank you for opening up and don’t feel alone as I have my problems in my marriage to.

I have not tested the A314 in spray form so I can’t comment there. I would definitely be wearing the A314 as your main one for a while and what is hard is because of what happened that it will take time to change things and even then she may always hold onto what has happened. But the A314 will help her view you in a way that is valuable and like you have it together, and this is important. Also the IShine and IH will also be helpful as well.

I would where these for a while and see where it goes.

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With the spray, you will definitely feel the rush because it is diffusing quickly since it is alcohol based. The spray is best for instances where you need the instant effect, like presentations in meetings and the likes. Use it when you want to suddenly spike your vibe, say, after a week of a314 oil+ishine oil, employ the a314 spray + ishine, then go back to a314 oil+ishine routine.

With oil, the effect is a slow build up. And since it is a slow burner, it is best for daily use. It slowly and surely changes your vibe. Your oil is in Stealth so it’s normal that you can’t pick up its fragrance. The spray is in Akuto fragrance, a sweet manly scent most women and men likes a lot.

Of course, you need to do your part.

  1. stop overthinking/overanalyzing your wife’s “infidelity”, because between you two, you are the one with the issue, so it’s possible that you are just imagining things.
  2. accept the fact that her flirting with others won’t kill you and so brush it off and focus on your goal: changing your vibes and ways and winning her back again.
  3. sex is not an affirmation of her love to you. I am sure she loves you still (i’m not sure though on how much) and thus you still have a chance. right now, she doesn’t need to prove her loyalty to you, because right now, it is you who needs to prove loyalty to her.
  4. fall-out is not mones work only. It is a combination of pheromone+you.
  5. stock up with lots of patience, because this will be a rough ride. Just make sure that you are always there when she needs you, show her that you are not back in the monkey business, and surprise her regularly, in such a way that you slowly eliminates every period/time she has to flirt with other guys via the social media.
  6. Spend more time with your kid also. :slight_smile: (Ignore this if you already are doing this.)

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