My name is Mona, I am a 40ish female living in northern california, and this is my first post here on Pherotalk. The reason I’m interested in pheromones is two things: I think my natural hormones are starting to either decline or go wacky because I’ve started the early menopause phase (I know–so unsexy for this site) and I started a business two years ago, and I want my “edge” back. This is a business where I help people make health decisions/action plan. I’ve noticed some changes in how people react to me–two things I need for my business to thrive are to be respected (people feel more comfortable in this business if they see me as an authority) and also to really connect (keep em coming back, refer their friends, etc.). And I have noticed that although my basic work hasn’t changed, I’m pretty much a happy person, and the menopause isn’t giving me any “cranky” symptoms, these two aspects have shifted in a somewhat unsatisfying manner for me. I want my mojo back, y’all! And this is one thing I hope will help me.
So, if anyone just wants to say howdy, or make suggestions or whatever, please do so. Most posts here seem to be about the human mating dance. I am also interested in that My info on that is I’m a lesbian and I have a girlfriend. It would be great to increase our fun, too.
Don’t be worried about menopause being “unsexy”. It’s natural and everyone here has or has had their own problems that they’re seeking help for whether it’s from pheromones, books, or whatever. This is a very welcoming and non-judgemental community.
Hopefully one of our female members will stick their head in here in the morning because, though some female members have tried the respect enhancing products, they are geared more towards the male body chemistry and I’m not sure how they would work for you. What could help though is Instant Sexiness A. Instant Sexiness is an attraction based mix but the “A” version is more for alpha, independent female personalities and will put off the vibe that you’re a woman in charge. “B” is also effective but is more of the beta, submissive female personality which I don’t see as being quite as effective for garnering the type of respect you’re looking for.
In terms of building a connection, Instant Honesty and/or Instant Openness are great for that. Instant Honesty is more of a deep, trusting connection while Instant Openness is more of a light, fun connection. They are both very effective in different situations. Also, Instant Shine is a great product that makes people feel good being around you and helps put a smile on their face which is something I think would be helpful for any business owner.
Thanks for the ideas and the nice welcome!! These sound like great suggestions and I will check them out (well, when I get that $25 GC–ha ha). I just went over to the store, and I notice that Instant Sexiness A is ‘out of stock’–I wonder if anyone knows how long that will be for. Because I want to try it as soon as possible.
Welcome to pherotalk! Great intro and yes, I’m cheering for you to get your mojo back as well!
I think that the recommendations of BM are good for you. But, since IS/a is OOS, then I’d suggest getting some IS and IH. These will help you out in getting others to be open to you and see you as a content, easy to talk to, look at you as a long time friend, vibe. I personally love the IS for its relaxed and youthful glow it gives.
Though, I’d suggest you call up the toll free number and get some support over the phone. They’ll be great help and can direct you much better over the phone. I’d suggest you check out, I think its option 1 and speak with Steve. He’s a mone master who’ll give you some excellent advice for you to try out some mones.
Once you try some out let us know how it went so I can say loudly to all: Mojo Mona IS BACK!!!
Ha ha–I like that, “Mojo Mona” and I am going to use that. Thanks for your input, it sounds like those two (IH and IS) should definitely be on my list to try out first now.
I’ve been reading about other women’s experiences with mones and see that IS adds a spark of confidence for them. I’m a pretty positive person and people do generally like me, but I could use a little more confidence lately, and that could tie into feeling more respected, no?
I can’t wait to try these out. I will come back and tell you all about it!