3 weeks ago I purchased 1 bottle of ammo, 1 of IShine, 1 of turn up the heat and 1 of instant female magic (all to go) . I have been testing them ever since with no result at all.
The first day I tested 2 sprays of ammo (nice smell) at the call center (crowded with girls) with no results. The second day I did try 3 sprays of ammo at the same place as the day before: same outcome. The third day I did try 2 sprays of Instant Shine by itself and the fourth 2 of IShine 2 ammo 1 instant female magic at the call center and at the gym: no girl did even look at me. From then I’ve been mixing pheros in different combination never exceding 3 sprays for IShine, Ammo and Instant female Magic and 1 for Turn up the Heat but I honestly don’t see anything different: am I doing something wrong? The only result I have noticed is that I am much more talkative and less shy - so they, maybe, affect me not the others.
Right now I don’t really know what to do: maybe there is a problem to my phero signature, maybe it takes a while for the effects to be noticed.
I would love any suggestion expecially from the most experienced phero addicts as I am confused and disappointed.
( I do apologize in advance for my English but my first language is italian and I am doing my best to let myself understood).
From what I’m gathering from the experts around here, pheros are not going to turn you into a “girl magnet”. The right product in proper doses helps to facilitate your already existing “game”. In other words, if you’re not good with girls to begin with, adding phero’s isnt going to end your girl troubles. They are there to help, not necessarily provide. Hope that helps.
Also, just cause a girl might be attracted to you doesn’t mean she’ll act any different from afar. You’ll only notice that attraction if you talk to her and are observant of her mannerisms.
Think about it. If you see a hot girl walking down the street, you’re attracted to her, but do you run up to her and engage in conversation? Chances are, probably not. Often, you may even be LESS likely to talk to her, cause her beauty is intimidating.
So now look at it from her perspective (let’s say she’s wearing pheros that make her seem sexier). You didn’t come up to her and drool on her, so she doesn’t think you were affected by her pheros. But, in reality, you were, but you just didn’t approach. How is she gonna know that, though, unless she comes up and talks to you. You see? You have to engage people.
Ok so your having some trouble. I need to know a few things.
Where on your body are you spraying the products?
What kind of enviroment is a call center, is it where you work?
How old are you ?
What kind of reactions have you been expecting ? I ask this one to see if your expectations match the products reported results.
While we are waiting for the anwsers to these questions I will give you a few tips and I am sure the guys will have more once they have more info.
Work enviroments are hard. People are expected to behave a certain way at work so you may not see real obvious hits.
While the products create attraction you need to be open to it. Smile, be friendly, mingle a little. Dont look for blantant hits not that you wont get any but those occur after experience.
You will begin to notice subtle body language and cues. Glances, smiles, staring, eye contact, open body posture ect… They take a while to learn to recognize and there are few good posts about it here in the mens and lounge section. Just hit search at the top of the page and type in what your looking for.
In some cases it takes a week or so for the mones to mesh with your natural mone sig so dont give up. It took me about that long of daily use before I started to see results and a few others have reported the same.
Your age may be a factor because of the none content in Ammo. If you are in your early 20’s go with 1 spray and see how that works. More is not always better with mones.
Spray the product to the hot spots on you body. Pulse points on the neck and wrists are good. Upper chest, back of neck, Hair. Depending on the enviroment (hot ,cold, air conditioning, windy ect) you may need change where you applying. If its cold and you have alot of cloths on spray to the part of the body you know will be exposed and to the hair. Some of the guys even spray to there cloths in cold weather. If its hot spray it were you will sweat a little (not your pits though). My point here is you want the mons to diffuse from your body and sometimes that takes a little practice.
I will let you anwsers those questions so we can try to help you get your products working for you. Hang in there.
I have to agree with Tisha that we need some more specific information before we can really help you out.
Your age is the most important.
We also need to know if you are applying the pheros directly to your skin. If so, where on your skin. I personally do not recommend putting them on your clothes, since they take longer to diffuse from fabric, and the hits seem fewer and farther between, less sturdy overall. (some people do have better results that way though… Gegogi seems to swear by clothing application.)
Are there many other men in your call center?
Do you have a specific target in mind? Someone you have a crush on? If so, what is their race and approximate age?
I will be happy to post more recommendations after hearing back from you.
Ok these are the answers to the above mentioned questions:
I am a 36 years old man;
the environments where I have been using pheros are mainly at work, and at the gym;
I do spray pheros on my skin (chest, back and front neck, wrists and behind my ears;
my target is a girl I have a crush on, she is Italian just like me and she is 30 y.o. What I am doing is am testing pheros on other girls to see if there is some sort of reaction but like I mentioned above I have not noticed anything special (I don’t mean girls jumping on me but at least beeing more talkative to me or looking at me) all I have noticed is that I am much more talkative when wearing pheros and also more selfconfident: that’s all.
Well if its effecting you then you know it is working. You just have to get it to diffuse off your body so it effects others.
Your probably old enough to use more none products but your Italian and may make more natural none. Try just 1 spray of ammo, right to your neck above your shirt line and 2 sprays of Instant Shine and see how you do with that. Do this for a few days. Try to set it and forget it. At the end of the day look back and determine if you noticed any difference. The reason I say set and forget is because I remember my first week. All I did was look for hits and it got nerve wracking. Ail told me to relax and forget about it and they will come to you because your in a more natural state of mind and it worked.
Few things about Instant Female Magic. Always spray to the back of your head. This one is a little tough to see until your around someone who is cranky or bitchy. Then it becomes clear. It still effects the pleasant girls but and they may be thinking “hey I always feel at ease around this guy” and not show cues.
Oh and in your work enviroment. It seems to take a bit longer to really effect the people you know well. They know your natural pheromone signature. They need more time to process these new vibes they are getting from you. They may not give cues right away but I bet some are thinking “hmm Angel looks pretty hot today” Like I said, keep using it and give it a little time and lets see how you do. Just keep in mind its still a tough enviroment because people are expected to behave in a certain manner at work.
Just want to echo the work thing. Not sure if you’re in the US, but here, the absolute crackdown on sexual harassment in the workplace has had the undesired effect of stifling interactivity with co-workers except on a strictly professional level. People are too afraid to talk, joke, and generally relax for fear that SOMEONE will take offense at even the most innocuous comment, joke, or whatever.
It’s best to try to test mones in a place where people can be a bit more uninhibited, especially if you’re unfamiliar with the signs of a hit. You don’t have to go to a full blown night/dance club at first. Just a neighborhood pub will do. Hang out. Be friendly. Chat up the bartender and wait staff. Pheromones are like MSG. They’re a flavor enhancer. You still have to have a little flavor or else there’s nothing to enhance.
Check out The Game and the Mystery Method if getting out and meeting people causes you to stumble. They’re great starting points.
Good luck, and look forward to hearing of your successes!