I am married man in his late-thirties and I live in the mid-atlantic region. I am completely new to pheromones, but I have been curious about their validity and potential for a long time. I have always been an intellectually curious bloke, interested in science and alternative subject matters; such as, metaphysics, astrology, numerology, hypnosis, NLP, herbal remedies, etc. Like most men, I presume, my initial interest in pheromones centered on their potential to attract women (just one, really). However, after reading through the product descriptions and some of the threads on this forum, I better understand the full scope of their application and usage, which has only served to increase my interest and curiosity in them.
You see, I am a friendly, good looking guy who’s looking to get ahead at work, but I’m introverted and often find it difficult to socialize and strike-up conversations with people I don’t know very well. So, while I am still interested in the potential positive effects pheromones might have on my relationship with my wife , I am also now very keen on their potential to open up opportunities in my social life and career.
I must admit that I’m hopeful, but skeptical about pheromones, but I figure that the only way to truly know whether they work or not is to try them for myself. One of my main concerns is about the fragrance of the colognes. My wife is very sensitive to smells, and I worry that she will be put-off by their scent. Can anyone comment on your experience in this regard? I’m hopeful that I’ll be able to mask them, and if I notice positive feedback from their usage, I’m sure I’ll be diving-in and mixing my own blends in no time.
Thats definitely a wide range of interesting subject matters that youve been researching.Haha,pretty normal for most people to think that pheromones are only for attracting women.I thought so too before finding this forum.They do have a fair amount of different uses for various situations.Can understand being a bit introverted and having difficulty with people that you dont know well.I have that problems sometimes too.hmm,to help with that.Instant openness is a good one and makes both people more chatty so its much easier to hold a conversation and break the ice.For work,would give instant gentleman or A314 a try.Instant gentleman is a bit more relaxed alpha while A314 is a very in charge vibe which is good if your a boss.With your wife,some tuth or ammo would be good to spice it up with maybe some instant honesty for bonding(^_^)
Pretty normal to be sceptical but you can give them a try when you get your gift certificate issued and you will know for yourself if they work or not. Hmm,not sure about the scents.Most of them are in neroli other than ammo and A314 which is pretty mild and you cant really smell it much once it dries down.They are also really easy to cover with your own scents.Ammo has a pretty strong smell and may not agree with your wife but my girlfriend loves the scent.Havent tried A314 but its in akuto which is a pretty interesting scent but my girlfriend doesn’t like it so its personal preference(><)All the best and dont hesitate to ask if theres anything you want to know(^^)
I am older than you and probably married much longeer than you are. My wife too is very particular when it comes to scents. Most of the products here come in a light neroli scent. The scent is enough that she knows when i am wearing it but light enough that it does not bother her. but because she is so sensistive to scents, I had to be ready to explain to her what she was smelling.
There is a thread in my signature block for married guys. Give that a read. it talks about strategies and products you can use to help improve homelife.
For work my favorite combo is A314 & IH. A314 will give you a I am The Man kind of vibe. However it is a little strong for some people. It will often create what i call respect distance - people will give you a lot of room. To overcome this I buffer it with IH. Ih creates feelings of connection. and as a result people will want to talk to you about whatever they feel is important.
The good news is that IH is also obviously very useful at home for the same reason. As you are aware often your wife needs to feel an emotional connection with you in order to want to have a physical connection to you. And I go into this in that thread I mentioned above.
There are a lot of other things you can look at. Give the thread a read and come back and ask any qeustions. We are happy to help.
, I am also now very keen on their potential to open up opportunities in my social life and career.
Can anyone comment on your experience in this regard? I’m hopeful that I’ll be able to mask them, and if I notice positive feedback from their usage, I’m sure I’ll be diving-in and mixing my own blends in no time.