I came into phero’s expecting that IO would work for younger women (19-mid 20’s) and IH would be more ideal for older women (milfs, cougars, divorce’s and lonely housewives in their mid 30’s and beyond). Turned out, for me anyway that it’s the opposite. My theory is that IH helps foster a safe secure vibe that girls still holding on to dreams of prince charming just love. While IO is great with sexually confident women already established in life and looking more for sex than security…basically along the same lines as why older women are more responsive to None than their younger counterparts.
IH creates a strong connection vibe that makes it ok to act a little more sexual.
TuTH creates a sexual tension vibe that will work against you if you’re too sexual in your behavior (it’s obvious the sexual tension comes from your desire) but works great if you play active disinterest, neg a little and freeze out occasionally (the sexual tension is there but since you’re not showing desire, it must be coming from her)
So act like TuTH when wearing IH and act like IH when wearing TuTH.
A314 requires congruence but if you act too bossy or dominant it’s overkill. Smile freely, ask for favors, express gratitude and pay compliments and people will climb over each other trying to please you.
Anyone else learn anything about mones that’s almost contrary to what you expected earlier on in your experiences?
I remember Reading in a post somewere that u use TUTH at work how does that work for you,do u just act totally unintrested-I might try some today at work to make my day seem a little more intresting the smallest spay of tuth to my neck couple sprays of ammo back of neck- chest shine or openess to hair should be fun
I’ve used TuTH as a standalone a few times and twice I’ve intentionally OD’d on it to help he get a feel for what it does and how it works. Now I’ll use a couple of sprays of either TuTH or Heavy Ammo with my A314. The TuTH actually works better for me than the Ammo when in a mix.
Like I said, it seems to me that TuTH creates a strong but undefined sexual tension. It’s like you can feel raw sexual arousal in the air. Now if you’re openly flirting or eyeballing the woman, she’ll assume it’s coming from you, which honestly could be good or bad depending on the woman.
But if you come off very casual and uninterested (at first) that sexual tension is still in the air, but your behavior isn’t congruent with that of a man that’s aroused or sexually interested in her so her brain can’t anchor that feeling to you (meaning you’re not the one who’s horny), but if there’s nobody else around she’ll likely come to the conclusion subconsciously that the tension must be coming FROM her and likely directed TOWARD you instead of the reverse.
But you have to have good self control to make this work. If you’re talking to a girl with a great pair of breasts in a low cut tank top, not only can you NOT check out her tits, but you can’t look like you’re TRYING not to.
If she’s looking at you hard, which she probably will either from attraction (he’s hot), curiosity (is he checking me out?), or suspicion( bet that perv is imagining me naked), then make as if her eyeballing you actually makes you a LITTLE nervous. When I’ve done this at work I’ll busy myself entering data into the computer and I can tell she’s staring so I’ll stop, look at her out the corner of my eye and almost nervously ask if everything is ok. Once I even suggested that one of our female employees might have better fashion sense than I do and suggested that I hand her of to my coworker (the gambit here is to come off as though I feel her attraction for me and I’m a little nervous about it but I’m trying to be polite, NOT to sound like I know she’s uncomfortable being helped by me because my attraction to her is too obvious). Anyway she seemed disappointed that I was willing to hand her off to somebody else and was fairly insistent that I continue to help her. Nothing came of it in the end but by the time she left she didn’t walk away thinking I was a creepy guy throwing a desperate horny pervert vibe, if anything she might have been a little embarrassed that SHE was coming off as very horny and turned on and made ME feel awkward by it.
She wasn’t really my type so I didn’t pursue it and honestly that made acting indifferent and conveying an active disinterest a lot easier but it showed me that if you can control yourself and how much interest you make obvious, then TuTH can be used quite safely and effectively even in otherwise inappropriate environments. But seriously guys, before you try it, practice your self control, go someplace where you know you’ll be around attractive women and see how hard it is not to oogle their body parts or even briefly size them up. It’s damn tough lol.
TUTH with IH works well, too. It makes them admit what’s on their mind and tell you what they want. If only it didn’t work better on me than on them… I need to get a bottle of high dose beta nol and forcibly acclimate myself, cause I always suicide giving away my secrets uncontrollably when I wear enough to get good results to it from other people.
It’s been as consistent as I’ve been. Now there were a couple of time where the woman was very set that the horny vibe was coming from me (because it fucking well was!) but she had her tits spilling over her top like it was levy and her chest was named Katrina! I couldn’t not look and I couldn’t hide the approval on my face lol.
But outside of that, when I’ve been in control and able to resist the urge to look, or be overtly flirtatious (at least at the start) it’s worked pretty good. I can see confused looks and a slight nervousness in the women…not the “this guy is creeping me out” kind if nervousness but more the “I don’t understand what’s going on or why I feel this way” nervousness
Oh boy Oh Boy.. there is so much work to be done .