“if a girl likes you only when you wear pheromones but not actually liking you is a bad thing”
, but I beg to differ. Allow me to print, for the first time, “Danadrianrico’s Standard Theory of Pheromone Nirvana”
You see, We all wear pheromones for one reason: To improve our sexual and/or social lives. When one girl cannot live without one man, whom cannot live without his blend of pheromones or he will lose his girl, I dont see this as bad. Contrary, I see this as the man coming to terms…really becoming one with the pheromones.
You see, its easy to label this as an addiction or an obsession, but I believe that once you are a veteran user for quite some time, it is more a part of your life than the blood in your vains or the water you drink. It is the key behind all successful social interactions (assuming the human pheromone and dopamine release process is what its cracked up to be). When one can come to terms and accept pheromones as a necessary part of life and pimping is when one can finally rest assured.
So to those people who are still with your first love only cause of a bottle of A314, hats off to you. It is you that shows the actual power of pheromones in human life and the potential it has each and every day.
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I think that there is some element of truth behind this, that the tools you use are just another element of life and how you decide to live it. However, humans have been interacting successfully for millenia without artificial pheromones. If you can’t satisfactorily interact with others without the aid of lab-prepared chemicals, it would probably be best to see some sort of therapist or personal trainer. I’m not saying you would need mental help or have a mental problem. Just that your situation in life could be made a lot better with a little training in how to socialize.
I don’t see a problem with using A314 or Instant Female Magic or any other pheromone to get a relationship started, or even to get one through rough times. Pheromones enable us to switch off some of the preconceptions other people have about us and give them more positive, interesting ones. They allow those people to notice things about us that they might never have seen otherwise, because of our own confidence problems, or their own assumptions. However, I can’t condone pheromone usage as a major tool to keep a relationship going. If the man can keep the girl because he is using pheromones, but otherwise can’t offer her much (and he must not be able to if he would lose her just by stopping his pheromone usage) then it seems as if this wouldn’t be an ideal match. Pheromones can complement and supplement. They can add spice, romance, adventure, and comfort. They cannot replace love.
The last couple of days, I’ve been going without pheromones just to see what it is like. It’s put pheromones into perspective- the difference is not very big for me. I think alot of the pheromone effect for some people is just giving them confidence. The actual effects are very subtle.
Attitudes are very important, and we can absorb very negative or unhelpful attitudes very easily and not even notice it.
In addition to that, I think the baseline situation is not always a case of incompatible body chemistry. It can also be a reasonably compatible one, with pheros giving an extra sexy oomph to make the marriage a bit more passionate. Many of the happiest couples still flirt, date and seduce eachother.
I’ve also heard of women who stopped liked the way her spouse smelled after going off the pill.
What would be interesting would be to see how well the social misfit acted aftering successfully using pheromones. It seems like pheromones could be used as a sort of social training wheels. Personally i use them to create more attention on myself and to be a catalyst for rapport. It’s kind of like peacocking. If you are gonna wear a pink fuzzy boa you better act like you’re a rockstar or you end up looking gay.