My ex will be joining me at my company X-mas party tomorrow night and I need a lil advice on what I should wear. I’m 31, she’s 29 and I want to have a fun, flirtatious night. I don’t know how long we will stay there, but I would like to be able to continue the evening out and about or even back at my place, after we leave the party. I want an attractive/seductive mix, not to deep of conversation, a lil touching and carressing. You know, like it was a second or third date, after you get out the formalities and move in to the realm of no inhibitions. Go with the flow, whatever happens, happens kinda vibe. I hope you understand what I mean.
I have all the basics. (A314, IFM - full size reg strength bottles), IO - 2X strength To Go, IH - 1X To Go, IS - 1X tester, TUTH - Reg strength To Go. M200 and 201 Testers.
Here’s what i’m thinking:
1 drop A314 forearms/wrists then rub wrist on chin
2-3 sprays IFM to back of neck and hair
2-3 sprays IH to hair and back of neck
3 sprays IO hair or wrists
3-4 sprays of IS to front of neck and maybe one to the face
TUTH depends on how things progress, but I might use 1 spray just to have that spark floating around
I don’t want to be too James Bondish, but more like a “bring home to daddy” kinda man, not SO unabtainable, and have her initiate a lil more than me. So that’s why i’m thinking 1 drop of A314. But with everything else on, do you think 2 would be better?
Not so much as re-seduce, I just want to create the right mix just to help with my naturaly seducing ways. I’m just trying to create a pleasant tone for the evening. I don’t want to come off as a horn dog, but I would like a lil sexy vibe to be there for both of us. Just to make things a lil more comfortable.
I am also new to this. I just got my first order in the mail yesterday and i’m still feeling them out. I don’t want to go overboard and make things complicated.
There will be so many different pheromone signatures comming off of you that i would mix them all together in a small glass bottle with the perfum of your choice. I think it would work better!
You want to keep it fun and flirtateous. Go high on the Instant Shine (2-5 sprays), Instant Openness (3 or 4 sprays tops) and IFM (1-5 sprays).
You’re new to pheromones, so they’re going to be affecting you as much as her. For this reason, apply the Shine and Openness near your own nose or highly diffusive spots (neck, hair, behind ears, top of hands, etc.) and the IFM AWAY from your own nose (a shot on the back of the neck, wrists, etc.).
Keep the A314 low or, dare I say… nonexistant, so you don’t get too much of a “daddy” vibe. Either that, or apply it very early in the day, so there’s just a hint of when you meet her. Daddy’s are good providers, not play time guys… so you don’t want much. (Instant Shine is more of the “fun time guy” effect)
Keep the Turn Up The Heat for mid to late in your meeting (did you get a To Go version?). Start out with lots of fun and comfort, and then turn up that sexual magnetism when you’re ready for a different kind of fun.
Based on your good results on Wednesday when you got these, I think this will work very well for you.
I do want to keep in fun and flirtatious, so I will use this mix. How long is the A314 effective for? I did have some good results Wednesday. If the A314 lasts pretty long, I would say this played a major roll in last night. I put one drop on when I got it, say between 1 and 2. I got home, showered and put on 2 to test things out for the night around 6 or so.
Now last night, although she was open and more honest with me and her defenses were down, I’m still not sure how the A314 played out in the situation. She took to my advice like it was scripture, but i’m not familiar with the affects of A314 yet, so I really can’t tell how it affected her. I know she could smell the IH, because it was on my hands because I sprayed it on when we got to the house around 7:30 - 8 that night and she kept asking me what the smell was. She never said it was a good or bad smell, just that she can smell. I don’t think I will be putting it on the top of my hands again.
How long are the affects of the sprays? how often do you have to re-apply? And yes, I do have the To Go version of TUTH.
Many people report that primary A314 effects last about 12 hours or so, and that some effects can be seen for up to 2 days. Some users even apply it at night, and enjoy the effects best the next day.
It depends greatly on your individual body chemistry. Some people have skin bacteria that consumes the pheromones faster than others.
Also, if you’re one of the people who’s only body reacts to A314 by making more of it’s own pheromones (like I am, especially to the test spray versions), then there’s that factor to consider, as well. Try to notice if your underarm odor is changing while using the product.
“Advice like it was scripture” is a phrase people would use when describing an A314 effect. If that’s unusual for her to do, that may have been one.
You’ll get a better feel for the product over time, and be better able to tell what each product does. As your own social awareness skills grow, a great side effect is that you’ll be able to able to tell the impact of your own behavior.
That’s a great place to put it.
Human pheromones are heavier than many of the ones from the animal and insect kingdoms. The carrier molecules are there to help transport the pheromone molecules from your skin to her nose. It’s a good thing she can smell it. You want her to smell it.
Depends on the pheromones, and your own body chemistry.
Many people will say 4 to 6 hours for the bulk of the spray products, except for androstenone based products such as Turn Up The Heat.
The androstenone component of Turn Up The Heat can stick around for 2-3 days, unless the application area is thoroughly washed.
That’s because many perfumes / colognes are meant to be even more obvious than what we include in our pheromonal effect sprays as masks and diffusion agents (except in our pheromone colognes, of course, which are real colognes with pheromones added – i.e., Ammunition Cologne).
However, I wouldn’t follow Thomas’ advice quite yet. You have to get to know what mixes work for you first, before combing products in one bottle. Otherwise, you might waste them by accident.
Thomas’ advice is good, but think of it as an advanced technique, best used later on.
I’m just trying to create a pleasant tone for the evening. I don’t want to come off as a horn dog, but I would like a lil sexy vibe to be there for both of us. Just to make things a lil more comfortable.