Dating Significantly-Younger Women...

Hello everyone!

I’m totally new to the world of “scent science”, but I randomly found your VERY fascinating site, and a specific question just came to mind. Obviously, I’ve learned from reading these posts how different chemicals trigger different signals or reactions based on a variety of factors between user and target. So that’s why this is going to be overly-detailed. And thanks, in advance for reading…

Divorced three years ago and back on the dating scene, over the past couple of years, I’ve discovered a special niche for attracting significantly younger women. So I honestly hope this doesn’t offend or generate any judgmental reactions. Although I’m in my mid-40’s and act/look at least 10 years younger, I’ve been dating almost a dozen women in the 18-24 range. The last few, including the one I’m presently seeing, have all been 19. So that’s the current “sweet spot” I’ve been connecting very well with and vice versa.

Personality-wise, they consider me sweet, interesting, attentive and enjoy being with someone attractive and older. I don’t really think I’m giving off any heavy alpha vibes. But I’m successful, self-employed and tend to dress young/stylish. Getting them into bed hasn’t been too difficult either, and most really appreciate my skills. Physically, I’m not too dominant at just 5’8" and 130 lbs. w/a trim and toned bod. Most girls tend to guess I’m 32-35, and I’ve recently heard as young as 26-28. However, a surprising number are turned on when they realize I’m more than twice their age!

For the most part, I’m attracting mostly intellectual or rebellious types, in the 6/7 looks range. And in terms of venues, I tend to meet them online or in low-key environments, like ballroom dancing or during the course of day-to-day activity. Often, these younger chicks are checking me out waaay before I even notice.

So attraction is usually a given and I’m able to # close, later establishing some good rapport/comfort via text, and often some sexual escalation talk, after they initiate it first, to avoid looking like a creep, given the significant age difference. From there, we meet 1 on 1 and that’s when I’ll assume “it’s on”, taking the lead while escalating in person, usually w/very little or no resistance at all. Occasionally, I’ve pulled some hot, party-girl types in the 8’s with the same approach. But that’s exactly who I’m trying to hook on a MUCH more consistent basis. So I’m hoping that the right mix of pheromones will assist in doing just that, leading finally to my question:

Based on all the above and my particular situation, who I am and who I’m trying to attract, given my success with age-gap relationships and a desire to do even better w/much hotter, college-type women, which product(s), dosages etc. would work best toward achieving these goals???

Thanks again for reading this lengthy post, and for all your responses!!!

If you’re looking for the Girls Gone Wild party girl type then I’d suggest the following

Instant Jerk one spray…MAYBE two…but probably one. It’s heavy None which our natural production of is high in younger years but declines as we age. It’s probably the mone most associated with the image testosterone has as a hormone. It says young, strong, fit and virile.

Instant Openness…three or four sprays. VERY fun, outgoing, social. Also helps the None in jerk to seem not so aggressive.

Instant Shine…warm, likeable, charismatic and many have said it seems to add a youthful type of glow and energy.

If P86 was available I’d also suggest some of that. Many report it has a sort of “instant airbrush” effect. IE people seem to see you as being more visually attractive when you wear it.

Now this mix is not only designed for fun, but for giving off a vibe of youth and energy. I include the P86 because I think that since so many traits of physical attractiveness also tend to be signs of youth, that it’s inclusion will help with this.
You may look young for your age, but you probably still look “too old” to a lot of younger women. Especially very wild ones that might see you as an “old man”
I think if you wore this mix you’d likely be guessed at being even younger still than you usually get…moreso if P86 becomes available.

May we ask what this niche is? What do you do for a living? You seem to be doing so well without pheromones why bother with them? Save the $ and use it for gifts for these women or for more dating. if I had been juggling several women half my age with little effort I wouldn’t be bothering with mones. Mones can backfire on you too.

dsouza

Hi Solid Gold.

As this is your first post, can I suggest you post a thread in the intro forum, in order to get hold of the GC, which will help with your first purchases? Details here:

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TBH, you have provided pretty-much all the info you need in your OP.

With younger women, you will probably find the Instant Line socials a good way to start - Instant Shine, IO, IH or IG. From your OP, I would tend to suggest you give IS or IG a whirl first as you seem to have few problems getting close to them. IME, they can be superb at encouraging the feelings that contribute so much to a younger woman’s attraction.

IS - Gives a happy and good to be around impression
IG - Is a light smooth/suave status product that is very well suited to some of the situations you describe.

A314 is also a superb status product but not an attractant per-se. Although it can be very attractive, esp when signaling qualities suitable for an LTR. It can also give you an older vibe and signal qualities that may be at odds with the personalities and situations you describe. However it can be superb in work/professional situations. So maybe think hard about that before going that way?

When it comes to more sexual products, the main thing to avoid around younger women is using too much Androstenone. Very generally, younger women are less tolerant of none than older and this roughly correlates with the ages you describe - by their mid 20s, their tolerance is probably rising. To complicate things further, A man’s phero output generally falls as he ages.

So if you are beginning with none, a small amount of Ammo would probably be your best choice as it is a balanced social/sexy product where the none is moderated by equal quantities of other pheros that make it suitable for most environments. It is also easy to moderate further/steer by using the likes of IS and IG alongside it.

The other mix I’m tempted to suggest is MX297/MX390 (same mix, different scents) - Which is IME a superb social lubricant.. However, it is an experimental mix, so there will be no warranty and you would be expected to chip-in your findings to help us learn. :slight_smile:

Thanks for your tips! So it seems like IS is def. recommended. And maybe some IO as well. Ammo prob. sounds like a safer choice for a none product, given the late teens/early 20’s group I’m targeting. And in response to DSouza, I def. don’t want these mones to backfire, so that’s why I’m taking a VERY cautious approach. But while I’ve been doing well dating and attracting mostly introverted 6s/7s, I’m hoping these will help give me more consistent results in hooking some outgoing and “high value” 8s/9s.

Things are going so well for you with initial attraction, rapport and escalation (if you are indeed pulling these chicks) I would keep it simple. I don’t see the point in high -none products.

Buy to-go of Ammo or 2x, Instant Shine, maybe a touch of TuTH or A314 if you can spare the expense. You will get a sample of IO with those orders, another social you can apply to your dating life. That gives you a lot to work with.

Get the gift certificate, keep it simple. If they work, stick to it, if they don’t seem to do much, send them back. You might risk $60 in the interim. It’s really easy to send stuff back but I doubt you will take that recourse.

I’ve found a great girl much younger than myself - and I sincerely believe that pheros initiated the process. IO, IH and Ammo . . . that’s it for me.1. Be yourself2. Be honest3. Be a gentlemanLowtek

IO and Ammo - worked for me.Be honestBe politeBe yourself