I am trying to decide what to wear, I am going to meet a lady I met on a singles chat room, and wondered what I should wear. or if anyone has any suggestions.
We have been chatting for a while online, and are meeting in person for the first time, in a public place.
I expect we are going to be in close range, so I don’t want to wear to much. She is 30 and a smoker, so I am thinking 1-2 sprays of whatever I am going to use. (she has had a kid, if that makes a difference)
My Arsenal to choose from-
Come Talk To Me Mix 2, Ammo, Turn Up The Heat, Instant Female Magic, TAA, P79, P83, Instant Shine, Instant Jerk, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, A314, Instant Gentleman, Mx275-281 (ammo pack) MX200.
I am thinking-
IH, and Ammo (or MX275)
She claims to be shy at first meeting people, so I am thinking about CTTM instead of IH or adding IO to the IH and Ammo.
My other thought is IH and Instant Gentleman.
I would like a warm cuddly reaction, but be able to control it, if she is crazy. I don’t think she is nuts, but I don’t want to create another stalker.
no I don’t smoke, but I do know that smoking diminishes your ability to smell, similar to age, as you get older your ability to smell degrades slowly.
how much differance in smelling ability depends on the length of time the person has smoked and age.
I am suspecting 1/3 reduction in ability over a standard 30 yearold, so I will use an extra spray of some pheros.
I’d pretty much be using what you are thinking to use yourself, and it’s a shame you don’t have any P74 becuase I can see a need for this putative in any type of mix such as this.
My suggestion:
Ammo (or MX275, as I believe it is ammo that is P74 based)
IG
and either CCTM2 or IH + IO
If you decide to throw anything else on, consider Instant Shine.
Thanks for the suggestions, I went with the following combo-
1 drop A314 inner arm
1 spray Instant Honesty x4 inner forearm
2 sprays Instant Openness x2 (wrists, back of the neck)
2 sprays MX275 chest and back of the head/neck
2 blots Turn Up The Heat, on collar bones, (turned bottle over on finger, touched collar bone) [right where her nose was when we hugged ]
(2 sprays, 2 locations means one spray per spot)
She was generally relaxed and happy for the evening. She is giggly as she was on the phone and our chats. No, nothing happened more than a couple of lingering hugs, as it was the first time we met, but by the end of the evening she was already making plans to meet again
We were both Happy, open, slightly nervous, as we were meeting cold, but we had chatted online and the phone. Had a light dinner and went out and talked for ~3 hours watching the storms roll in.
In talking since, she mentioned that she was thinking about going for a kiss on the last hug of the evening, but the first meeting, getting to know each other was a little interesting, she wanted to make sure it wasn’t just nerves or something else. She also mentioned she wanted to be sure I felt the same way.
Now this sounds like an interesting insight into the female mind. The feelings of nervousness and wanting to kiss are kind of indistinguishable, and it takes some effort/time to “make sure” what the stimulus is. Good post
