Think of it this way: you performed a little community service. That is, hot women need to be blown off once in while so they don’t get too full of themselves. Keeps the playing field a little more level. On the other hand, hopefully they didn’t think you were gay (kidding!).
LMAO
, well community service definitely looks good on an application, so I’ll just list “Blew off hot girls to lower their self esteem” to my list of recent accomplishmets.![]()
This is why I’m glad our minds forget. Don’t worry about it though in a month you will forget all about it. If girls approched you like this once then it could also happen again but next time you will know what to do
you need to make mistakes to learn from them.
One time when I was playing pokemon on my gameboy, I was going through long grass, and all these low level pokemon kept popping up. So I got into the habit of just pressing “run” everytime I went into battle.
Then a “shiny” pokemon came out (the odds of getting one of these is like 50000:1), but I pressed “run” accidentally - as I was in the habit of doing so.
So I totally know how you feel.
Dude, heed this advice.
If you are looking for something, talk to every single girl you meet. It only gets easier, look at them they will give you a reason whether you want to talk to them or not that is the only thing you must decide is if you want to.
Talk about their clothes, earrings or necklace… those are openers, else you are jsut another guy who can;t talk to them… all the phero’s in the world will not do everything for you,
To quote myself.
“This is not *uck me juice, you have to work it a little bit.”-djAndarial
That’s some good advice right thar. Thanks dj, but I think what did it was the fact that I’m not used to opening sets. One girl? Easy. 5 smoking hot girls at once who blow my friends completely off and single me out? Definitely new waters for me.
But I’d love for some of you to give me advice on how to open sets because I’m still not use to that yet.
When it comes down to five girls obviously you are not going to get with all of them so just try to focus on the best one there, make most eye contact with her and just single her out so you don’t stress yourself out and lose your chances with all of them because one is definately better than zero. It will actually be better than if it was just one girl alone because when she is with her friends and she sees that you are focusing on her when there are more girls around her than she will feel better about herself and show more interest in you. i did this and it worked. her friend even told me that my attention to her when her friends were around was what got her to like me.
Perhaps it was an old habit, dying hard. Or maybe even just an old fear, or and old behavior, or perhaps you yet have the training to handle such an event.
If it is something unexpected and perhaps new, you don’t have the know-how to deal, but that can change.
Here is my suggestion based upon my own experiences…
Be prepared to be dazzled by the body language being thrown at you. You may feel heady, or giddy, or the center of attention. This feeling is intoxicating and can pleasantly cloud your mind. So much so that you are in shock and fail to go to the next step… Getting the number.
So, now the only thing to do is to mentally prepare for the next time this event occurs. I would offer that it is best to remember the feeling of those chicks and your friends… And next time, challenge yourself to get the number. Will yourself to conquer whatever stopped you last time, be it fear, being in awe, drunk on the feeling, or shyness… Conquer whatever it was simply by willing yourself to ask for the number.
Forgive yourself for your first experience. To make a cake you must break some eggs.
Simple Statistics. Be willing to talk to 100 girls and be rebuffed or rejected. Out of those 100, you can expect a percentage to be interested in you.
Guys I want to thank you all for your support, this is a great community.
I have isolated my reasons for my failure Friday night and here they are:
1.)
Shock- caused by my lack of experience because I’ve NEVER been approached by so many girls at one time, NEVER. So you guys definitely hit that one on the head. Overall I think I can easily remedy this by just getting into more situations like this and working through them.
2.)
Fear of Failure- This is my MAIN cause and this stretches back since my early years of school. I hate losing. Now I’ve of course gotten better at it hence why pheros and my game in general are working 10x better than it used to. But as sig and dj have stated I don’t think I’m completely over it.
I’ve always been a cautious person, I like to enter situations where my chance of success is almost guaranteed(not really in phero testing but mostly in life itself). Only very recently have I come out of my shell but even with reading the Ladder Theory, and other things I still can’t shake this fear completely.
Well chasing and nailing girls left 'n right in college ain’t all it’s cut out to be. I was pretty active and it is extremely energy and time consuming and interferes with academic success. Plus, college students are so loaded with STDs I thought my dick was gonna fall off a couple times. They knew me by name at the campus health clinic. If I had it all to do again, I’d hit the books a lot more and ignore the babes most of the time. Plenty of time later when you have money and position.
^^I agree because my grades have been slipping in math but thankfully I have plenty of time to bounce back(plus I’ve been owning all these quizzes).
I think I’ll cool off for a while until my grades are secure again.
rofl… good laughs right there
well just remember KTrain I’m in the same age group as you are I am probably experiencing the same situations as you are so if there is anything I can help you with I will
Thanks man, it’s always good to have fellow teens on the forums! I accepted your friend request too so it looks like we’re friends!![]()
PS: Reclipse and Leaf, I’ll send you guys requests soon too, can’t believe I already haven’t.![]()
If you have questions - I’ll be glad to help. I tutor maths and physics (specifically electronics, programming, and computer systems) - so I do know my stuff ![]()
Send me a PM or something if you’re having trouble!
Thanks LeafStamp, I’ll do that! Right now though, I believe I just need to focus, and I’ll be ok, but I’ll definitely use you as a life line if I’m drowning in confusion!![]()
Thanks buddy!
P79 my friend…few shots of that will get ya focused..I’d do it before a study binge and the day of a test.
But yeah, dont sweat the small stuff man..Ive done it before(think there may be a thread floating around about it). Just use that as the fuel for the next time.
Hey imsoalive, how do you use P79 in your mixes? I heard it’s an intensifier but I didn’t know it allowed for more focus.
Same here, I’ve yet to get anything from p79 on myself or on others. Remember its a Putative. That said, I never seem to get self effects -_-