I’ve been out with this girl about 3 times previously, finally had her come over last night for wine and a movie. 1 spray of TUTH 1 hour before she came over, 1 spray 5 minutes right before meeting her. Immediately she seemed a little guarded and hesitant on the couch, and even crossed her arms slightly turning away from me. Previously I had tried A314 with IG on her and it seemed to work well. I thought this last time I’d go in for the kill.
The night ended with her giving me a kiss and that was it. I’m wondering if the TUTH may have turned her off instead?
She’s 32, caucasian, 2 kids. I’m 35, Asian. Any advice would be appreciated.
Pardon my limited expertise, but in my experience in talking and hanging with more mature women, and as a woman. I’m guessing that TUTH did have its effect on her. Ive read on the forums and believe personally, that despite the effects of pheromones, one can still choose their conscious actions/response. She might have sensed its effects on her which is precisely why she reacted the way she did? Simply because she might not have been ready for that step.
OR, it might have just been her time of her month or something else that happened that affected her mood that night.
Also I suggest pairing TUTH with a softener like instant shine (instant mood lightener) or IG (to make her feel safe) might help the mood.
At 32, Its not likely to be an OD-level dose but this does describe an absolute classic negative reaction to None. I’ve found this before where a woman might be insanely horny and loving every minute of it in a fun/uninhibited place like a club or party can be tetchy, uncomfortable and avoidant of you when sitting beside you/hanging-out on the sofa. I have ended-up with me sitting at one end and she, edging further and further away till she was perched on the armrest at the very furthest away end from me! :o Next time, a different mix had much better responses and doing the “ride-em cowboy” thing across the sofa, floor etc and left me with one of the worst cases of carpet burns I’ve ever had!
She was simply not in the mood to get comfortable with feeling very horny about you, so instead felt a degree of discomfort - some social buffers may have helped. IO or IH and some IS to help the feelgood aspects prevail.
Then, as the engagement/comfort/uninhibited mood takes hold and the wine goes down, you either add or increase the TUTH dose as required - This can often lead to a very different result.
A314 is similarly difficult - it can be a bit too serious for just cuddling-up but that depends on the woman and her individual response to it, 32 is in the frame certainly and she already responds to it but I’d maybe suggest some IH/IS or P74 as well as TUTH to help get it comfortable/relaxed enough.
I think you should have buffered it.
And also, it would probably be better to test on other people to find your sweet spot before you scare your date off.
I don’t think you overdosed, but like the others said, you pretty much just wore straight TUTH without buffering it. It needs to be buffered. Instant Shine, Instant Openness, or TAC (my favorite) would be great for this. Test some combinations out first before you start wearing it in situations like what you described.
NORMALLY, when you hook someone with a product or mix, “I SAY” you can take whatever got you in the door wherever you want it to go. I said all that to say, since she bit on A314 and IG, it very well “”““COULD””“” have gotten you more action. You probably have a STATUS GIRL on your hands.
Not to worry, MOST MEN freak out when it comes to women, and they blow it OFTEN.
LESSON LEARNED: If it’s NOT broke, don’t break it to fix it.
