wow. loaded question. how long is a piece of string?
the short answer is: alot
if the only reason for grouping them into a category is because they “make you comfortable or aroused” then I think you missed the subtlety of each pheromone.
if I were to toss you into a mosh pit with a fluffy down pillow, wouldn’t you be comfortable? I’ve met your requirements, since that’s what a pillow accomplishes.
do the same thing in front of a warm fire, and the response is different, though the pillow is the same.
Ammo is socially sexual, turn Up The Heat is blatantly sexual. you wouldn’t walk up to a girl and say “wanna f***?” even though you’d get lots of action, you’d also get slapped a lot. you might even get ignored.
Ammo would say “I’m sexy, your sexy, just let that thought stick for a while…” you’re being socially sexy, which in my book is called “attractive”
I cannot comment on a314, because I dont own it, but just as different levels of sex appear with pheros, different levels and types of comfort appear with the socials. instant Shine “brightens your day”
instant openness says “I’m comfortable talking with you”
instant honesty is “I’m comfortable sharing things with you”
instant Gentleman is “I’m comfortable feeling safe with you”
as far as finding the right combo to wear, it depends on how YOU act when the pheros open the encounter. often the advice here is to start with the light hearted ones, then work your way into more serious pheros once you know how to use them. they will not do the work for you, they will only enhance what you already are, and make the opportunities for you to interact more frequent.
there are tonnes of posts about how to go about doing this, and many more that describe, with more subtle, accurat means, the differences between them. the search tool is your friend.
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