Hey all.
All good information. This is something I’ve done a lot of research into and concluded that it is likely a combination of the following in my case:
Sleep/Energy: This always occurs late in the day.
Anxiety/Psychological: It is in my mind the entire time “Get it up, don’t fuck up just get it up and keep it up”. Also, I am all about performance rather than enjoying the moment.
Potentially other pills I’m taking: When I meet a girl for the first time (online dating), due to nervousness, I’ll take 1-2 Gravol tablets. Look those up if you don’t know what they are.
Energydrink: When I know I’m going to have sex I’ve been drinking half to a full of the 250ml energydrinks thinking that increased blood flow will help keep my boner up too.
Anyway, update:
Wednesday night I met a girl from online dating. Brought her back to my place. We had sex. But I was having difficulties keeping an erection. I was wearing mones, had taken 2 gravols, downed an energydrink, etc. I ended up doing a good job for her in the end, but I’m just unsatisfied with myself. I don’t want erection problems AT ALL. It’s embarrassing, but I also realized that a huge amount of guys have it, so it’s nothing new to women. In fact, if you’re a guy that can be rock solid without any problems, and not cum fast, you’re very rare to a woman.
Saturday night (last night) she came over. So this is our 2nd time. I only wore TUTH, no gravol, no energydrink. I was well rested, even though it was about 11pm (I got up around 10:30am that day, so running on 12 hours awake at this point). And seeing as it was the 2nd time meeting, not as nervous. So last night I had absolutely no problems. Got hard, and fucking stayed hard. Fucked her for 2 and a half hours. The girl was dizzy all night due to the chemical release that women experience during sex. She basically said it was the best sex she’s had in an extremely long time. Basically I rocked it like I used to before I had any problems.
Again, sometimes I’ve been able to rock a girl like this during the past few years, so by no means do I think i’m cured. I just think that there’s something or multiple things different from my 2nd time with her that allow me to perform better than the first.
So basically, the reason i started this thread was to see if mones were the problem. Likely that’s not the case. I wore TUTH in the 2nd time with her. Although in the first time with her I wore IH IS TUTH A314. So potentially one of the others (or a combination of many) hindered me, but I find that unlikely.
Potentially the gravol pills are causing me problems. Maybe the effects of those pills are effecting my performance.
Maybe it’s the energydrink? I’ve googled this extensively and gotten most people saying no it’s fine because it increases bloodflow, but also others saying no it’s a problem and don’t do it (not related to the crash at the end). I’m not sure about this one either.
Ultimately I think the anxiety and psychological thing is still my problem. I don’t know if it’s so much anxiety of meeting a girl and having sex with her same night, or if it’s the anxiety of “don’t fuck up”.
Anyway, feel free to keep commenting. I’ll read all comments.
I suppose the only way for me to get to the bottom of this is next time I have a new girl, try to run the same things (no gravol, no energydrink, ensure not tired, etc) and see what happens. If it happens again, it must be anxiety over it being the first time meeting a girl.