I sense you are under control of the Confirmation Bias; the tendency to
look for what confirms what we want to be true rather than to be open to
look at both sides of the coin. But, that’s okay, we’re all victims to that
and I am no exception and you might believe I am biased towards wanting
to find studies that suggest that women get more benefits from vaginal
orgasm rather than masturbation orgasms, and you’re biased to the opposite.
But that’s totally fine with me, we’re all just human beings, so it’s cool.
Okay, you say that there is no greater health benefits in vaginal sex
compared to masturbation? Well, look at this very recent study (1):
“Results. A wide range of better psychological and physiological health
indices are associated specifically with penile–vaginal intercourse. Other
sexual activities have weaker, no, or (in the cases of masturbation and
anal intercourse) inverse associations with health indices. Condom use
appears to impair some benefits of penile–vaginal intercourse. Only a
few of the research designs allow for causal inferences.” (1, p.1336).
In this study (1) the author made a systematic review on the past and
recent research of health benefits through penile-vaginal intercourse and
he also compared it with masturbation (such as clitoral manipulation as
fancy as it sounds). It was also found in the review that penile-vaginal
intercourse was better than masturbation in both men and women…
But hey! Let’s get even more specific! Let’s look at others studies
regarding health benefits from vaginal penetration compared with
masturbation. For example, studies (2-5) show that more penile-vaginal
intercourses and which lead to orgasms compared to orgasms through
masturbation are associated with higher satisfaction in relationships
compared to if they got orgasms from masturbation alone (2). Vaginal
orgasms are associated with better psychological functioning such as
more sexual desire and higher satisfaction with life (3). Vaginal orgasms
are associated with lower blood pressure compared to masturbation
orgasms (4). Vaginal orgasms are associated with happier marriages (5)
which does not surprise me at all. Also from one of the studies’ abstracts:
“It has often been asserted that all sexual behaviours are equal.
However, empirical research demonstrates that different sexual
behaviours differ in many physiological and psychological domains.
These differences are remarkably consistent in revealing an
association between specifically penile-vaginal intercourse and
indices of better physiological and psychological function. Other sexual
behaviours (masturbation, partner masturbation, oral sex, anal sex, or
any other sex that excludes penile-vaginal intercourse) are either
unrelated or occasionally negatively related to indices of physiological and
psychological function. Recent research also indicates that vaginal orgasm
differs physiologically and psychologically from clitoral orgasm, and that
vaginal orgasm is related to better psychological health.” (5, p.393).
Now, these are the studies, regarding vaginal orgasms being more (not
only) healthier than masturbation. But wait, there’s even more; you said
that testosterone levels are not increased if you stop masturbate. Well, I
have also read the one you wrote here, long time ago, and there’s news:
After three weeks of sexual abstinence and no masturbation, healthy men
in their mid 20’s, display higher testosterone levels (6). Finally, when it
comes to effects of not masturbating, let’s look at what normal people
have to say about that; many men (not all men) report that they’ve never
felt so much more alive, happy, confident after stopped masturbating (7).
You also misinterpret my talking about social proof, I was never talking
about “no masturbation leading to more social proof”. I was talking about
having sex with women, as a man, will shine through you when other
women observe you. And to end all this with a great comment from too:
“We must remember also that this article is written by a woman
aimed primarily at men. Women will always have a vested interest
in controlling mens behaviour, particularly sexual behaviour.” (8).
I’ll leave you with that random comment for you to figure out why
I chose that comment in this particular thread and discussion!
\\ AplAy ///
References
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Brody, S. (2010). The Relative Health Benefits of Different Sexual Activities. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7, 1336–1361.
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Brody, S. & Miguel Costa, R. (2009). Satisfaction (Sexual, Life, Relationship, and Mental Health) Is Associated Directly with Penile–Vaginal Intercourse, but Inversely with Other Sexual Behavior Frequencies. Journal of Sex Medicine, 6, 1947–1954.
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Brody, S. (2007). Vaginal orgasm is associated with better psychological function. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 22, 2, 173-191.
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Brody, S. (2006). Blood pressure reactivity to stress is better for people who recently had penile–vaginal intercourse than for people who had other or no sexual activity. Biological Psychology, 71, 214–222.
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Brody, S. (2006). Penile – vaginal intercourse is better: evidence trumps ideology. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 21, 4, 393-403.
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Exton, M., S., et al., (2001). Endocrine response to masturbation-induced orgasm in healthy men following a 3-week sexual abstinence. World Journal of Urology, 19, 377-382.
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