Welcome, Grumble, our newest pherowarrior! Fighting off the competition, eh? I like the sound of that!
A314 is an excellent product though perhaps not for parties or clubbing … more for when you want to be taken seriously in a quiet, mature & manly fashion. If you’re wearing it socially you’ll want to leaven the mix with something light and smooth like Instant Shine or Instant Openness. Turn Up the Heat comes in when you want to take a woman who’s already definitely interested to higher pitch … both the A314 and TUTH are heavy hitters.
You can use any of the products (other than the colognes) with other scent. Usually people apply pheros first, then cover with fragrance.
I would recommend picking up a To Go sized IFM to a squirt to the back of the neck to really get her gushy and comfortable with you. Some users report it has a “grumpy” effect on males, so maybe you can stave off the competition and win the girl, all at the same time?
Everyone else here made some really great suggestions, too. Be sure to let us know what works for you, babe!
She is 21 and i’m a few years older. She is pretty easy going and has a great sense of humour (and looks hot to boot). We have been flirting a fair amount though i’m getting mixed signals. Maybe some instant honesty would help?
Who knows if it doesn’t work on her, there will be other women about!